I hate when he does this, when he grills hamburgers, there is a specific type of buns I like him to buy, they are small, light, buns, since the burgers are never too big, they get smaller when you cook them. He bought the freaking big dark buns, the bun is bigger than the entire patty, which means when I bite I will be biting into the bun, and it's dark which I don't like the dark buns he buys. What should I do?

16 year old girl who never goes out is going on vacation with aunt. dad gives girl 50$ to spend on vacation. once on vacation aunt and girl go shopping. girl has already spent 35$ while there, and they arrive at a store and girl sees a pair of 8.99 sunglasses she loves but also wants to buy her dad a hat which also cost 8.99, but she doesn't have enough money for both. aunt tells her to put back the shades but she says she wants to buy the shades and get her dad something from the "everything 1.99" store. (which is right nextdoor) aunt gets very mad, but they go to the discount store. she then sees a shirt she thinks her dad will love for 2$ and the aunt goes off yelling saying how ugly and gross the shirt is, and how the dad won't like it. aunt storms out of store and girl begins to cry at the cash register. the next morning girl asks nicely for aunt to aplogize but she refuses and calls the girl selfish and says she only cried because she wanted attention. who's in the wrong?

Am I more vulnerable? I have not seen these relatives since last summer except 1 I saw Thanksgiving Weekend last.

My stepdad has been making fun of me and eager to see my fail since I was 15. His kids are kind pretty much the same way; very conniving, manipulative and like to bully others and see them hurt or fail even though they pretend to be caring people. They're now all at least 18. My sis and I are usually away from them most of the time which is great but I worry about my mother. She's still married to him and is even following the same twisted religion (that's full of child molesters). I've tried talking to my mom several times. What else would u do?  Not might be. They are...

16 year old girl who never goes out is going on vacation with aunt. dad gives girl 50$ to spend on vacation. once on vacation aunt and girl go shopping. girl has already spent 35$ while there, and they arrive at a store and girl sees a pair of 8.99 sunglasses she loves but also wants to buy her dad a hat which also cost 8.99, but she doesn't have enough money for both. aunt tells her to put back the shades but she says she wants to buy the shades and get her dad something from the "everything 1.99" store. aunt gets very mad, but they go to the discount store. she then sees a shirt she thinks her dad will love for 2$ and the aunt goes off yelling saying how ugly and gross the shirt is, and how the dad won't like it. aunt storms out of store and girl begins to cry at the cash register. the next morning girl asks nicely for aunt to aplogize but she refuses and calls the girl selfish, who's in the wrong?

16 year old girl who never goes out is going on vacation with aunt. dad gives girl 50$ to spend on vacation. once on vacation aunt and girl go shopping. girl has already spent 35$ while there, and they arrive at a store and girl sees a pair of 8.99 sunglasses she loves but also wants to buy her dad a hat which also cost 8.99, but she doesn't have enough money for both. aunt tells her to put back the shades but she says she wants to buy the shades and get her dad something from the "everything 1.99" store. aunt gets very mad, but they go to the discount store. she then sees a shirt she thinks her dad will love for 2$ and the aunt goes off yelling saying how ugly and gross the shirt is, and how the dad won't like it. aunt storms out of store and girl begins to cry at the cash register. the next morning girl asks nicely for aunt to aplogize but she refuses and calls the girl selfish, who's in the wrong?

Hi, I am 22 years old and in college. I currently live at home with my dad and two younger siblings (17)(15). Around August something happened in the time that I was at school, and all of a sudden both of them hate me. Like genuinely hate me. I dont know what I do. I try to be nice to them, and they give me absolute hate for trying to be friendly to them. The only time they are nice to me, is when they want something from me. When I do it, in hopes that they will be friendly to me again, they are back to hating me 10 minutes later.  I cant take this anymore. I use to not react to them making fun of me and ignoring me, but now whenever I say something back, they get defensive and say that I'm being sensitive. Now they bully me for acting like a victim whenever they make fun of me and they get mad. I dont know what to do.  This wouldnt bother me if they werent getting physcial, but they have. The youngest has attacked me, and has even made fun of me for attempting s*icide a couple years ago (not related). When she sees me taking ibuprofen for a headache, she'll mumble something along the lines of "dont take too many this time."  When I get angry with them for constantly bullying me, they tell me to watch myself. Because they will call the cops and tell them that I hit them, or did something phycisal to them. Even when I did it. "Who will they believe? I crying 15 year old or a psychopath 22 year old?"  I need help with how to make them be nice to me. I dont want this 

Throw me out of the balcony because I admit that I once hit her (she was screaming at someone on the phone and my BF heard her craziness). She never ceases to criticize me and my paternal grandma who raised me at 6 months when she abandoned me. I am the only one who talks to her because of her job skills in the same career I have, while my 2 siblings cut all ties. She accuses me of being Satanic and that I am the reason my siblings do not talk to her. 

