So..... if you have read all of my other questions about losing my best friends. I have been okay so far. At the table At Lunch My ex friends let's name them Cath, Suzy, and Sally. Have been talking about me even more lately but I use their name in one sentence they bring everyone they know to come and yell at me. Anyway they have talked about me a lot and one of my other friends said that they did me wrong. Sally said that they were all best friends first before me. Even though Suzy told me I was her first best friend and I talked to her and made her feel welcome when no one else would even talk to her I was there even when she was mad at me I would try to Comfort her. And Cathy I have known her and been her best friend for 9+ years and Sally for almost 2 or 3 years I introduced all of them together. Then they all gang up on me. They even pass notes during our ELA class about me and when I ask if they were talking about me they always lie and Say no they have even created some type of "burnt book" and me and my other friend Alana and almost everyone else know that they talk about everyone in the School in the book. They write about people during class and pass it around during class. Even though they all told me these things they were apparently lying. I hate people like this. One day we were at lunch and they needed a napkin I had three and they told each other about how they needed one but didn't want to ask me because they didn't want to talk to me. It's a napkin!!! Please tell me what to do I try to ignore them but, they still look at me and talk about me and write about me in their so called "burnt" book about me and my friends should I stop them we're not friends anymore I just want them to stop I have a real best friend that I still talk to but, I'm just confused because I have 2 classes with each of them so I see them everyday whether I like it or not I still don't know who is telling them stuff about what "I say". A little background about each of them in a little sum up for them. Cath is a "rich girl" she flexes on everything she gets she even says that she is a spoiled brat and she is but I don't want to hurt her feelings and she says how her parents don't care about a thing she does even though they're preachers. She says I can do whatever I want my parents are rich. She is kind of a ho ho ho she says that she has had about 40 bfs and she sits on boys laps and kisses them even if they aren't together.. Even if they aren't together and are just friends and she even sneaks crop tops into school to wear  with her belly button all out. I feel bad to be myself and poor when I'm around her she is adopted and treats her parents wrong and says how she hates when they send her bible verses at School to lift her day and talks about them behind their backs. I hate to say it but it's people like this that act like they have it all and makes others feel small. Not all of us can just go to mommy and daddy  Not all of us can just go to mommy and daddy and get what we want some of us actually have to work hard for our money I just wonder how her parents would feel to know how she actually acts and if she deserves every penny spent on her. Sorry but it's the truth for me. Suzy isn't rich but when Cath is around she acts like she is freaking god and everyone else doesn't matter and turns sour to others except for Cath. Sally acts like that when Suzy is around and ignores me and is all over Cath and    and Suzy. I like to brag about new things I get because I know my mom has to wrok her butt off to get me and my 2 other siblings things sure we don't always get along but when she is able to get me things I feel proud of her because it isn't easy being a single mom of 3. I get things from my AunT because she has no kids and she mstly just sees me and I go to visit her often because my older sister is always in her studies an dmy brother is too young. I love them both a lot Sorry it's so long plz forgive me

What does it mean that I don't really talk to my family much like I used to or to my best friend that I have? I will talk to all of them if they talk to me but that's pretty much it. I just really keep to myself 

anyone here been out high school since 9 years now and 32? IF so have you reunited your old friends at school reunion from the one who did you wrong over media or any and stayed contacts?

