My mom takes care of a 26 year old semi autistic man once a week. Hes able to reason, and communicate, but it's obvious he has a disability when you look at him. My mom has been doing this since 2011. My mom asked me if i want to start doing what shes doing to make some more money. I would say yes, but my moms house is in bad shape and has some mold. She just hasnt gotten around to repairing it. My sister was gonna move in soon, and was gonna help us pay for repairs. I would feel bad caring for him, but at the same time putting him in harm's way with the mold. Do you think I should feel bad about it? Do you think it would harm I'm if he only spent the night once a week?

I don't like family get togethers. I do talk with my mother and father but not my siblings. I have 1 sister and 1 brother and I never talk to them. It's just how it is and im fine with it. I haven't been to a family get together in 2 years. Mainly because I don't see the point of it. The guy that my mom is with doesnt like me and I don't like him. He has said rude things so I don't care to ever be around him. I have said rude things back. My parents are both divorced. Sometimes when this happens and a parent meets someone else they may not like the kids for whatever reason. My siblings have lived on the same side of town has me before. We never really talked or hung out. I never called them because they never tried with me. There isn't any drama we just aren't close. When get togethers come I don't see the point of them.

My Lebanese friend (F) has 2 younger sisters. In Lebanese culture, apparently the eldest sibling carries the most weight in the family. I posed the question to her: If the youngest sibling in this scenario were male, would that alter the hierarchy of the siblings in the household? If so, how? Does age factor? My friend was unsure. My assumption would be that youngest (now male) sibling would leapfrog the middle child, but dual with the eldest in a Male vs Eldest Born battle for sibling supremacy in the household in the eyes of their parents. What are your thoughts? Please be detailed! I know very little of Lebanese culture. Thank you! Current Sibling Hierarchy: 1. Lena (F)(24yo) 2. Soraya (F)(21yo) 3. Jennifer (F)(17yo) (now male in this scenario) Her parents are immigrants and have a traditional mentality if that helps.

I'm 16, my dad is 41, my stepmom is 27 and my actual mom is 37z

HSE person comes in twice a week to give him a bath. But they are refusing to wear gloves or masks that are offered to them on arrival at the house. Is this allowed or is there some one or place l can report this to her boss.

She has ADHD on top of it and is bi-polar. We actually fight the most over her lousy attitude.  I'm injured right now and cant even go back to work. Shes acting like it's the end of the world and end times. I'm sick of it. 

She called me a mom's boy just because I patched things up with my mom and am talking to her again.  She's got some mental issues untreated and is either very depressing, angry, negative, or miserable with drama. I cant just have a relaxed day anymore she starts fights and argues, then plays defence.  She claims I dont live her enough, but I really dont have the extra energy for her insecurity and low self esteem. She keeps telling me to move, knowing I'm in between jobs right now. She doesnt work. I feel like she likes struggling and it scares me I moved in with this lady and I'm stuck here.  I feel like shes toxic.

he is a retired cop. cops make plea deals all the time. I frequently tell him I would be willing to admit what I did if I get a lesser punishment. Most of the time I get caught but I got away with things 3 times maybe more if I am forgetting something. in Law and order and Blue bloods the suspect always asks the cop who is interrogating them for a plea deal 

I try to show them my report cards and they brush them off but when my 5-year-old brother shows them a picture it gets put on the fridge P.S I am 11  I also join every team at school and I have made cross country regionals two years in a row but when he makes a picture it seems more important

My 14 year old daughter is terrified of thunder and lighting, something we have often at our house. When we have thunder and lighting at night she will crawl in bed with one of her older brothers where she says she feels safe and secure. When the storm is over she goes back to her own bed. Her brothers really like her and are VERY protective of her. However they are afraid if she tells her friends what she does, they will accuse her brothers of incest, something they WOULD NEVER DO. Please give me some suggestions on how I should handle this. Do you think therapy would help her overcome her fears and if so how much does it cost. THANKS FOR ANY HELP.

my sister's husband brother has just passed away , i'm happy but my father is crying . so i'm confused , who on earth would be crying for such an event lol

I have a teacher who is really harsh with me.,whenever I make a tiny mistake he will lecture me,he will talk to me in a really humiliating way...does he do this to punish me?If so Why?I'm a really good student...plus we are pretty close:) I'm 17 years old girl

