also he best looking man I have evr seen. I cant hink of anotehr man"

First let me start off saying I've always struggled with weight. My weight flexed so much through out the years. My family has always said comments about me being over weight. When I say over weight I mean a size 7 and 9 in jeans. My highest weight was at most was 199ibs. I recently lost 70 pounds and I FINALLY have a normal BMI! I've worked my *** off and changed my bad eating habits. I recently went with my boyfriend to visit his parents. We've been going there through out my weight loss journey and she never really had anything nice to say. The last trip the first thing she said to me in private was "wow you make me look fat" and I ensured her she wasn't fat. Then when we were all together in the kitchen (her, her husband, 2 kids, my boyfriend) she says "you don't look healthy." Her entire family tried to make up for her words but she continued to laugh and say "what? She look good just will be better a little heavier." She then tried to say she's a nurse and concerned, but if she was concerned then why didn't she tell me this in private? Or call and ask if I was doing ok (she seen me plenty of times in my process of losing weight).  My boyfriend called her the next day and she brought up that her husband thought she was rude. She said she was just playing and she don't want me to be anorexic. She said she only said it out of love, but saying someone looks unhealthy is a serious thing. This is actually the most in-shape I've ever been. Her & her family are all big people. 

I dont know what to do. Should i risk it and go out to the store or just buy her a belated birthday gift? I know my job is open and even if I went in they wont put me down for work and I can go to Target...but with the coronavirus and stuff should I just get her birthday gift later on? :/ I really do not want to not have a gift for her but for my safety i cant decide on what to do :/

I live in Louisville KY, and the feminism here is awful. All the women so it seems as I have encountered are manly masculine hairy and seems to be a against guys. It also seems to be very left wing or at least in south Louisville where I am at.

Let's say your 19-24 years old.  Your choices are a guy who's an unemployed aspiring rapper or a guy who quit his job but invests in the stock market and also does trades

I never understood people who say otherwise, I think maybe they are ugly and they don't want to accept it. Family does not give you that much satisfaction, nor friends or relationships. What do you think is the most important thing /things in life?

We work at an office and he continues to cough & refuses to cover his mouth! Yes, I've mentioned it to him many times but he doesn't care! With the Corona Virus, this is super scary! He's super selfish & plain ignorant for doing this! Today, I said, we really all need to cover our mouth when we cough, and he got "offended!!!!" Can you believe that? He responded by saying, "yeah, how about we all don't speak too" like wtf is wrong with him! Any advice??