i usually always set goals to accomplish and generally have a good life. I was hurt by a boy who used the victim mentality approach, so now I feel like I'm lot less understanding on issues to do with others. Especially any guys who take interest besides saying a quick hello. They try and tell me about their issues and it annoys me. As bad as it sounds, I don't want another dude with some childhood or mental issues. My friends always complain about their exes and boyfriends and I've been there so who am I to judge - but I don't care. Im just not interested at all to be a mom or fix someone else's issues. Is it wrong to just want to be around people who are okay

My mom takes care of a 26 year old autistic man on fridays, and drives him home on Saturday morning. Twice she was too drunk to drive him home. I should have done something then, but I figured no harm, no fowl as along as I was there to pick up her slack. Before that, she actually tried driving off drunk with him, but I stopped her and drove him home. She hasnt done this in a year. I asked this question on reddit, and everyone called me a terrible person for not reporting her. The thing is if I reported her, then she would lose litteraly EVERYTHING. if she does it again, then that will he my last straw, but should do report her anyway, like the people on reddit said? I talked to an online counselor, because I cant afford a real one, and they said not to report her as shes not endangering him anymore. Idk....

So I'm studying to be a makeup artist and now our teacher gives us certain looks to do at home. I was in the kitchen when this middle aged man I rent a room from comes home. He says "nice makeup" sarcastically, I'm like "it's for school" and he just stands there, staring at me with a huge damn grin on his face. I go to my room and see theres food stuck between my teeth so I assume that's why his now laughing hysterically. After using the bathroom he rushes to the hallway I'm at and I say "You should have told me" he says "wait let me turn the lights on so I can see it again hahahaha". I'm like "it's gone I took it away" and his like "took what away" with that ******* grin like its hilarious. So apperantly he thought it was ok to laugh at my makeup??? Like ya ik it's a bit out of the ordinary and I'm definently no pro yet but still.. Am a wrong to think its extremely rude? This man cries like a dying donkey but I dont make fun of him for that sooo

I don't think so at all because my sister said her friend has a "boyfriend" she's never met? Opinion?

A person (not romantically related) broke my heart and completely lost my respect, but I still can't bring myself to hate them or wish coronavirus death on them.. I still refuse to forgive them for what they've done though, and I will not be speaking to them until they applogize (which is likely never). I wish I could disappear so I won't have to see their face again, but I also want to see them regret having done what they did to me, and apologize. Is this combination of love and unforgiveness possible, or is one of them a lie? I've tolerated their bs for long enough but this one was the last straw and I can't forgive them for it

My girlfriend is mad because I am not with her during quarantine time. Other people such as my friends who work at company's and are work from home are with their other girlfriends. Its mainly because of my job as an essential worker and this job is also my dads business and I know how hard he has to work in the day. But I have been searching for another job non stop and its hard to find a company job during quarantine time since they are putting holds on the positions and are not taking any new positions. Is she right for being mad at me for not being with her? I give her my time throughout my days and we video call for about 3-4 hours out of the day.  We also live in different cities. 

Sorry. It's that I can never win or lose with her if that makes any sense. Ok so I went on our screened in porch to do my homework. And I shut the back door I went back to open it so our new puppy could get back in but my mom beat me to it. And she said I closed the door just to bully him (on purpose?) So she grounded me from the back porch for bullying the dog. And when I tried to tell her what happened she went up to me and started hitting me as hard as she could for back talking. I was grounded from dinner too.

All the girls are not interested in him though he is so handsome and perfect. He doesn't smile often and he has a tiring job in the ships. He is tall, fair hair blue eyes, he almost never smiles, he helps you if you need something but he is not exactly the friendly or the flirtatious type. If I were as handsome as he is, I would be so vain but he is just... so modest and often looks sad. How can I approach him?

I found a Banjo at a garage sale. I it is some kind of metal, Stainless steal I think. It is half size Banjos I have seen before like Steve Martin plays. I has a name on it R. Carr, Or R. Garr. It is written in old english. I put both names on google but nothing came up. It looks very old at least 50 yrs, Maybe from the 1950's or 1940's . .