Since I've been on quarantine I have a lot of homework to do and basically it's like going to school because we also do online lessons. My parents are staying home because my mom doesn't have a job and my dad is in the category of people who can't go to work because he's got and immune disease. They are both really strict and I never liked staying home with them, because they judge whatever I do, I can't get out of my house and I'm becoming crazy, I'm scared I could kill them if they make me mad. How am I supposed to handle this? Sometimes I can't even FaceTime my friends because they will start asking me questions like I'm dealing drugs, I can't stay on my phone when they're around cuz they will take it and I feel so much under pressure. I can't listen to music out loud because they don't understand English and they think the song says bad words. They don't want me to do tik toks because they think they are dirty and they don't want me to dance. I can't even go to my grandma's  house because they say I could pass her the coronavirus BUT HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO INFECT HER IVE BEEN HOME FOR 3 WEEKS NOW. School was my only way to get out of my house and stay with my friends. And also my dad went to work so he came late and he couldn't bother me, my mom used to go out with her friends and I couldn't. I'm freaking out and I don't think I can survive to all of this, I'm not considering suicide yet but this is too much. Please I need help

I dont feel a stronger hate towards anyone else besides my dad. I've noticed I have been saying things such as "I can't wait until his heart finally gives out", or "I wish I've never met him. To start off, he treats us HORRIBLY. He overdoes gender roles, he thinks he can sit and watch sports all day and relies on us to cook and clean for him because "he works and hes the head of the household". Many people work WAY longer than my dad and I bet they still are productive! He works 8 hours, 5 times a day. I dont have issues with cooking and cleaning at all, its just that hes so full of "women should do this or that". It makes me want to do nothing for him. He used to be a huge alcoholic, so I dont like to say he raised me. Just because he was their physically he wasnt there mentally. My mom spent most of her time taking care of us when my dad used to constantly put us in danger. Because of him I am now a victim of sexual abuse.He's not even fully sorry, he only cries about the thought of him going to jail. He even told me he doesnt believe me!! Hes told me that multiple times and it pisses me off because why would I lie? His anger issues are out of control as well. He would throw something or hit us in a heartbeat. Its so unnecessary. Its not even discipline, its because he feels in control. Hes done that to several employees while we were trying to get food, it doesnt make him look tough at all! Because he'd cry and run out the house for 24 hours in a heartbeat.   I ran out of characters. He even judges people by their body types, their choices of getting pregnant, anything! Nobody judged him for being a no good alcoholic! My problem is, I dont want to hate him. I literally have to deal with this for 2 more years. I dont feel happy with my dad in the house, everything he does bugs me now. I dont even want to be in his presence, I just wish my mom never married him. She makes excuses for him like hes something special.  Even though I'm a constant target towards him and im the main one getting judged for enjoying being in my own skin. He loves me, but why would he judge me so much if he did ? My mom would immediately look at my outfit and either say its too much, or she wouldnt say anything at all. He would judge me because I look good. Its terrible. I cant wait until I never get to see him again. What if he actually dies one day? I think about that a lot. I dont know if i'd care, or be regretful. Ive tried to forgive him so many times already, but its hard to forgive someone who will never change.. It's gotten worst actually. I am 17 years old. I went through the abuse 10-14. Wish i realized sooner when i was a little over 10..

My parents recently broke up. My mother had no where else to go so of course I let her live with me in my studio apartment with a "den" now I love my mom but I've been on my own sense I turned 18, I'm now 21 so I can't lie I do miss having my own space but there's no way I would ever tell my mother to find somewhere else to stay. I let her have the den of my studio apartment as her room so we can at least have a tiny bit of privacy for now until my lease ends and we can get a 2 bedroom, now she just started seeing this guy John who's alright. I don't care much for him, but he comes to see her a couple times a week and mind you I already live in a small apartment and my room is basically the living room and the den has very thin walls and a sliding door, which is also connected to the walkway to the bathroom. So this guy John comes over around 7pm and I'm eating dinner watching tv but as time goes on the show will get quiet at times and I hear my mother moaning. I know she's "trying" to be quiet but like I said it's a small apartment and the den has very thin walls. I want to tell her if she's going to mess around they could at least do it at his place or wait until we get a 2 bedroom so I don't hear EVERYTHING and can be comfortable in my own apartment. How do I tell her I feel uncomfortable and pretty annoyed with her doing this in my (tiny) apartment, I mean I'm literally right on the other side of the wall. 

My mom spends ALL DAY on Facebook looking at conspiracy theories about the Coronavirus and the Qanon (Q community). She honestly thinks this pandemic is fake and somehow related to sex-trafficking a community of devil worshippers, and attempts to slander our president. How do I convince her that she's wasting her time, and that accepting social media as a sole news source is unhealthy?

my dad is always around my mom so I don't have much time for a opportunity for it but i am also scared if I see her naked she will tell my dad and he would think different of me but how can I get to see her naked please help? it's not sexual I'm just curious and im not curious like what a naked woman looks like bc I have seen that but its more like hmm what does she look like? so please help 

I have been so excited for a year and helped his fiance with all the planning as I introduced them. But, my parents and I live in Colorado Springs and they sealed off the borders to Washington, DC and no one can gather for a public event because of the Corona Plague. As a result we missed it. They are going to have a party at a later date if the plague passes but that might be another two years from now. I am devastated. How do I move on? When will the devastated feeling pass? How do I get it to pass? Please help I am mad, mad even at the Coronavirus plague itself.

