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- Question: Text Analysis Question?
- Question: When is it too old to make friends? I don't have friends since I was in high school?
- Question: RL Friend Unfriended Me For A Coronavirus Opinion ?
- Question: Why is my friend giving the cold shoulder to my other friend?
- Question: My best friend is drifting from me, what do I do?
- Question: Is it wrong for my friend to not pay me for the work I do for her ?
- Question: My friend told me to kill myself because i like kpop, what do i do?
- Question: I use to want friends but nobody would be my friend. So now i saying f@ck friends ?
- Question: My aunt and uncle, both seniors, have underlying health issues. My uncle has been out with friends, I think it's unfair to my aunt, agree?
- Question: Do you have any "sometime-y friends" and how do u handle them?
- Question: Do u think people will start going savage and just having underground bbq's, parties, and play dates after a while? ?
- Question: What to do about an obnoxious friend?
- Question: Did I do the right thing not to let her stay with me?
- Question: I bought a camaro, a corvette, and a 2 story house. why aren't my friends getting jealous of me? ?
- Question: I found out one of my high school friends is transgender now. What should I do?
- Question: Is best way to deal with narcissist/self-centered idiots is to ridicule them?
- Question: Should I say sorry to my coworker? ?
- Question: Do you have any other friends who know about this app?
- Question: Should I feel bad? or I feel this way because he's a narcissist and I'm a good person?
- Question: I gave my friend toilet paper and other supplies that are hard to find.?
- Question: My sister (14) has added all these random people’s numbers from tik tok in a groupchat and she was FaceTiming 85 people. I’m worried. Help?
- Question: Did I just get Meetoo?
Question: Text Analysis Question? Posted: 24 Mar 2020 06:03 PM PDT If someone texts back same to you if you text something sentimental is this positive or negative or neutral? |
Question: When is it too old to make friends? I don't have friends since I was in high school? Posted: 24 Mar 2020 04:14 PM PDT |
Question: RL Friend Unfriended Me For A Coronavirus Opinion ? Posted: 24 Mar 2020 04:14 PM PDT Hello. My friend who is a real life friend and ex colleague unfriended me on Instagram and on Facebook, she has me on limited viewing. Long story short, this person kept telling me that I need to stay home and my friends who own small businesses need to close down. In response, I assured that my outings has been limited with going to the store to buy milk, water (I'm from Southern California) and fresh fruit for myself and my elderly parents. I also said some people don't have the luxury to stay home as they work in medical, postal, etc. As for my friends, they need their business. It's all they have. Yes, they too are being responsible. After that comment, my friend of 5 years removed me from IG and limited Facebook. I reached out via text and she felt that if I had an opinion, I should have texted this to her. Not in her open fourm. I gently said it wasn't an attack but just an opinion, if anyone posts anything it's open for discussion unless locked. I thought it was fair, however when a friend of hers tried to butt in, someone I didn't know. I did snap at her and told her she didn't know me, don't parent me.. I ended it with tell my nursing friends this and come back at me. So yes, that was snappy. I sent my friend an olive branch which originally was a kind gesture to help calm their anxiety. My friend said that she needed space and if I want to comment on her Facebook post in the future, to text her my response negative or not. Advice? What else can I do? Thank you. |
Question: Why is my friend giving the cold shoulder to my other friend? Posted: 24 Mar 2020 03:31 PM PDT so I went out to this restaurant prior to the covid outbreak and I invited another friend along, he just ignored him and didn't want to talk. my other friend offered him to pay for his dessert and he didn't even bother to care. so when we all went home he just walked away not taking. |
Question: My best friend is drifting from me, what do I do? Posted: 24 Mar 2020 02:03 PM PDT We are both in 8th grade and we've known each other since 3rd grade. She's had it rough mentally lately, and she never talks to me anymore. She has scoliosis, she's underweight, she's depressed, her mom isn't a good influence, etc. Her parents have been separated since she was a toddler, and they share custody. Her dad (and his girlfriend) know that she's suffering, probably more than I do. We've talked and why say I have to try and do more for her, and I've tried... She's addicted to her Xbox and is always laying in bed playing games and such but somehow never has the time to text me. I have tried and tried again to reach out but she keeps shutting me out. I recently moved too, so we aren't even in the same school anymore. I've tried for months and I'm tired. I don't know where to go next. My heart is breaking. She doesn't want to talk to me. I don't want to loose her. I can't loose her. Should I go through with my plan to not text her unless she texts me to see if she really doesn't care? Because that is where I'm at. I'm always initiating everything. I don't know how much longer I can put up with this. |