Has anyone ever considered cutting ties with dysfunctional family? This past weekend pushed me over the edge with my parents and sister. To give some background about a week ago my mother asked my husband if he could help her clean up her home. The spent several hours and two days cleaning things up. My 40 year old divorced sister lives with my mother, she does help buy groceries and run errands, however she lives filthy and there was food clothes and trash strung in the rooms that they cleaned. A few days after the room was cleaned my husband went to visit my mom and the door to the room that they cleaned was closed as there were clothes thrown all in it. My mother told my aunt that my sis threw all of her clothes in there. In turn that upset my husband since he took two days and several hours out of his life to help her when she asked just to have alot of it undone. I mentioned this to my sister but she played if off stating that it was only clothes no big deal. This past weekend was my daughters birthday and we did not have a party just took her out for lunch and cake. My sister wanted to bring over her birthday presents but I advised that today would not be a good day to come by. She kept insisting and I let her know that my husband was still angry with her. She texted me some pretty nasty things and made a mention of me preventing her from seeing my kids. I let her know that was not what I was doing just today would not be a good day to come by.  I tried to call her but she did not answer. I finally called my mom and she stated that my sister blocked my number and deleted my contact info and said she did not want to have anything to do with me again and not to ask her for anything. My mother excused her behavior and said she was just upset and that she was floored that I would tell her that and be upset over a room. I am really done with all of this my mom house is always chaos their is always drama she isn't happy without it. There is always some problem all the time and I can't bring myself to visit as it always involves her making excuses for my sister, or my drug addict nephew from my other sister or how she hates running her self ragged for another sister but she has too. Even brief phone calls are getting to be to much. But I still feel guilty and keep hearing my aunt tell me that is your momma you should make it work. Any advice

I know that this is a weird question but do you think that it looks weird. for a person To be waking around In their house barefoot. in front of ten to twenty family house guest.

I feel like I'm about to lose it. All I hear is what I need to be doing , as if I'm not doing enough.  The doctor and nurses telling me I need to be up there more. When I wasn't working, I came 3-4 times a week. I live 45 minutes away. When I started back, I came 2-3.  My mom keeps giving me contradicting advice. I move to back in with my grandma, she told me I need to get my own place, which is my plan. When I wasn't working as much, she told me i need to work more. Because I'm trying to move out, I picked up my hours. Now she is telling me I should visit more. And I need to hurry up and get over my cold. Also I need to stop focusing on material things ( the fact that my baby's father and his family hasn't bought anything) . I reminded her I'm buy most of the things people would get from baby showers . I didn't get one.  Both parties told me I need to take off from work but I can't just take off like that. They know I have a sick baby. I'm having a hard time trying to find another job, I can't risk losing this one. I've already gotten written up for missing 3 shifts, 2 of them due to my car and I work 40 minutes away I can't go after work because I'm dirty from working in a nursing home. I'm trying my best but it's not enough and I don't have a lot of help 

Growing up I used my dad things like his car while I was going to college until I bought my own of course. I did pitch in for maintenance etc. However, now that I am older and graduated from college which I paid for myself. He resents me very much. He feels entitled to a business partnership in my small business. He feels entitled to all my knowledge and connections and to give him some of my money and he wants superiority attention at parties. I feel this is a little to much for just letting me borrow his car in college. What do I do about this?

My stores are ransacked and there's nothing I normally buy available, but I need food to live. What is your experience and what city are u in

I'm a 15 year o&d boy and they are 37 and 38

So, whenever my mom gets drunk she's  verbally abusive. She talks down on me and my accomplishments and makes me feel bad for a lot of stuff. I recently was accepted into Ross University school of Veterinary Medicine and she told that I shouldn't go. This has been my dream since I was a little girl. She lied and told family members that I was already a vet and I'm not and said she would let them know that I lied to her about being a vet so that she doesn't look like the liar. What is wrong with her? My friends said she was jealous of me cause I travel and am educated and much younger, but I would assume parents be proud of their kids doing well not the opposite. 

