We separated 2 weeks ago. I took my kids to my parents house for the weekend because I didn't want the tension. We both agreed to be civil and we could stay as long as we needed to save money. Today I go to my house to get a couple small things I needed. 2 of my children went with me not thinking it was an issue. When I pulled up there was a police car out front. I drove past the house, stepped out of the car and called my husband. He said he didn't want any trouble i explained what I needed and asked the cop to leave.  I walk in and he has about 70% of my things boxed up and all sitting in our living room. I asked the kids to go their room. Him and I did not yell but I was in shock! I know he can't legally kick us out but this seems just wrong and evil. Is he allowed to do this? And what are my options?  This is the kids step-dad btw

My wife and I have been married for 3 months we been talking a lot lately about wanting kids. When should we have some ?

He died years ago and I always put him on a pedestal for my childrens sake but slowly all those bad memories came back and I found myself almost hating him...is it possible to block it out?

Obviously we are living in one of the most historic times in our lives and will be asked "what was it like during the Coronavirus Shutdown'.

Also he is dating already and not even divorced yet. Is this adultery? He has been separated about exactly a year.

My Mom told me growing up that my Dad left us. I feel guilt that I was not good enough for him to stay. I see now my Mom was venting and should have said "left me but loves you". However, the belief he rejected me is ingrained in my brain. On top of this I learned as an adult my Mom actually left him and put up roadblocks for him to see me. Thus, I was disloyal to him by going along with my Mom. She had given him an ultimatum and when he did not meet it she left. When she said he left "us" she meant he "hadn't met her ultimatum". In her defense he was an alcoholic. So how do I stop blaming myself for all this? I am an adult in my late 30's who still blames myself for my parents 1991 divorce and my disloyalty to my Dad after since I believed my Mom's words that he didn't want a relationship with us. Thus I felt rejected and still do. My Dad died in 1999 of Cirrhosis from the alcoholism.

They are ruining our family.

And had no job

 how should he face that truth? As live in relationships are nearly same as like living like husband-wife and doing same things that husband wife does and also love is involved, then should he be alert and cautious with his wife as she might leave him too after some days just like she did with her loved exes? And should he worry about the fact that as she has already lived like husband-wife with her exes, so for her this husband will not be any special as its not a new thing for her? And she might have done everything and every acts with her exes so, sex will not be a first time like special for her, unlike the husband for whom everything will be first and special for him?

I'm almost 20 and I'm realising there's no point to this, I'm gonna die anyway. Do I really wanna live to 50/60/70/80 and feel my health decline? No way. There's no point in even having kids and a wife, people are gonna reproduce anyway.. it's not like I'm particularly needed for all that bollocks. That bollocks being a toxic marriage. Marriage is a scam and love isn't real, it's just some illusion people think is real. People will cheat on their marriage the moment they meet a new person they click well with. I also imagine my wife will eventually turn into such an annoying drama queen, creating toxic drama and then playing victim - I can't do all that.  What if I get to 30 and I have no friends? Nobody to go for a drink with or nothing. I don't want to be alive for that. It seems like things are going in that direction. My old friends used to tell me they loved me, but now I truly believe they want to see my life go to **** and would probably find it funny cause I'm the guy they just can't take seriously. I remember being the funny one, but I was always nice to my mates and believed in them, but all I really got was unprovoked disrespect and underestimations. When I was trying to stand up for myself against one, suddenly another's going against me. I stopped being nice all the time and gave out unprovoked disrespect as well. This turned into a roasting session I got the upper hand in, now I have nothing to do other than exercise, ps4 and smoke weed. I actually want to die I can remember all the party's I wasn't allowed to come to or wasn't told about. All the times my mates were there and I wasn't. All the times I climbed over the garden fence just to have a wade of girls around me telling me to go, leave. They found that **** funny. Sure sometimes I was allowed to stay. But now my golden days are over, finito. I barely got any girls back then, but now I've ****** it. 

So me and my wife have been married two years now, she's 22, I'm 26 and she recently opened up to me about wanting to try a threesome. However it is quite alarming in a sense because I'm just worried that she's sexually bored. Me and her are both Christians and I hold sex as something very sacred and I also just would never want to have sex with another individual.     I'm kind of at a loss for words and it's been bothering me that she doesn't feel the same.    How can I spice up our sex life? Any advice? 

The aunt and uncle divorced recently. I would understand the ex-aunt blocking me if she had blocked all former in-laws. However, she follows my sister and brother as well as a cousin or two of mine. Meanwhile the 2 daughters are still family. This all started 10 years ago as they hated my Mom because her friend had offered to help one of the 2 daughters of my aunt-uncle but that friend of my Mom's ended up being unstable and not nice. As a result uncle's wife hated my Mom for getting involved in problems their daughter had. Yet, they had asked my Mom to help. From their the 2 daughters backed their mother and also hated my Mom. One has become kind since the other I hear 2nd hand told a friend she still dislikes my mother as of a year ago. So during all this I friended them on Facebook. They declined. I sent more then 1 friend request and they blocked me. I made a social error probably by sending more then 1 request. This was 2009. So now I sent them a friend request on Instagram seeing 11 years has passed. Ex-aunt blocked me and okay, she has been divorced for 4 years. But then the 2 daughters blocked me. This hurt my feelings. How do I stop caring? How do I get them to like me? I have no ill will for the former aunt at all. It was a valid divorce 4 years (split in 2016) ago and uncle has moved on 4 years later. Both are alcoholics so the marriage was bad. How do I stop caring on what the cousins did? How do I not be offended they follow my brother and sister? My sister and I are the only other female cousins on this part of the family. (two other siblings of my Mom's but they have all boys).  This written by a 29 year old female (Me). 

My mom and dad were never married

My mother raised me with a weird mentality that women are "needy" and "idiots" if they want a man by their side or "cant live without a man". She never cleaned much so i dont have that example but I do like cleaning and keeping a nice clean place  What makes a man happy? Clean home? Good dinner.. But what else? I know I would not make a good wife from what I learned at home.. But I do want to be a good if not a great wife. I don't want to be alone all my life like my mom.. Yes man would be her "friends" but never really offered much and if they did it was the intention to be pervs with me. I don't want that in my life. 

My boss and owner of where I work at is 45 years old, his wife is the same age. He has a wife, been married for 5 years and kids. He is a very dedicated family man, is even always posting about how he loves his on Instagram, always saying good things about her. Spending time with the family, would do anything for them. At our shop we had a 21 year old customer, very beautiful woman. And she was my client, he flirted with her boldly in front of us, rubbing on her thighs. Telling her he wanted to bring her home to have sex while his family was gone. But she declined. He gave her his number. I found out 2 weeks later that he got involved in a FWB relationship with her. Was honest to her about being married, even talks about his wife casually with her like it's no big deal that he's cheating at all. He's always telling the 21 year old how much he wants her sexually, and doesn't want her having sex with anyone but him. They can't keep their hands of off each other, he talks about how passionate the sex is. How can he love his wife and would do anything for her but cheat? And I'm positive his wife doesn't know, I've known her for years. His wife recently went crazy on him for coming home at 2am after meeting with the girl to have sex. I thought he would stop but he just told the girl that he needs to lay for awhile cause his wife is trippin. How can someone do this to someone they love?