Question: Is it wrong for my friend to not pay me for the work I do for her ? Posted: 24 Mar 2020 01:37 PM PDT Hi i have a long term friend. I'm 21 and I have my own business company going on. I dye hair in my house and girls will pay me because I get lots of compliments on my hair colors and ideas and every body compliments me on that. So my friend always wants me to dye her hair for free don't get me wrong I'm not money hungry. This is a constant thing with my friend I always dye her hair and she doesn't pay me and I never had a problem with it but now I do I feel like you can pay me something if I'm always dying it for her. When I do dye her hair I never get a thank you we'll only once. but other then that she never thanks me for dying her hair for her. She only brags about how gorgeous she's gonna look with her new color and how she's going to attract all the guys and she never thanks me. When other girls pay me they always say I'm very creative and talented and that feels good to hear. I also design clothes or dye my clothes different colors everybody says I'm a creative girl and I should open up my own business shop. My friend now wants me to dye her clothes for her she never says I'm creative or give me props it's like I can't even talk to her about it she'll just switch the topic if I talk about something serious about it. she just feels like i have to do everything free because we're Best friends. Anything I do creative for her it's never props it's like my friend just uses me to steal my ideas and make it seem like she's the one creative and makes them. What to do ? I have asked her to pay me before she just laughed and said She's not paying me, she thinks that I'm petty for asking her to pay me. |
Question: My friend told me to kill myself because i like kpop, what do i do? Posted: 24 Mar 2020 12:00 PM PDT |
Question: I use to want friends but nobody would be my friend. So now i saying f@ck friends ? Posted: 24 Mar 2020 11:38 AM PDT |
Posted: 24 Mar 2020 09:06 AM PDT My aunt has immunosuppressive condition, so I think my uncle is putting her in jeopardy by seeing his male friends out of the housd in case one of them has corona and he brings it home with him. He's has several heart attacks himself. |
Question: Do you have any "sometime-y friends" and how do u handle them? Posted: 24 Mar 2020 08:41 AM PDT A "sometimey" friend is one who only finds use for you when they want something from u...a listening ear to vent their problems, money, to use your connection for free backstage passes to their favorite artist, etc....Yet, when u have a problem and want to talk or need them, they are nowhere to be found. Yet they pop out of nowhere after time passes to start the cycle again. |
Posted: 24 Mar 2020 08:39 AM PDT If the stay home orders continue over summer |
Question: What to do about an obnoxious friend? Posted: 24 Mar 2020 07:49 AM PDT I invited a friend over for the first time recently and she made a point to let me know that a mutual friend's TV was 3x bigger than mine. Not just that, but she complained about how "noisy" she thought the ceiling fan was, why I had so much furniture, why I was dancing (which is something I always did around her), and that my trash can wasn't motion sensor like hers, why I needed to use so "many" ingredients to make chili, and how empty she thought my fridge was. And to top it off, left the room to use the bathroom and she jumped up fast to put her hoodie and shoes on, instead of just saying 'hey I'm going to go ahead & leave.' 35 year old 🤦♀️ now I know why it took me three years to invite her over. |
Question: Did I do the right thing not to let her stay with me? Posted: 24 Mar 2020 07:33 AM PDT I was at a party and the host ask me to drive Jane home as she was too drunk to drive. I agreed as I did not want her in a car accident. The host said I will call her husband and tell him you are bringing her home. When I got to her house, her husband met me a the door and would not let his wife come in the house. He said "She is not coming in this house until she sobers up". OH CRAP. What am I going to do? I can't leave her there drunk on her door step. I called the party host and ask her what I should do. She said to take her to your home and take her to her house in the morning when she was sober. I was not comfortable having a married woman sleep at my house over night. I was afraid of what her husband might do. He also seemed to me to be drunk but I didn't know what else to do so I took her home. The next morning she wanted to know how she ended up at my house and I told her. She was outraged. She said "I am not going back and live with that S.O.B. of a husband". Can I stay with you until I can find a place to stay. I told her no but I would help her find a place to stay. I was afraid of what her husband might do and/or I would get involved in a divorce case. Please tell me if I did the right thing here. Should I have let her stay with me? |
