A few weeks ago, my 22-year-old niece Lexi came from Australia. She wanted to visit and tour the university my daughter Sadie goes to. Her third day here she slipped on snow, hit her back, and had a very traumatic trip to the ER just to find out she was fine. So her visit had a rough start. Other than that she said she really enjoyed it here. Well then she couldn't fly home. The night she found out, she cried for hours. I ran her a bath and then sent her to bed to calm her down. I know she's homesick, misses her family, she's in a country she doesn't know. I'm fully empathetic. Lexi and Sadie love arts and crafts, so before the quarantine I went and bought all the arts and crafts they could want. We have a piano, tv, weight room, a dog. I've really tried to make Lexi feel at home. Sadie has too. She's staying here instead of her own house to help. Well Lexi's unhappy and taking it out on me. She talks back, rolls her eyes, randomly bursts into tears, leaves a mess everywhere. The other day she took Sadie's car and drove off for hours. I calmly let her know how unacceptable that was. I told her she was grounded. She said, "What are gonna do? Make me stay in the house? You already are." I don't know WHAT to do! When her attitude gets too bad, I flat out send her to her room. It gives me a break at least. I don't want to "parent" my adult niece. This isn't normal behavior for her. But what can I do? I want her to be happy, and I want to stop the childish behavior. Please help.

I feel cheated and furious everyday for past 10 years, I can't fulfill my life dreams of having only one man, I have to live in humiliation as non-virgin, I have to experience ptsd, I had to cry everyday and suffer. But it's that males sex, he the one who wanted and did it, and his family hsven't even called to find out how I survive him abusing me and leaving for dead. And it's all case the fraud and a liar had a complex and needed to loose his virginity. How dare he treat me like some experience and not even feel any remose. He haven't even attemted to compensate for him beeing ugly or making it good experience, even though sex before marriage is a huge service and sacrifice. That scumbag dare to hide and block all phones, then demand to be left alone through his family. Why did he make me endure sex then, if he wasn't foing it to commit for whole life? He should hsve made hus mother endure hus nasty sex instead. How dare he to stay alive anyways after that unnatural abuse like sex.  I left that dcumbag, but he still hasn't compensated my suffering. Hasn't taught me anything either, I am much older now than he was at that time can't fathom how he could have wanted to do such abuse like sex to anyone. He should just die for me to get justice. 

Ayer mi novia quería venir a verme y yo también quería verla y que estuviera conmigo porque la extrañaba (ella vive como a 15 minutos de mi casa) con toda esta situación del COVID-19 la mamá le dijo que no saliera e incluso habló conmigo y me dijo que ella no iba a salir y que respetara la decisión de ella. La mamá tiene un carácter muy fuerte y si ella se da cuenta de que mi novia salió , le hace un gran problema y ella se puede llegar a sentir muy mal hasta el punto de llorar y a mi también me puede llegar a reclamar, entonces tomando en cuenta eso yo le dije "Amor pero luego su mamá le hace un problema muy grande si se da cuenta de que saliste" entonces ella se enojó conmigo y me dijo "usted no quiere que vaya a su casa" "no quieres verme" etc y empezó ahí toda enfadada conmigo y yo solo quería evitarle un gran problema porque la amo y me preocupo por ella, me duele no verla porque la extraño pero también me dolería ver como la mamá le hace un problema por mi culpa, por desobedecer pudiendo haberlo evitado, eso ella no me lo entiende que solo quería buscarle un bien porque sé como es el carácter de la mamá y no quiero que todo ese peso le caiga encima. Yo hablé con ella y le expliqué todo eso y le dije que cuando lo entendiera y que cuando ya no esté nojada conmigo que habláramos y único que me puso fue "chao" Solo le buscaba un bien aunque me duela no verla pero velo por el bien de mi novia porque me preocupo por ella. Que debo hacer?  Si me sienta mal dejarle allí en ese "chao" que me puso pero ella tiene que entender que le buscaba un bien ;(