I went on a date with a girl I really like she didnt feel anything with me but wished she did. Well I waited a month and figured **** it ill ask her out again and then if she still didnt feel anything I wouldnt ask her again about it. I wanted to ask her in person first of all this wasnt me being a pussy. Im a janitor and shes a teacher where I work. They just called off the schools for 3 weeks because of the stupid coronavirus so I wouldnt see her for a while. She also left really early today and I couldnt get the chance to ask her in person. I still have her number and talk to her sometimes. Im always the one that starts any kind of text conversation. Since I couldnt ask her today and now theyll be off for 3 weeks I asked her over text. I didnt want to I knew itd be a bad idea but I didnt want to wait 3 weeks where she could be with someone else. Well I texted her at 5:45 and its 11:03 now. Shes done this before where she hasnt text me in a couple hours. The last time she said she was sorry and very busy that day. Im fine with that I get she has her own problems and a life. Im just having a hard time believing it. Id rather her just tell me no instead of ghosting me about it. Anyways im pretty sure its ghosting and I need to just forget about her. Whats the easiest way to do it because I cant stop thinking about her. Btw she doesnt find me creepy at all she always smiles and waves and says hi when she sees me but **** she might now. 

I'm always being left on delivered or opened on Snapchat and girls never go near me at party's none of them show "the signs that they are stretched to me" and I put myself out there it's not like I'm shy or weird what is it I can add more detail if needed 

Been talking to a guy for 3 months now, we text from morning till night for months and sometimes talk on the phone. We are supposed to meet in June. He said to me tonight after I asked him if he's ok with taking it slow after he said he wants to cuddle and kiss (he already knows) he said "No, actually I think it's a good idea that we go slow, so we have time to really get to know each other" I sad to him I feel the same way so that's good and he said "I want things to last between us and if that's going to happen then we will have to know each other ☺️" then I said what does he exactly mean and he said "I mean I would like to spend my life with you, I know it's still early but I want to settle down with someone and since I have met you and started getting to know you I don't know anyone better to spend my life with than you".  Does it seem like he means it? I mean I'm 20 and he's 24 so I know we both want some kind of affection 

My roommates are my siblings. I save a lot of money having roommates. We all have high-paying jobs, but rent is also expensive. I've only been dating my boyfriend for 3 months. He keeps telling me "you need your own place". I'm comfortable with my living situation and do not plan on changing it until I'm ready. Advice? He has his own place.

So I'll explain the situation, I have a guy best friend who I've known since we were 5 years old, and I fell in love with him, but because I'm an idiot and I didn't move fast enough, another girl came and took him. So for as angry and jealous as I feel, and how much I hate her, I can't help but take notice to the fact that she makes him really happy. So I'm really conflicted. Do I do everything I can to make him come to me, or do I just accept that he's happy and be happy for him, because I'm all reality I'm really happy that he's happy because he's been troubled for years. I just need some tips on how to cope with this, because while he's been laying in bed with HER every night, I've been laying in bed crying my eyes out. I've tried all kinds of coping mechanisms, such as going on walks at my park, playing video games, working out, I even took more hours at work to try to get my mind off of it but it isn't working. I need some help. I don't know what to do. 

A while back, I started talking to a good friend who told me he didn't want a relationship. I respected it, with hopes that he might change his mind over time. I was fine with just talking until we both figured out what we wanted. I was patient with him and showed him how much I cared, without overstepping boundaries. After some time, he told me he still wasn't looking for a relationship with anyone, but four days later got into a relationship with another girl. It hurt me.  Soon after, I reconnected with a guy that I had known in the past. We texted for a week, and met up a few days ago. He works every day and has two jobs, so we met up at night after he got off work, and I ended up staying the night. He was extremely sweet and held good conversations with me. We ended up making out and he cuddled me as he slept. The next day, he told me that he wasn't looking for a relationship anytime soon, but he did like me. He told me he didn't have a lot of time or energy for a relationship, and that he just got out of one recently and needed to be single. He said he just wanted to be honest with me so that I wouldn't get hurt. I don't mind talking to someone without committing anytime soon, but I'm scared that he's going to turn out just like the past guy and I'll be heartbroken again. How do I know if I'm just wasting my time and he's just saying that he doesn't want a relationship because he's just not interested in me specifically? I really like him, but I don't know what to do. He still texts me 24/7 and flirts with me, and has even mentioned hanging out again. I just don't know if he's only interested in being friends with benefits until he finds someone better.