I am a 28-year-old male. I have been experiencing female bullying and harassment tactics for over a year. I do not want to quit my job. I love my job, however, there is a noticeable group of women that is causing problems. The surprising part is that it is predominantly women over the age of 40. They are gaslighting, shaming, love-bombing me, ignoring, isolating, spreading rumors, responding disrespectfully, refusing to give me eye contact, causing other coworkers to start problems with me, giving me attitude, etc. I think bullying stems from the fact that I am single. Every now and then a girl makes it obvious that she likes me. I act aloof and eventually, she gives up. The girl complains to the older women and the older women use shaming tactics on me.  None of my other coworkers want to get involved, and many avoid me as if I had leprosy.  I have 0 interest in dating and marriage. Sleeping around is just wasting my time and money. I want am saving most of my paychecks for future goals in life and not for them. I think this pisses some of the women off even more.  What can I do? They aren't exactly leaving any evidence I can use against them. It's amazing how female bullying is quietly endorsed.    I'm about as selfish as most coworkers are. After 5 years of helping everybody out, I noticed that nobody helped me out when things got worse from my end. A lot of women always ask for help but rarely ever offer it back. I see how they want to use me.  I'm the hardest worker in the place. If I wasn't then no woman would give a damn. Women ignore most of the men. 

We want a child, we're following all the doctors' advice, cardio, eating healthy, rest, sleep positions. We're gathering advice from videos and the web, and I'm coming here as another "last resort". I want to shoot it into my wife like a fire extinguisher, maybe have twins.....How can i finish more?

We've both blocked this person, but she keeps messaging us from other accounts. It first started last year, I was catching up with a friend from middle school that I use to tell everything to. Simple conversation between friends. I get a phone call at midnight from my friend, I text him asking if everything is okay. Phone starts blowing up he's girlfriend messaging me all crazy stuff. Told her I was just an old friend she goes on saying that he doesn't need any friends that he has her. I unfriend him on all social media and block his number. I'm too old for this kind of drama, I respected the fact that she didn't want him talking to me. Few weeks ago I get a friend request from him. I messaged him asking if I was going to get harassed again and he said no that he left that toxic relationship (if he told me he was still with her I wouldn't have talked to him). We start having a conversation about his brother. Keeps saying hi and doesn't reply after. I get a message from this crazy *** female accusing me of seeing her boyfriend, disrespecting her relationship and trying to take her man. I blocked him and her right away. For one I'm married dealing with one person is enough for me. Two I moved away two years ago, I'm not driving 2 days to go see someone. She keeps messaging me that she's going to kill me, find my husband, find my kid (I don't have any kids) and is going after everyone I love. I would understand if cheating was going on, but it's not. Really need advice.

"I say "yes" because you were pushing".. that was her argument. So now I'm disappointed, hurt and unsure if I should continue the relationship.

Am I just a college kid having fun or is this some unhealthy hyper sexual thing?

i have endured a hard life, took many knocks to my self confidence and esteem...now i'm a male aged 42 with a very bad nervous disposition, an anxiety disorder....and very little self belief. when i have to go outside to do things, i act very nervously and find it very difficult to act self confident, cool and believe in myself, just take my time about things? i've unfortunately missed out on finding any relationships and never had a female partner....and i live out a lonely existence in a council flat with my only support being my elderly parents, who live far away.. one of the things i want desperately, is self belief in myself, self confidence and to realize people are no better than me and are only human beings.......instead of feeling threatened by them. how can i find a way?

When you live in a snob town how can you find down to earth people

This guy I like, I was really busy at work when he told the lot of us goodbye (we are both the same age btw). I didn't get a chance to acknowledge the goodbye so I shot him a text.. Me: Was totally busy when you left work and didn't get to say bye haha. See you later! :p Him: You definitely were Haha. You make me smile Sarah, thanks for being such a sweetheart 😘  Does this seem romantic or just being nice/ Friendzoney? Last time I heard someone thank me for being a sweetheart, was my grandma lol. That being said, the kiss wink face perked my head, but again, can that emoticon be just a buddy/friendship thing?

If someone texts back same to you if you text something sentimental is this positive or negative or neutral?