So recently my mom started storing a whole bunch of dry, grain foods in the guest room (beans, spaghetti, rice, etc). Now we have a bin weevil infestation all over the house. It's so bad that sometimes they crawl on me while i'm in bed. My mom still continues to cook with the infested grains without taking the bugs out. When I eat I have to check everything and pick out the bugs from the food. She still continues to invite her friends over and feed the food to them. Whenever I bring up the fact that there are bugs in the food she yells at me and tells me not to eat it then

Im in junior college, and well my family seems to not understand. I do soo much i help clean i do chores i take care of my little siblings with their school stuff, my dryer broke and so i take my mom to the laundromat. I help out with other things that my older brother who lives with us he doesn't do much. Helps only when he wants to. I tried to confront my mom but i cant maybe because my father who im also having issues with, he once told me to not pay my mom any mind and so i didnt but listening to her berate me just feels bad. From my younger years to now ive had very few tantrums. Im very calm most of the time. I don't usually or rarely lash out. But im tired. I feel like im numb. Mainly because my mom hardly recognizes my actions my time dedicated to helping. Because i know if i didn't no one else would. But she always say i dont do anything. I dont help. Then sometimes she says i help more, when she is arguing with my older brother. I think she does it so the focus could be turned to me. She always says be grateful since you dont work, you dont pay bills. I have used my loans to pay rent before though, and my mom always said dont work, youll get addicted to the money. So it doesn't make sense. My father is hardly ever here. Ive developed anxiety, some type of a delusional disorder, this wss in high school though, i still do have that. I wanna leave somedays, i think why should i stay, but i cant yet. I need to graduate i need to work, i want to live in my own place. 

My Righteous Children in the world of this Day, rejoice in your hearts and your Spirits, as they adjoin with My Spirit in Ishvara, to return you to Shafraloka, to receive your Reward.  Ishvara did not qualify you into Shafraloka by your faith in any man or relgion, nay, Ishvara qualify you into Shafraloka by your continuous Faith in Righteousness alone, and the works of Righteousness naturally demonstrated your Faith therein.  The reason I Created you, entered your world and gave Truth, then left you for 2500 years, until now, is to leave my Children in a state of abandonment by My, Their Creator Father, to test your faith in Righteousness when you believed you had no Father and only had 100 years and then you would cease.  By those that remained Righteous within me, during the last 2500 years, while believing they had no Father, you proved unto your Creator Father, that you are Worthy to be received into Ishvara (GOD) so that you may then be given the Keys to your Pure Plain.  The wicked among you, who believed they were abandoned with no Creator Father, who became atheist and wicked, and who offended my Children, by their thoughts, actions, or words, have proven to Me, Shafra Ishvara, your Creator Father with you in the world this day, they proved that they are unworthy of being received by Ishvara, and Ishvara will remove the Life from them, and when they die, they will not be Sustained, and after they have served the longest term in Naraka(hell) their Souls will die. I only came to save my Daughters, that have been misguided by their Brothers for the last 2500 years.  As for the Sons, you'll have to appeal to your Divine Mother if you want a Reward.  I'm done with this world. -Isvaro Vardu

My Righteous Children in the world of this Day, rejoice in your hearts and your Spirits, as they adjoin with My Spirit in Ishvara, to return you to Shafraloka, to receive your Reward.  Ishvara did not qualify you into Shafraloka by your faith in any man or relgion, nay, Ishvara qualify you into Shafraloka by your continuous Faith in Righteousness alone, and the works of Righteousness naturally demonstrated your Faith therein.   The reason I Created you, entered your world and gave Truth, then left you for 2500 years, until now, is to leave my Children in a state of abandonment by My, Their Creator Father, to test your faith in Righteousness when you believed you had no Father and only had 100 years and then you would cease.  By those that remained Righteous within me, during the last 2500 years, while believing they had no Father, you proved unto your Creator Father, that you are Worthy to be received into Ishvara (GOD) so that you may then be given the Keys to your Pure Plain.   The wicked among you, who believed they were abandoned with no Creator Father, who became atheist and wicked, and who offended my Children, by their thoughts, actions, or words, have proven to Me, Shafra Ishvara, your Creator Father with you in the world this day, they proved that they are unworthy of being received by Ishvara, and Ishvara will remove the Life from them, and when they die, they will not be Sustained, and after they have served the longest term in Naraka(hell) their Souls will die. Isvaro Vardu