Me and my friend been friends since we we're little girls. She's very insecure about her self. I always try to compliment her and make her feel good about herself. Lately she's been out of control. I think I Hyped her up too much now my friend says things like I'm a bad ***** I can get any boy I want. she also says things like I hope when I get this new hairstyle that I get a lot of attention from guys but I better because I'm such a beautiful *****. Also she tries to make it seem like the guys I liked all tried to hit on her once. Also she says things like I'm happy I have a beautiful friend like you I can't hang with ugly friends. I have to be around bad bitches. Every time we go out not bragging but I usually get a lot of attention. one time a lady told my friend that I was very beautiful and she loved my eyebrows. My friend gave a fake smile and didn't say anything she tried to ignore the lady and change the subject. Another time a bunch of guys and one girl my age was telling me I'm beautiful again my friend didn't say anything she got angry and said I must not be pretty. She said to me Your pretty but I am too she start making a scene about it I guess they heard my friend and they blurted if your not pretty I'm not going to lie and say you are . My friend start crying then she got angry at me because I wasn't trying to hear her bull **** about that. I always compliment her what should I do end the friendship? She can't stand when people call me pretty and compliment me. Another thing she always shows me the outfits she has and the next hairstyle she's getting we always do this as friends. But When I show her my outfits also or a hairstyle I'm getting she will change her ideas after she see's mine and says never mind I don't want that outfit or hairstyle no more. I want something that looks better it always seems like she's trying to be better then me or look better then me. If she gets something That looks better then mine she will feel satisfied.

Hi my friend is very delusional it's gotten worser to the point her mind is getting insane. Well she's not really delusional but she acts like it. She makes up false stories she says things like celebrities are acting sick over her. She tells me things like she she can feel what celebrities are thinking and feeling. She has a huge crush on Rihanna. One time Rihanna broke up with her boy friend my friend swore up and down Rihanna broke up with her boy friend because of her she thinks Rihanna is obsessed with her. Another thing is my friend thinks all the guys she dated or regular guys she has a crush on are all getting close to each other for they can fight over her or stalk her that's what she thinks. She says things like they are  all fighting over her and half of the guys she doesn't even know or some of them she doesn't even talk to anymore. My friend thinks every body is acting sick over her you can be a stranger she'll think you are obsessed with her. She even says things like my pets act obsessed over her when my pets doesn't even like her. She says things like your cat is acting mean because he likes me. Also she says things like her deceased friends talk to her and hug or touch her. one time she asked me do I see her deceased friend shadow and I didn't see anything at all. She also says things like she communicates with dead celebrities such as Michael Jackson and etc she says things like she feels him watching over her. She gets mad when I tell her it's not true help

My friend Nellie who is in my class in school was failing in Math and she ask me to help her with her home work. I like to help people and said sure. I went to her home to help her and her father met me at the door and ask what I was doing. I told him I was going to help Nellie with her home work. He said "You are not going to get into her pants". I said "I am just here to help her with her math home work". He said "I she needs any help with her home work, I will help her". I left immediately. The next day at school Nellie, ask me why I had not come over to help her with her home work. I told her what her dad said. To say she was mad is to put it mildly. She ask me if I would help her at the library? I told her no. I was afraid of what her dad might do to me and/or her. Do you think that was the correct decision?

Let me tell you some things she does to me: 1.she interrupt me everytime with speak with others and she wants to speak only her 2.she hates when i have confidence and tries to convince me that i am ugly 3.someday i told her that i like a guy and she told me that i am too ugly for me 4.she tries to prove all the time to everyone that she is better than me 5.she always tries to make me feel bad and someday she told me that a girl called me ugly only to make me feel bad and ugly What is her problem with me?

Been doing it with my best friend a lot recently. Weve been staying at each others place almost every weekend and do it while watching movies or porn in the middle of the night. Do you ever?

I'm quiet and I guess I dong have interesting topics to talk about.When people are around me they get on the phone and call other people instead of talking to me. Which does not  make me feel good. Or either they fall asleep on me. I'm not the type that everyone finds funny or interesting. Should I be upset when my friends purposely call other people when we are hanging out? They have no problem doing that.

I try to look out for my friends, and the fact that I have only one makes me more protective of them. They are very secretive and close-lipped about what they do and who they do things with when I'm not there, which makes me feel even more insecure about what they do behind my back — not necessarily harming me in some way with me knowing, but rather doing things and not telling me.  I'll admit I get jealous when my friend chooses to hang out with other people, but I try to tell myself that their world doesn't revolve around me and that they're free to do what they want. However, in the back of my head I can feel that anger and spite rearing its ugly head. Sometimes I let it build up and then affects our conversations, turning a simple one into something sour.  Anyways, any minute they're not texting me (we text quite frequently) or when I'm not with them in person, I worry about what it is they're doing (they have a history of doing shady things, and while they've promised not to do so again, their secretive behaviour only increases my anxiety). Is it normal to be this worried?  I don't want to be like my father; controlling and restrictive. I want to be a good friend. Is there a fine line I have to walk between being a good friend and being controlling? 

