The boss in the department I work for took a 3 week vacation and appointed me to take his place while he was away. I thought there might be a problem having a lot of men working for a woman (me) but that was not the case. We all had a nice working relationship. On the Friday the day before our boss returned from vacation my coworkers brought in a cake for me to share with everyone. The cake had this written on it. "You were a great boss and the most beautiful boss we have ever had". The Human Relations guy told my co workers not to do that again as it was a sexual thing to do. The next Monday when our boss returned from vacation my co workers told our boss what the Human Relations guy had told them. He said "Screw the Human Relations guy". "I agree 100 percent with what was written on the cake". I am not sure how I should feel about this. Should I tell my boss and my co workers thank you for the compliment? Did my co workers do something wrong?

This morning a friend of mine said Hi to me on Messenger. I sent her a post in which a member was touting the successes of his candidate. My friend responded by posting a retort someone in the comments section had posted. A back and forth ensued which left my friend upset. She proceeded to avoid my calls and barely responded to my text after a while. She said maybe we can talk tomorrow. The last thing I wanted was to ruin the start to her day. So, why is it that people disagree so strongly and have such a visceral reaction to politics? Also, since this is a big part of who I am, it can't be avoided in a reasonable relationship. Should I try to come to terms somehow with her differences or just say goodbye?

My friend got into a fight with someone where he was making noises and he told him to shut the f up and he said no and this is where the fight started: he grabbed his lunchbox and threw it at him then he grabbed my friends lunchbox and threw it at him again and then he ran over and as he was he was throwing the lunch boxes at him and the person who did that grabbed his shirt and started ripping it and my friend went over in the corner and started crying and then he took off his shoe and threw it at him but he ducked and it hit the window then the guy just walked out how come my friend thought that nobody won that fight

So I totally done with this political correct crap.  I teach my sons to be men, if a girl is willing to sleep with you, then she also going to Yale you Cummings in her or in her mouth. I tell them to look for those girls with daddy issues, they open their legs the easiest.  The one rule is not to a get a girl pregnant or rape a girl.  Besides that, do whatever you want to a girl who's willing.  I tell the twins to take turns on the same girls.  They are so stupid and they never know the difference.   Am I alone in teaching my sons to be men. How do the rest of you real men do it?

My high school best friend is trying to reach out to me again after a fight that ended in him ghosting me. I'm not gonna lie I acted really crazy some of the time during our friendship. Though that said he would make decisions often about our friendship without consulting me and not want to hear my opinion, he would also lie to me about things involving me. We got in a fight and he lied to me, then I called him out, and he ghosted me next. Now he is trying to reconnect with me and seemingly acting like nothing happened. I used to blame him for all our fights but now I'm looking back and I'd say it's both of our faults. Should I try to reconnect also or just stay separate? 

My friend came into a disagreement with a friend and he end up saying not nice things to her. She got hurt and he knows it. He saw she was secretly crying. I noticed his voice was down. I saw he was avoiding eye contact with her as well.  Does he feel he was wrong? Or he is angry at her?

What does it mean when someone says you're a character?

My guy friend has been acting weird and a little distant. He said "maybe I did things that led you on and I'm sorry. I don't know how I feel" he also said "we're gonna figure this out, everything's gonna play on how it's suppose too." he also told me once (before all of the above) I still want you in my life. You matter to me. Friday me, him and some other friends hung out and played games. What does this mean??

Can someone be weird yet have strong/decent social skills. 

I have a 19 year old friend who constantly complains about her mom and is not willing to take any advice from anyone, and she also tries to complain to other church members or people at the church about her mom when she gets the opportunity to, we all told her, that includes me several times as long as she is dependent on her mom and live with her, her mom has the right to tell her what to do and raise her, as long as she's under mom's household she has follow her mom's rules. She even messaged me last night saying that her mom is 'controlling' her, which I KNOW very well that's not the case, I'm tired of telling her over and over again to listen to her mom till she moves out but she won't take the advice like literally from anyone, I'm sure people are tired of her complaints, especially at the church. To top it all off, she asked me to get me involved with her and her mom, asked to trade mom's, and she claims that she is dating someone she has never met in person online from a different country and wants to go to one of the Middle East countries to be with this guy, please someone help, I don't want to lose her as a friend but at the same time I want to cut her off, because I don't want to at the same time, someone please help.

How much would you care about someone to arrange to meet with them (travelling 40 minutes on the Underground to get there) and spend six hours with them - firstly having lunch with them and then visiting a museum with them? Do you think that the person who did this and met with me is a friend? (I have Aspergers, so struggle to interpret things socially)

Why not? why didnt you make them your friend?

People would literally take things out on me. They also get mad over the littlest things. It has gotten bad to the point where I'm afraid of doing something wrong because I might get yelled at or get told to shut up. I hate their attitudes. One reason why I prefer solitude.  I try to not lash out at others because I don't want them to feel how I feel when people yell at me. It seriously hurts my feelings because it seems like that I'm the easiest person to lash out at. I'm not the type of person who wants to make people angry. I don't even do anything wrong most of the time. I think they had no reason to take their anger out on me. It's not my fault that their lives suck.  They should feel bad for talking to me that way. They clearly don't care about my feelings. They never said sorry. I don't know what I did to deserve this disrespect. Do you think they ever felt bad or not?   

Its a really funny long story; every time I tell it people are dying on the floor laughing.  Before I say anything: I was on exchange in amsterdam, I speak russian, I have a very high tolerance even though I rarely drink. Basically, I got in a drinking contest/fight with a Russian exchange student (About Kahlua and the Black Russian drink) in Amsterdam, and the next day I was in a hotel in Brussels with 3 out of 5 of my bffs, a giant renaissance hat (of which we stole from a costume store near the metro/ returned later on), Russian written on my forehead and arms. The russian guy was downstairs having a chat with the bartender. I lost the argument, but I dont really remember it. Thats as short/unspecific as I can make it sorry.Anyways, should I keep the nickname and use it selectively?