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To make a story short, her boyfriend is manipulative and a pervert. He would fantasize about having threesomes with all three of us and tried to sabotage our friendship. Then he would come to me about literally all of his relationship problems with her every time he suspects something is up, because he was too much of a wuss to talk things through with her. Eventually she broke up with him because he made up lies to the point where the straw broke the camel's back. Fast forward to about two to three months later, she and I would get in an argument because I told her that she should look into working a yearly job and not just a seasonal one every year, if she wants to make more money and friends. I told her this after she said she was lonely. She takes offense and says "I work very hard." Right. Three months a year is very hard work when you're 22, live with your parents and don't go to college -.- I told her to quit being baby and if she wants to she can cry about it once she gets a reality check. I guess I wasn't really irritated at her but mostly angry at the fact that she let her boyfriend disrespect to that point, even though he manipulated both of us.  The next day, I feel bad about what I've said and apologized to her. Then several hours later she screenshots it on snapchat and I confront her about it because I thought that was kind of weird. She stated she sent it to her mom, which I don't believe because if she did then why would she need to when she could just tell her. She literally gave me the excuse of "snapchat deletes convos" but she already saw my texts and once you see them again, they're gone. The only way she could have done that is if she's saved the texts. Then she says she read them aloud and told her mom in person, which doesn't make sense either cause why would you take a screenshot then. Clearly I'm getting mad over this but it's mostly because she let her boyfriend disrespect me to the point that he did, even though we clearly both were manipulated. Also I've been backstabbed and slandered by a toxic ex-"friend" of the past, which is why that opened up a huge can of worms for me. A lot of people have told me that they're surprised that I was still willing to be friends with her after that incident. I've been wanting to talk to her for a while, but I guess I'm still really mad about the whole thing. I know this whole thing sounds really stupid, but I'm tired of dealing with immature people all because one of them has high functioning autism when I do as well. I'm referring to her, not him. He just happens to be an idiot.  I meant to say ex-boyfriend this whole time.

So I'm 28 I work for a company and I have a crush on my older married boss but I don't want to... a couple years ago I hate to admit but I had an affair with my previous boss and it ended badly and I actually moved to a new city to start over. I have actually have a boyfriend now who is great but for some reason I have an undeniable physical attraction to my boss.. I can't breathe when he's near it's so annoying and he's all I think about.. I caught him looking at my butt twice and it's like he wanted me to notice and that's besides the point. I just don't want to like him anymore and I don't know what to do.. 

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His 19 and im 17 and I love him so much I think about him every day and even have real dreams about him going on vacation with me. he used to hate me like 2 years ago when I used to harass and online stalk him bc of my crush but I've changed now and I think he knows and I want to try to be friends and then more how do I do it (I see him at youth group thats where I see him) also im crying because im worried corona virus will cancel youth group permanently)

I was a dumb 2nd grader. I had a boyfriend and our relationship was on and off the whole year. It's the worse thing I've ever done. I regret it deeply, and I changed drastically. But now my past is coming back. I'm ashamed of myself for ever dating him, so I never brought it up, but for him, he tells people. I have a good reputation, probably the best in my class. I am known as the smart nerd, but once they find out my  past, I'm scared of change. I've been crying and crying, my past is the most horrible thing. And, he's transferring in my class. I'm used to my class, so if he comes, I'm afraid he'll tell people. But I'm extremely scared to tell him to stop talking about the past. Like I said before, I've been crying a lot and I'm scared my friends will find out. Him and I are also going to the same schools for the next...8 years? I'm just so scared and I can't tell him to stop. Any help, please?

So there is a girl that I work with. I catch her looking at me throughtout. Also, she will look at me and then turn her head away really quickly , When I catch her looking at me. She turns her head away so fast. The thing is she said she doesnt like me and im not her type ......

