14M and mom is 32 and no dad

I live with my family, my brother, mother, father. I don't like where i am right now, my brother always lies and talks about having a high iq and how he's going to go to medical school (his grades are really bad rn) and he always finds so way to argue with anyone in my family. my mother and father are divorced, my dad is in dating websites but he doesn't even try to hide it as well he's very distant and doesn't have much conversation with us. My mom is also very distant, only talking to me every once and a while, she's thinks i'm gay and always plays into my brothers games even when she knows she shouldn't, she never stops arguing. What should I do? What can I do?

It's not that I blame either of my parents but it's just that I have such pain from their divorce. My father pulled away because of my mothers anger and my mother use me as a pawn to get my father back by telling me that he had left all of us and not just her. So I grew up for seven years thinking my father had left me. My father doesn't get any of this as he's very ignorant to it and my mother just gets defensive and says " Well I guess I failed as a mother than didn't I". I am so alone in this pain and that's why I do not enjoy my life. Excuse my spelling errors, I was dictating into my phone. 

My parents don't like the mother of one of the two batches of cousins going and so I'm banned from going by the aunt because she doesn't like my parents and by my parents because they don't like the aunt. This makes me feel so shame filled and wrecks my unexpected 4 1/2 week vacation from school. On my dad side of the family I don't have any cousins and so this is the only batch of cousins. They're nice to me when they see me but I'm a little bit older and on top of that our moms hate each other. And my mom's brother who is the father of the other tail is neutral but does a lot more with the other sister who's my aunt. What do I do with his hurt and how do I not let this wreck my vacation? How do I get over the shame that I'm not good enough?

the mother and she says that I am incapable to raising her alone. What should I do?

So my wife and I tried to have a baby for years, then found out that she's infertile due to some condition. And it makes us depressed to no end, like we just have no purpose on this planet and are worthless. It makes us want to avoid our nieces and nephews, as they constantly remind us of something we can't have and they will never love us as much as their parents, this applies to all kids. Plus I think most of them hate us too.  For these reasons we always completely dread family gatherings, which is one reason we're really glad coronavirus is here as it has cancelled all those gatherings for now, hope it never ends. It's hard to relate to other couples in the family since they have kids and we don't. We also don't hang with our friends that have kids much anymore as it's harder to relate to them as a childless couple, and we have since made friends with people who don't have them.  Since we don't go to many public places and mostly stay in the house or go to work, thankfully we can avoid kids most of the time. Also we go to adult only resorts on vacations. But childless couples are usually seen as inferior, especially in our families, and we're just tired of being the inferior ones. And adopting isnt an option as we can't afford it, don't qualify, and view an adopted kid as an inferior consolation price. We would never love an adopted kid as much as our own, and it would be selfish of us to put a kid through that. Plus she's allergic to dogs and cats. Any other advice?

My mom isn't letting me go and if I go she will suspend my membership. I hate her so much. We only have 2 infections in our area...

i'm crying everything is cancelled my school my favorite amusement parks my youth group where my crush is, my family gatherings my everything!!!!! even disney world is over!!!!

My siblings are with my dad and my mom and I are going to sit here by the river and we can't leave the property for two weeks. I miss snuggling with her but obviously I'm too old to do that at 15. We get along well so there's no problem there. What should we do since we have no TV at our quarantined for two weeks? I am in the state of Maryland and my school is closed so we came down here to the river to be quarantined here. We were at a party with someone who now has coronavirus. My siblings were not there so their with my dad.

It seems like every other year something goes wrong. Same deal with Christmas. Last reunion was fantastic but two years ago it was hard. Last Christmas was rough but two Christmas' back was good. 3 Reunions ago was the best ever and 4 years ago was cancelled because of a recent death in the family (my grandfather). 3 Christmas' back was rough but 4 was excellent.

Yesterday when I got back home from school,My dad asked me if I wanted something to eat,I told him no...then he asked me how was my day,I was mad that he was questioning me and I didn't say anything and I just went to my room....he CAME to my room and he told me that if there's any problem,he's here for me,he was holding a cup of ice cream and was about to gave it to me but I gave a slap in the cup and it was all over the floor...my dad got really mad and he slapped my face( really hard),he is always so mean or annoying..i just want him to leave me alone....during my childhood we were really close,he was kind to me and he was my best friend,he was my everything..but now that I'm older he is so strict and annoying...i feel that I still love him but i want some space I'm 13 years old girl 

Some background: My dad had an abusive and aggressive father when he was growing up. Despite my dad's childhood, he is very funny, and is kind, but he easily looses his temper and has a scary "death glare". But I know he loved me very much, and he would never do anything to hurt me.  I don't really know how to phrase my question, but, I will try to explain. My dad wasn't home a lot when I was younger. He was working a lot to provide the family the necessities. Sometimes he would go without shaving his face for a few days, so he would have some stubble. Here is where I need help(?): He would hug me tightly (so I couldn't escape), and he would tickle my neck with his unshaved face. I remember that I felt really uncomfortable, and although it didn't tickle for me, I was laughing (I do it sometimes when I'm uncomfortable). I remember screaming in my head to tell him to stop, but I was afraid of him, and I never said anything. I'm 20 now (was probs around 4-6 when this happened), and when I think back to that, I get panicked, and I start to cry. All those feelings flood back to me. Maybe it was because i had no control, and I couldn't say no that makes me so upset. Maybe my question is, "Was what he did... okay?" Idk, maybe I'm making this a bigger deal then it has to be. I just don't know what to call it. I'd also like to mention he's never hurt me physically (no spanks etc.)