I used to have a dear friend that I loved in high school. He was the ultimate gay best friend, I loved him so much like he was my best friend. I somehow knew we were going to be friends forever. But one day we got into a big argument! The argument was because of a big misunderstanding to the point I had my brother come to school and confront him. I think our friendship ending was my fault... because I never explained myself and I didn't know what was going on. Now I look back and I cry. Because I miss him so much. It's a weird feeling....because It's been years and I'm 28 now. We haven't talked in years. I want to contact him... I saw his Facebook page and twitter page and Instagram. I'm so scared to send him a message. He probably still hates me. I don't know how he is now or what he's like or the life experiences he's had. Should I leave him alone, or should I speak to him? It's been such a long time and I don't know why I miss him so much. 

I came early one day before my gf came home. I didn't pee after. I pre ejaculate inside her is there a chance she is pregnant or is the chance low.

If you're going to judge, don't bother on answering. I used this drug dealer twice, he delivered. Next time I used he screwed me over. Why would he do that? He was legit before and now he lost a customer I don't get it. 

Let's say two women are talking about a man when he's nearby. Woman A says to woman B "he's so sweet!"  Then whenever woman A sees the man, her eyes open wide and she seems happy to see him.Could she be attracted to him?Also, there is another woman who when she sees the man, she leans in close and smiles when they talk. Also she's amazed by the sound of his voice. She says "I don't know how you do it with that voice!" And she smiles at him. She enjoys his company it seems also. 

I'm a 21 year old guy and I followed a girl my age I've never met in person before on Instagram. She followed me back. We interact with each other on Instagram and now on Snapchat. We chat pretty much daily. She lives in my town, and I want to meet her in person. How should I go about that?? We are purely friends. At this time, I have no intention on making this a dating thing.

Hi first off if you're reading this thank a lot for your attention, I appreciate it, well let's get down to what I'm wirtting this for. Hi mi name is Erick I'm 22 years old and I feel so misunderstood the thing is even I don't get myself, let me start by saying that people use to avoid me, ignore me when it comes to talking about things that happen to me or when it is about things I like I just don't fit in even my mother never paid attention to what I liked and my father used to tell me what I like is stupid I can't complain though they always gave me everything I wanted (but attention) as kid I wasn't allowed to have friends because I lived in a dangerous neighborhood and the "kids were bad to me" I grew up as a teenager who thought having friends is stupid I think it is because as little boy I didn't have them so when people tried to be friendly to me I felt like they were just getting in my way then I got to know these people who are my only friends so far 4 guys who are my best friends they showed that I didn't have to think like that and having could be fun and important in life they're the kind of people who are smart, one of them a smartass, but he is funny I like him, then I got to know other two friends really good friends who taught me that sometimes talk about stupidity is ok, the thing is as the showed me that having friends is good thing I wanted to be friends with people in my University and where I work at the thing is I don't seem to fit in with anybody.  Because as I mentioned before people use to avoid me when I talk about what happens to or what I like I'm I aware that most of the things I said are considered boring in this society but even the ones I know are fun they don't even show interest in them and most times I'm feel myself forced to talk only stupidity it's the same my friends taught it is ok said stupid things but there's a limit but I have to say them pretty much always, at work and at the University, because my friends are there. They don't either work or are in same University as me,I'm alone where I work and study, so I can't see them as I used to in highschool and in my University I don't fit in with anybody when I want know about something real, like what you used to do as kid, how is your family, why do you like "x something", "you know when I was 15 I went through the same thing or something similar" "That's why I dream with" "And I want to be a good"... "What about you?" When you say things like those. People ignores you and some of them are rude and I'm ok with being treated like that sometimes because I respect everyone is got their personality but when you see 10 out of 10 persons with the same personality I get bored of it, I didn't say this before but I'm not myself I can't I always try to be nice to everyone even when they are not to me, but when they're like that over and over again I get bored of it, my true self so to speak comes out and I'm everything I hate, I'm a asshole I Don't like what I don't and I let people know about it, same thing when it comes to mistakes, I don't like to make long conversations when they're talking about something I'm not interested in or I don't like and I'm too direct if I'm they're stupid or something do is, I say it, but I have said things like that to my mother, my father and my friends when I explode  and I don't want to be like that because I have made cry my mother and my father and friends see as if I were a monster, it hurts Lately I've been holding myself back very hard everyone at University and work, these people I talk to tells that I'm their friend yes that's right I'm the best person I can to them, but they're pretty rude to me and ignore me many times and also they never talk to me unless they want to know something about work, favors and homework... I'm getting tired of it but I also don't want to be alone, people have shown me that have friends is nice but I don't find this kind of people lately... And also don't want to be the asshole I am to them because even though they are like that to me I don't feel like they deserve to be treated like that but I feel bad and I have cried in the bathrooms sometimes and I just want to explode I just don't want to hurt someone and be seeing as a monster once again. Thanks to everyone who got till this point I may be a long reading this will look wicked to some or maybe most of you but thank you for paying attention if you got here, have a beautiful day One update more, yeah it doesn't look like a question? I just want to know what you people would do because right now I'm only see two options keep like this or completely start to being the asshole I am. I'm not saying this are the only ways but these are the ones I see right now.

i clocked in this morning and all day my co workers and bosses were getting pissy with me and yelling at me telling me to quit slacking around, but im pretty sure the real reason they were mad was because they were just jealous of my dick size. I was doing my job so I couldn't have been slacking around, they just needed an excuse to be mad at me and didn't want to admit their jealousy. Why are they jealous?  Im 10 inches