Hey everybody I am looking for advice. To make a very long story short. I have an ex who I still deeply care about but she's a mess. She never had a real father figure in her life, due to such she constantly needs the validation from guys. We broke up a few years back due to being in different states, and she ended up cheating, but even tho it was hard to accept i forgave her. But losing me seemed to ruin her. She started bouncing from guy to guy, having unprotected sex with scumbags. For example she had sex with a guy who cheated on after 2 weeks, got a high school girl pregnant, went back with my ex and then he cheated on her with a minor. This is the type of guy she would have sex with. And instead of learning her lesson, things like this seemed to repeat, faster and faster. She would meet a guy, have unprotected sex with him. Something would happen and she would move on to another guy, repeating the process; over and over.  So over the past 3/4 years, we stayed some what in contact. But we have mutual friends who are concerned about her life style to say the least. And since we have broken up she's been with about 20 guys, and they are the scumbag, get with any thing type. Now my concern is one of the guys is widely known to have herpes, because he is a dog. She really got sick after getting with him and I am concerned she has an STD, yet she refuses to get tested, and get very angry when i bring up her health. How do i talk her into getting tested for her sake?

you know guys that talk about going on diet when they aren't even overweight? or guys that obsess over looking at the gym mirror

Hello, I'm going to have a one hour and half lay over in France. Should i worry about coronavirus? 

When we're with a group, he seems more talkative, but the last couple of times when we're alone, he seemed quiet. I go up to him smiling and I give him a hug and start a conversation. I ask about himself and what he likes to do. When we're talking, he's making eye contact and his posture is good. He also sometimes smiling. But when there's an awkward silence, and instead of leaving he stays instead of making an excuse to leave. Even when others come up to talk to us and later leaves, he still stays. But there are times when I see him and he sees me and I don't go up to him on purpose. And he doesn't even come up to me! But he'll go up to others and start talking with them! And I'm just wondering how come he'll go up to others but not me!

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He acts like hes so tough, so strong, he keeps stepping up to people, including me. I have about had enough of it, im not really a violent person but im tired of his tough act. Talking about he never cries, hes a real man, lol I could make him cry, give 5 mins, 2 mins lol Next time he steps up, should i just teach him a lesson ?

So this question might sound really stupid but I have one ex. He was my first love and was rlly good to me while we were together after we broke up he initially said we should take a break and then we both agreed that we should call it off permanently which I regretted after the breakup and told him I missed him and he said it back. We went back and forth for MONTHS talking and he made it clear that all he wanted was a fwb relationship and didn't wanna go back to our relationship which kinda hurt because I still had feelings for him for a while.  eventually after Christmas I decided to cut it off for good and told him I'm sorry for everything because I didn't wanna go into the New Years feeling bad and haven't talked to him since. It's been almost 3 months. And ofc I wonder how he's doing and he's watched a few of my Snapchat's since then.  he was kinda different after the breakup almost kind of rude but we still ended things amicably. he lives in Raleigh and I still care for the dude ( I mostly over him ) but I don't have a lot of friends and he was like my best friend and I'm worried because of the sickness going around the country. I really want to check up on him but idk if that'll be appropriate. There's just been a case where he lives, what should I do?!

She talks about wanting a future with her kids and me, but then left me for another dude. She taunts me then sends nudes of herself then starts flirting me telling me to come see the kids. I asked her why she picked him over me she responds with cause she can. Tells me she doesn't need me calls me a want not a need. I've supported her and her kids her little boy sees as a father she told no matter what happens she'll never take him away from me, now she tells me I'm not his father and won't let me talk to him. She talks about how this dude supports her kids and I respond with like I've been doing the past three years. This the same person telling me she cant live without me. This is a person that has two kids and lives with her mother and refuses to work. I was trying to build a family with her. How do i move on from someone I loved more than anything. She won't answer my calls or text even when I'm trying to check on the kids. She was all aboard to committing to me then dumps me later in the week.

Beginning, she always talk to me about him, how he made her so happy, which hurted me in someway because she never said that. Sometime we get into a argument about him, because I believed she still love him but can't since he is in prison. That the only reason why she is with me, but she denied, stating she doesn't love him like that anymore but care alot about him. I told her, "if you care and think about him more than me, then something's wrong." She lied to me saying that she has moved on from him and doesn't want to look back anymore, yet he called her and she answered. She finally told me that she can't move on, which got me feeling guilty. She tells me she only love me but I don't believe it. I told her, when I started dating you, I told my ex, i shouldn't be talking/seeing her because it isn't right for my relationship, yet my Gf will tell me that he is just a friend which is untrue. I know when it is her guy friend vs someone she truly love.

I can not get over or stop talking about that my girlfriend slept with someone else while we were broken up. We dated for 3 years and got back together quickly. It's been 7 months back together and we love each other so much. The first relationship ended because of my actions.  How do I get past this?