So because of this whole corona virus thing my family started self quarantine in order to not infect my old grandmother. The rest of my family is beginning to get spring allergies. This has been going on for about 3 days, but we still go to the store to get supplies and they even bought icecream from an icecream truck. I got ice in a cup and they took the straw out because the icecream woman touched it. So my friends recently have wanted to hang out, but my parents told me if I go anywhere with them they'll kick me out of the house and not let me back in, ever. So recently my friends came over and offered me a chance to leave my house and let me stay at their place until the panic is over. I told them that I really wanted to go out, but my family would kick me out. I was about to pack my bags and leave until my family burst in and told me not go in tears. There is only one case in my city which is already in quarantine and taken care of. Should I stay with my family, or leave with my friends?

In my family it is my sister who is emotionally abusive to everyone.

Ok so i haven't seen my almost 11 yr old son for 2 years and could be leaving my daughter who is 4 yrs old. I'm looking for songs that can relate of what it feels to be a part time dad any? 

So we were on vacation and my adult sister, aged 26, was blocking the bathroom door when I had to go at the end of the day. She did not want to share a bathroom with her 35 year old brother. Finally I lost it with her and grabbed her by the shoulder and told her to "Cut it out" and called her "PMS (B-Word)". My sister freaked out and ran through the house screaming to our parents. The next day my father sent her home. I was embarrassed I had over-reacted but both my parents assured me I did absolutely nothing wrong. My grandmother even said I was fine. I have not seen the sister since other then for about ten minutes on Thanksgiving. My sister had also texted my brother and insult my mother had made about his wife. It was not meant as an insult but the kind of thing that could be taken as one. So long story short, did they do the right thing by sending her home? Based on my story were they right that I did nothing wrong? Was grabbing her wrong? I had not gotten visibly mad at anyone since age 17. Now I am 35. So 18 years had passed. Our last trip the sister had bullied and I put up with it by smiling. I was bullied as a kid and am learning disabled so awkward socially. This is why she dislikes me as she dislikes anyone different. She won't even be around her autistic nephew.

She is in total denial of what he did to me in the 60's. It was too late to prosecute when I came forward. She knew it was happening and didn't do anything. I don't understand how she can expect me to do this and not ask my brothers. However, I don't want to have another falling out with my mother as she does not have long in this world either as she is 89 and my father 91. My father has 3-6 months of life left with congestive heart failure. I have only seen him 4 times since I came out in 1981 about the abuse he did. Two of those times I refused to speak to him. He has shown no remorse and says I made the stuff up. My mother is in denial just like when I was a cocaine addict and she kept giving me money and even drove me to the dealers place. Luckily I found the gift of sobriety in the early 1980's.

I am ordered to hate who my Dad and Mom hate. My Mom has softened on this position since I became an adult but my father still holds firm that I am to hate his enemies. I am terrified to break this but the people he hates I like. I saw one of his enemies that is a family member and was nice to her. I am terrified he will find out. He scares me even though he is not an extremely angry person or anything.

when is it going to end!!! I live in Virginia and everything here is closed schools parks libraries etc and my mom is isolating my grandma bc she's afraid of her getting it pls help I'm crying

I found out my boyfriend lost her mom to suicide out of mental illness when he was 12, her mom always loved him and since then he was left with his father who when he was 17, had a injury had work leaving him unable to do his previous job. My boyfriend took night classes to take his diploma, worked and took care of his dad. He had no one in his family to help. No friends. He never told me those things, his neighbour told me, an old woman for whom he goes buying things once a week. My boyfeiend was always somehow cold and not so enthusiast, like he always had something else in his mind and had to go home, but I never understood why. I thought he was just making excuses not to stay..i didn't know he had to go home to make dinner for his dad. 😢 he skipped going out with his classmates, and jokes from other boys never made him life. I used to see him sigh a lot, and had this sadness in his blue eyes, like he wanted to be somewhere else. Now that I know, I havr no doubts anymore. If I thought he was cold and distant, now I think he's just worried. I only want to hold him in my arms and give him all the love that I can