Posted: 24 Mar 2020 06:48 AM PDT im buying all these expensive things with the intention of making my friends jealous, but they seem to be proud of my success and not jealous. what do i do? |
Question: I found out one of my high school friends is transgender now. What should I do? Posted: 24 Mar 2020 03:44 AM PDT I haven't spoken to him since about 1992, we went to high school together in the 80s, found out from other friends I reconnected with that he identifies as a woman now and is transgender now and went through the surgery and stuff, what should I do about this? I just never expected this from him, he was a football player and everything. |
Question: Is best way to deal with narcissist/self-centered idiots is to ridicule them? Posted: 24 Mar 2020 03:09 AM PDT I have one roommate who is completely inconsiderate for others, doesn't feel the need to be considerate for others. To him, when he does what he supposed to do such as "cleaning up his own dishes" it's a huge favor that he's done. He only cares that agreements are kept when others try to break it while he tries to take advantage and step onto other people's boundaries. Then when I ridicule the crap out of him and cussing him out for his actions, he says I'm harsh. But I'm too smart to play into his game. Is ridiculing the best way to deal with them? He probably wished that everyone is nice and passive so he can prey on them but my personality is similar to Gordon Ramsay and I don't put up nor tolerate bullshit. The way I ridicule him. I list things he has done and why he's a useless piece of ****. He never apologies, never takes responsibilities, he never takes ownership and expects others to be polite and apologetic and whines like a little ***** that I am harsh to him. But I just list facts. I list why he's a useless piece of **** that is a liability to society using his actions as an evidence. So what I say is not harsh, it's just a fact. We got him to agreeing to breaking the lease. He was whiny like a ***** because he didn't want to pay his share. Other roommates who are on my side argued/convinced him to agree to break the lease. Next I should start ridiculing his education and job and why he's useless but I don't want to do that. I mean, no disrespect to people with his degree and job, but he makes those people look bad because his value is so low. He's a salesman but he knows little that products sell themselves not him. |
Question: Should I say sorry to my coworker? ? Posted: 24 Mar 2020 02:16 AM PDT I work at the airport and my coworker and I were really good friends for a while he was the coworker I talked to the most and got along with the most we got into an argument and we haven't talked in about a week and we have to work together all the time and we don't talk he'll try not to make eye contact with me or he'll move away when I'm talking to another coworker and he'll sit far away from me I do the same but I don't know if I should just say sorry and be friends with him again or not but I don't want him to use that against me if we argue again we got into an argument because my supervisor shows favoritism towards him and makes me do more worm than him and he got away with something he was told to do because he was too sick which was a lie and my supervisor made me do it instead we started arguing about how lazy he was because he always does things like that at work everyday and we started insulting each other and he pretty much started telling me he's better than me in any way after that I stopped talking to him and he tried talking to me again and again that day and he was laughing and was asking me what was wrong and I told him he was just a b*tch but I was just ignoring him because I was annoyed I don't know if I should just be the bigger person and apologize because I don't think he will what should I do? |
Question: Do you have any other friends who know about this app? Posted: 24 Mar 2020 02:03 AM PDT Soon after I came to Malaysia, many friends around me were using a shopping app called fanmart. They all said that it was good in quality, cheap and good in service. Do you have any other friends who know about this app? |
Question: Should I feel bad? or I feel this way because he's a narcissist and I'm a good person? Posted: 23 Mar 2020 11:25 PM PDT One of my roommate has done the following: 1. Eats other people's food without permission 2. Leaves his clothes in the dryers and washers 3. When confronted regarding #2, asks that I put it into the dryer when #2 is him leaving his clothes in the washer 4. He does not throw out the trash 5. He does not clean up his own dishes and piles them up in the sink 6. He used to run dish washing machine at 6 am woke me up 7. He used to run loud powerful blender at 6 am and woke me up 8. Shouts my name at me while I'm asleep to check to see if I'm asleep but he wakes me up 9. He leaves his stuff all over the kitchen and doesn't clean up after himself 10. He tries to step into my boundaries by