Why/why not 

They don't care about me. They never did. They never will. All they ever did was made fun of me. It's clear that they don't want me here. They never wanted to here in the first place. 

I'm 18 and currently still living with my parents. And tomorrow they made plans to go out of town to see my grandparents and want to drag me along. When they brought this up, I told them to have fun, but then told me I'm going. I do not want to, and in fact, had plans to stay over at a friend of mine's that day. They never told me this information in advance. On my side, my relationship with my grandparents is pretty bad. They won't respect my older sibling's new identity, and I'm too afraid to come out to them. Nor do I wanna even be around them. I need your guys' thoughts. Should my family be making me go without a choice? Or should they let me make my own decisions for my well-being?

Long story short my sister stepped on my son blanket while my wife was holding him in car seat waiting for her to unlock the door. My sister didn't  say sorry my bad or whatever. I saw that it made my wife a little upset. We sat at table & 20mins go by and I decided to bring up why she didn't say sorry because my girlfriend has said in the past she didn't think I defended her when it came to my mother and sister. So I took this as a chance to defend her. My mother got mad and started telling me and my wife to get out the house. "You're missing some details but to keep story short."  I was trying to calm my mother down so I just sat there my mom got more upset and took my backpack and my baby bouncer and sat it outside the garage and was like get out and go home. My wife got very upset that my mother put my son bouncer outside. My wife won't let it go and keeps saying she needs a apology for my mother sitting his stuff outside. My mother doesn't feel she needs to say sorry. This has cause a lot of stress and issues inOurRelationshp to where my wife wants a divorce Because she thinks I'm defending my mother because I said I will still take my son to see my mom. I only have my mom and my sister as family I'm 24y/o guy no dad or other family I can talk to so I hold my mom very close. My wife doesn't even want my son to see my mom now. What should I do I asked my mom just to say sorry to save face but she said no. And my wife says I'm not a man for not getting a sorry. What 2 Do? 

i'm into her, I'm also 59 just like her and live in greeley

I'm talking to this guy and he has a pitbull, it's very friendly however I've always hated dogs. I absolutely love cats and have 2 of them. But cats can't be around his dog. Even if I didn't have cats, I never want a dog which may be a problem if we ever get really serious and live together. Should this be a deal breaker or am I being dramatic?

It seems like every other year something goes wrong. Same deal with Christmas. Last reunion was fantastic but two years ago it was hard. Last Christmas was rough but two Christmas' back was good. 3 Reunions ago was the best ever and 4 years ago was cancelled because of a recent death in the family (my grandfather). 3 Christmas' back was rough but 4 was excellent. 

I don't want to impose and they are a little bit younger then I am (I am 24). They are home from college because of the virus but still doing school via Internet through May. There are 4 of them and 1 I see but the other 3 I seldom do. I saw them at Christmas this past year but hadn't in two years and one was sick so I just saw him for a few minutes.

Sometimes I feel like my mom is regressing in age. She used to be the typical strict Asian parent but she is becoming more and more childish. She'll not get up for a whole day if she's off from work and demand us to get her a cup noodle, If we are busy, doing hw, or tell her to wait five minutes she'll throw a tantrum, screaming, yelling and violence. This isn't the worst part. She'll be so nice to me, give me money, call me nicknames and 5 minutes later when something sets her off she'll yell, scream, curse, or even hit me and my sisters. I remember once I was around 10 and I was having an argument with my sister. It was our fault for fighting but she came in with a fruit knife threatening to stab any of us if we didn't go to the basement. That night escalated to me and my sister in the basement and she pretending to call cps which my mom said she wasn't scared of but then called us all up at 3am to tell us how her and our whole lives were going to get ruined if cps was called. It's only worst that she has a bad relationship with my dad and thinks that he is emotionally cheating. They yell all day about getting a divorce and sometimes she scratches or bites him and he retaliates. I've learned to tune it out unless it gets too bad and me and my sisters has to go tear them apart. I feel like I'm constantly walking on eggshells and one mistake and I'll be yelled, hit or get told to kill myself. I just don't know what to do since I'm only 14 and don't want cps to get involved.

I'm 20, going on 21 soon. I have a boyfriend whom I'm wanting to move in with and start a life with who lives two hours away.  Thing is , when I tried to move my mother went berserk. She cried , screamed , went entirely nuts and begged for me back at home .. so now I'm back here . Boyfriend is not happy , I'm not happy what so ever, but the parents are happy.   Parents have no social life, no other family, my Sister doesn't give two craps about them and runs off always saying "they are over controlling to you but they are your problem now".  My mother says she expects me to stay home here, and build a life here in our town . Get a job here , find someone here,  so on so on ... thing is . I HATE THIS TOWN THAT I LIVE IN I've always felt so miserable and depressed here and not happy at all but my parents will not listen and my mother says "I'm just only saying crap, and my boyfriend is filling my head full of stuff" when he's not.. I've felt this way forever since I graduated.. I have no social life, nothing here..   In the city my boyfriend lives in though, I'm happy , I feel free , I like the place and already had everything planned out on what I wanted to do, apart from that there's people that I really get along with.  Thing is .. yes I do feel guilty, my parents are 59 and 67.. but they are always wanting everything here at home. Because they say they find it "not right" to move away with someone. And well , they said they will be alone here with no one to care for them