So there is a girl that I work with. I catch her looking at me throughtout. Also, she will look at me and then turn her head away really quickly , When I catch her looking at me. She turns her head away so fast. The thing is she said she doesnt like me and im not her type ......

My girlfriend can only orgasm while on top of me and oral. I can't give her one while I am on top of her. She told me that her ex boyfriend could give her one often him on top. I've tried ways and still nothing, it's upsetting me. What else can I do? I haven't had trouble doing this with other woman. She's very small and her ex was a petite guy as well. I am 230 pounds 6'3, maybe that is why? 😂

It has to be removed and biopsied and she cannot drive herself..he doesn't drive so she will have to take a cab there and back. He is upset over that and says it is probably nothing anyway...

I have been having sexual intercourse with my girlfriend for some time now. However, she reaches the point of ejaculation and tells me to continue, but 30 minutes later she just doesn't. I dont know what im doing wrong, I tried multiple positions as well and foreplay prior. Nothing works. We both have strong feelings for each other so I ruled out the non attraction possibility.

I don't text my therapist often, but when I do...she never responds! So we were supposed to meet on a Monday but I told her a week in advance that I will not be able to see her on Mondays anymore and if we could switch our meetings to either Tuesdays or Thursdays. I told her this in person and she said she would text me and let me know her availability for either Tuesday or Thursday...she never did. Monday rolls around and she texts me asking me where I am, thinking we were meeting today. I reminded her that I wasn't available Mondays anymore and she said "oh yes, I remember now. What time are you available on Tuesday?" I told her that I will be available after 12pm. She never responded. I then texted her the next day (Tuesday) saying, "you never got back to me with times. I'm not sure if we are meeting today or not". She didn't respond to that either. It's Thursday, and still nothing. She knows I HATE when people don't respond to me because it induces anxiety for me. That's something we talk about during our sessions. Is this enough to find a new therapist?

Whenever I have sex with my girlfriend, I always want to do it in missionary position (me on top of her facing her) because it is more comfortable. Tried her riding me and it was uncomfortable.

Every time I come into a room, he just stares at me with a deathly face and storms off. I am so confused. Why are guys so weird??

Personally I don't think that's true. For example I know plenty of couples from my friends church who are in love, but are remaining celibate until they get married. Also there are asexuals who can be in love but just don't feel sexual attraction.  Isn't romance what separates a relationship and a friendship? Like, I wouldn't hold hands, kiss, cuddle, or be in love or think romantically about my friends but I would with someone I was romantically involved with. Furthermore, if a relationship without sex really was just friendship then logically it would follow that friends with benefits is the same as a relationship.  If relationship - sex = friendship then  Friendship + sex = relationship, though that's not true because you can have a FWB situation but not be in love with them or have feelings for them.

Some people say the first 2 years dont matter but I have been told it's a little different now so you have to know kind of ahead of time. But I am going to college quite soon, and I have absolutely no idea what I want to do. Sometimes I'll be interested in something and itll last for like a week and then I'll lose interest.  I dont know why they put this question in this category. Lol.

I met a man about six months ago that is on a professional committee with me. I thought he was really attractive and nice. We often chatted when we ran into each other here or there. My attraction for him grew, but he was dating someone else, I thought he was too young for me (I am in my early 40s and he is in his mid 20s), and we work together. A few months after we met he broke up with his girlfriend.  Last weekend our company sent both of us to a regional conference.  We ended up spending most of the evening together. Saturday and he told me that night he had a little crush on me. I told him I've had a crush on him for quite a while. The only issue was that he is much younger and we work together. Furthermore, even though he told me he had a crush on me I still wasn't exactly sure what exactly he was interested in. I told him I wanted to spend time with him, but I didn't want to hook up. We stayed up all night talking - literally until the sun came up. He stayed in my room. We went to sleep and cuddled. I did end up kissing him Things got really hot and heavy for a minute, but I shut them down really fast. I can get attached quickly. I told him that I couldn't just hook up with him because of work and the age difference. He was totally understanding. He asked for my number. I gave it to him. He sent me a couple of text messages later that day (Sunday). I sent him a couple of messages Monday. Then he told me he couldn't stop thinking about me or my body. (MORE TO READ)  I told him I couldn't stop thinking about him either. It is crazy how much I'm still thinking about him. Since then we've been talking nonstop through text. We're both very busy, but we've been trying to see each other as often as our schedules will permit. I haven't let us have too much privacy because if we got it I think there's an extremely good chance we'd hook up.  I'm wildly attracted to him, but I'm very confused and unsure of what I should do at this point.  Please give me some advice and help me figure it out! 