coming into my room and leaving without turning off the light, trying to argue with me in a passive aggressive manner and more Because of this, I've ridiculed him, yelled at him and cussed him out for doing what I listed. He says what I said is harsh but for him, what is common sense, takes enormous amount of effort to convince him because he's so dense. Also he's all about making agreements based on the terms he wants. However, one of the other roommate convinced him to break the lease. He tried to ask rest of us who came into consensus to break the lease for equal share of penalty to compensate him for asking him to break the lease but he agreed to us and compromise to pay his penalty to break the lease. I do not think I was abusive and he He claims I was harsh but he never admits to what he did wrong and expects others to keep up to an agreement that he frequently breaks. I know he's a self-centered selfish narcissist psychopath that deserve far worst. He liked to test stepping into my boundaries in a passive aggressive manner to see if he can get away with it and I was not having it. I listed facts and told him he's a crooked sleazy pig that adds no value to society like cancer. But what I said is true. I should not feel guilty because he's trying to play his narcissist game of guilt tripping others while he never admits never apologizes and doesn't like being called out nor doesn't like it when the terms suggested are against what he wants. Also, When I told him he's selfish, he doesn't care what I think of him and he doesn't need to be considerate. It takes so much energy to get him to do what he's supposed to do like throwing out the trash and cleaning up his own dishes and mess, and he tries to make it look like he's doing everyone a favor when he reluctantly takes the responsibility that he's supposed to take swiftly in the first place. I shouldn't give into a narcissist child like that right? I have no ******* regrets and I hope he gets fired from his lowlife loser job. We all decided to agree to break the lease and he was getting whiny that he's losing money and tried to suggest a crooked deal like a sleazy dumb salesman he is and I was not having it. He agreed to break the lease and will pay his share. **** you all bad roommates, you deserve suffering because you're a terrible person. Bad people that are sleazy, immoral, crooks deserve eternal suffering. I'm nice and lenient to kind people. But I am no longer nice to those who are sleazy crooked narcissist sociopaths that tries to take advantage of and prey on hardworking nice people. No mercy for scums that needs to be removed from Earth for you |
Question: I gave my friend toilet paper and other supplies that are hard to find.? Posted: 23 Mar 2020 10:31 PM PDT Ground beef is hard to find and sold out everywhere. She found some and bought the three limit. Would not share or call me to let me know so I can drive and get some myself. I have done so much for her and done helping her after she rubs in what she has when she knows I am doing without and I have helped her with everything that she needed. Am I wrong for feeling that way? |
Posted: 23 Mar 2020 09:36 PM PDT Long story short my sister has been talking to all these random people she doesn't even know who they are. I'm mostly worried because most of them seem over 18 and she is only 14. I'm getting really anxious about this but she thinks im over reacting and my parents don't really care either. I'm really worried about her. Help? |
Question: Did I just get Meetoo? Posted: 23 Mar 2020 06:29 PM PDT Me and this woman at my job, who we will call Jasmine, started working together at my job at O'hare Airport. After working together that one time we started to forge an on-the-job friendships. Reminder: Me and her were just friends and were never physically attractive to each other. We would often talk about talk about anything outside of work. She would often visit my work area and i would sometimes visit hers. I would even offer to assist her with her duties once mine were done. Fast forward 3 months later I got hurt on the job and took a 3 day leave of absence. When I returned, my friend Jasmine acted cold towards me and did not greet me at all. She did not want a hug either. I was hurt by her actions and want to just commit suicide. That same day I got call to the managers office and he said that Jasmine file a sexual harassment complaint on me. According to the complaint, I was flirting and saying things that she though were inappropriate. First of all, I'm not attracted to her. Second, she never complained in the past about my behavior. In fact she would laugh and all of my cocky attitude and jokes. She started this friendship with me first and complied. And third, I'm the one who got hurt and I return with this bullshit. You know what the manager excuse was? "She just didn't know how to tell me to go away and leave her alone". So she pretended to like out of fear. Needless to say we are not friends anymore and i no longer fell comfortable working around women. |
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