I only have three friends. One just left for college in Georgia and my other two friends used to date. They seem like they've been flirting a lot lately and I'm so scared of them getting back together because I don't want to be the third wheel. Instead of talking about my feelings like an adult, I selfishly begged Friend #1 not to get back together with Friend #2. I almost immediately apologized for this, acknowledged what a dick move I made and encouraged them to seize the opportunity if it came up. They said they forgave me, but I'm not sure if they actually did as this all happened over text and I couldn't properly read their tone. We've hardly talked since and they seem distant, but I don't know if they're actually distancing themself or if I'm just overthinking it. With our college being indefinitely shut down bc of the coronavirus situation, there's no chance for me to see them face-to-face to find out for sure without asking them to hang out. How do I ask if they're angry at me? And, if they are, how do I deal with the situation?

I'm a big time introvert and very very quiet. I have only 3 friends. And I only really like talking to them twice a month. Anything more than that, I get overwhelmed. My friends get offended because I don't talk to them more often. Is that bad? Should I try to talk to them more than twice a month? I feel like the less I talk to them, the more meaningful it is when we do talk. It's not that I don't care for them, I just prefer my own company the majority of time. I make it clear to them that I'd be there for them if they need me, but most times they call just to casually talk. 

I have a friend of 8 years and she's so damn needy we're both young females. She texts and call me each and everyday nonstop I have a life and we just graduated from high school we're becoming young adults. She calls and texts me everyday if I text back late or never reply it's always an argument or she always asking me why you take so long to reply to me or why you not texting me back it's annoying. Also she wants me to spend the night at her house all the time I love her but I like sleeping in my own bed and being comfy. If I don't won't to spend the night at her house she always get mad and says things like you must don't love me for real because you never wanna spend the night with me. Also every time I see her she always have to hug and kiss me for everyone can see. She's always close up on me invading my personal space when I tell her to stop doing these things like kissing me in public or anything she gets angry. I don't understand who will get angry about that I'm your best friend not your man what the hell ! Also she wants to work the same job i work at I mean I don't mind but everywhere I go she wants to go. She wants to spend time with me all the time and I don't know why when every time we're together she'll just be on her phone all day barely paying me attention. There's no point of hanging together if your going to always be on your phone. My mother always tells me she doesn't like my friend she thinks it's something off about her. What can I do ? 

Is saying what am I gonna do with you? A good thing to say? And what does it mean exactly? 

What does it mean if someone does not feel sorry for you? Meaning they don't show sympathy 

So we were doing it because we love eavh other and I respect her a lot. At some point she started crying cause it was hurting her (I could not get through, it was like some sort of wall preventing me to go on), I tried to but I didn't manage (I was afraid she could scream and cry) so I stopped. But I felt like I was raping her and that scared me so much I am emotionally distressed right now. She stayed in bed with her cover up and she curled up til she feel asleep. I am so scared I hurt her.

Hypothetical situation:  Person A applies something topically in Person B's mouth to prevent problems, not to heal a cut or a sore. It happens to be something that should never be ingested because it causes upset stomach. Then, he instructs her to spit it out but won't let her rinse it out at all. While Person B is desperately trying to get it all out of her mouth by spitting to prevent that health problem, Person A remarks, "Don't spit your tongue it!"  Should she be cool with his comment or would he be mocking her?  No wacky answers please. Let's just say Person B pretty much didn't have a choice and/or she was obligated to open her mouth for Person A. I realized I made a typo: it's OUT not IN inside Person A's statement.