If you take a look at my page, you see I post a lot of things related to guilt, but guilt is a good thing isn't it? Recently, I spilled to my mom about how I  CONSENSUALLY let my boyfriend (now ex as of today) touch my vagina. I am a virgin though, so don't think I'm going around at 13 being that girl in everyone's middle school. So after telling her, I've overcome the guilt, and again as of today I broke up with my boyfriend and well started dating the guy I was hanging out with today; my long time best friend and ex. Seems crazy I know. Long story short, I don't remember how it went down exactly and why he started to touch my boobs but again, this was consensual. I feel guilty after just having told my mom everything and then going again to do something she wouldn't approve of. I'm only a kid and I'm just exploring and don't worry I'm saving myself virginity wise until marriage, but I consider myself atheist. Should I feel guilty and tell my mom? I don't want to tell her I mean I'm 13 and this would be the second time I told her something related to the topic, but it was heat of the moment. I know my mom has done stuff she hasn't told her mom or that she experimented with boys at a young age so I feel I should only tell her if I get to the point that I am uncomfortable with what is going on because I fear if I tell her now, I'll never be able to hang out with boys again. I understand why she would say that, but keep in mind I'm only 13.

Ok I'm 32 dating a 53 year old guy. We had an argument and I called him boring but I later apologised. He's ignoring for the past 5 days. I apologised and said it was my fault And took all the blame. What do I do now? He's still ignoring me

And he hasn't come home yet. We've spoken everyday and he says we needed to get spend some time away from each other and this was the opportunity so he took it while he could.  We've been going thru a lot lately and I feel like I'm taking this all too personally? Or is this normal for a relationship to spend time away from each other for a few days at a time ?  I try not to text him so i don't look too eager and i want him to wonder what's going on and why i haven't texted or responded to him. Am i wrong for doing this also ?  This is the first time I've been with someone who wanted this so i kinda don't know how to react but i also don't want to see clingy or over possessive. I want us to be able to have friends and social lives i just have a hard time being alone.  He's my best friend and we're happy together, just hit a little bump in the road recently, but we're trying to work everything out. 

It's like apologizing for liking chocolate cake. It's sugary and sweet, everyone likes it! Ridiculous

Let me explain. We have been together for 3 years and we love eachother very much. Every day no matter what I always just look forward to spending time with her , laughing and having fun with her. I am 21 a college student and a assistant manager at a paint store and I work out a lot. I love working out and playing basketball but at the end of the day she's alwYs the place I'm the happiest and she told me every day she looks forward to spending time with her horse and she would trade everything including me for her horse and I don't know I just felt we were more on the same page. It wouldn't have bothered me if I knew this a long time ago that's how she felt but I've let myself fall this hard it's kinda hard to here that I'm not mad or upset I'm just kind of thinking about taking more priority in my own life instead of  trying to see her every night what do you think?

Yes I know times are rough nowadays things are more expensive wages aren't getting any higher but what should I expect when you're first dating I know damn wellbI'm not at the hottest chick in the book to be spending your entire wallet on but I want to know you actually care and want something real from this

I probably could if I took the dregs of society but that is not acceptable to me.  It's going to be 500 or 600 dollars.  The money is the only thing I am concerned about yeah I have more than that but I am normally cheap but it's special occasion. 

Okay we're both from low class families he spends money on Uber to get me to his place under $20 never once has he given me anything to drink or eat has not taking me out on a date and promised he would and I'm like the person with the most lowest expectations you can ask for in a woman but you don't even water me I don't ask for much I don't need to go on fancy dates or anything just a pizza to share that's completely fine with me but nothing

I'm a freshman, and starting dating a girl. We've been together a while now but I'm not sure if I do really have feelings for her or if my friends just convinced me I did.  My fear is that I might have gone through with it due to internalized homophobia. I've come to terms with the fact that I have a major crush on this guy. There's no way it's just platonic at this point. My girlfriend has now expressed that she feels like he's flirting with me. After talking with her close friends, I've found out that she is really distressed about this and complains about him a bit. I don't know what to do. On one hand I don't want to break up because I don't really know if I do or don't like her and I think she does like me. On the other hand, I've had a crush on this dude for a long long time and just that alone makes me feel disloyal. 

We are having se° for a long time. And he wants to see me more often ?