How long will he have to stuggle to reach to her level of experience thatshe had for 10-12 years? Willit take 10-12 years for him as well to reach to her level of expeeience after marriage? Yes, its easy to say the wife can guide him...but thenhe willbehen packed husband and inferior, a student, etc...n will never become a husband or a liver likethe exes were?

I feel played because she said she was leaving her husband in 6 months and it's now been 6 months and I don't see her foot on the pedal. I have dedicated 6 months out of my life to giving her attention advice emotional support. I give her more attention than her own husband does. Spending all day and night talking to her thinking we were gonna be something in 6 months. I literally stopped my life for her because she told me to wait on her. She told me don't talk or go out with other women and I've been sitting around doing just that. She said she can't leave yet because she can't financially afford to be on her own yet and she doesn't wanna place that's burden on me  She said " I love you but this is a process for me" She wants me to act like I'm her boyfriend even though she hasn't even divorced him yet. She wants me to take her on dates bring her flowers and still text her 24/7. 

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I have a 4 almost 5 year old. My husband is very strict with my son and nags him about everything he does.He doesn't like my son around us and sends him to his room. Everytime my toddler wants affection and kisses or hugs me he gets Jealous of my baby. I have spoken to him and honestly he acts like a child arguing with a 4 year old. I don't know what to do. We are expecting our first baby and he wasn't always like this. I feel blindsided and trapped. For the Jerk calling me a bad mom first you don't know me. Second I was single for 4 years raising my son on my own. I didn't date and the second man I have had sex with is now my husband. My sons father was abusive my husband is not. He is a great provider for us. Even given the fact that my son is not his he takes care of him. Also my son is difficult he was going to get kicked out of pre school difficult. So I allow him to discipline him. But since I do now he does it so much. Its not easy raising a kid like my son. Many people would give up and my son is so hard to deal with. But I do it because I love him and he's my son. My husband also never told my son anything until I let him. But my husband is a grown man and its crazy how much he argues with my son but maybe its because I'm use to my sons behavior I let it go

This is hands down one his best videos: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6dyIe2sCbLM Don't watch if you do not like facts or can't handle truth bombs. The marrieds do not care about USA or its leadership so moved the question here

Saying he no more likes sex and its his body and he has changed? Just as she might say that just because she had all kinky sex acts with all her exes does"nt mean she will allow her husband to do it, so the husband too can say that just because he took his ex to long drive, gave her many gifts, said romantic words always, took her to many vacation and expensive destinations, thatdoes'nt mean he willdothat with his wife too....he may not do a single thing for her....otherwise itshypocrisy.

Does the truth make your ears bleed?  That IS my president: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-b29XjcLIe0 Tell me your thoughts after watching the video.  Tim cites all of his sources and he's considered left wing.

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I'm almost 28 and my partner is 29. We've been friends for 3 years and in a relationship for 1 year. Two months ago he bought a home and we moved in together. Before we moved in, we had a serious talk about marriage and our timeline and we both agreed that we'd get engaged after a year of living together (we also both felt it was important to live together first to ensure we're truly compatible). Everything is going so well. We both pull our own weight, work together as a team, show each other love, and joke about how it feels like we're already married. Our value, beliefs, morals, etc. are aligned- we've had all the important talks and it's amazing how right it feels. I know it'll happen but within just the past 3 weeks, 3 of our close friends have gotten engaged! I'm so happy for them but it's made me even more excited about what it'll be like when we get engaged. I know I have to be patient. It's just with these 3 new engagements announced and the fact that all - literally all but 1 - of our mutual couple friends are already married, it makes it harder to patiently wait for our turn. I know this all sounds petty and it'll happen when it's mean to happen. Any advice on whether or not I should revisit the discussion of our timeline again and if so, how? I don't want to chase him away and I want it to happen when he's truly ready for it but at the same time I'm so ready and so sure.

What will make her change? And how will she control her urges to sleep with different men aftermarriage asher body is used to various partners?

What will the virgin husband miss by marrying such a women with totally different nature?  Will he be on the losing side even though he worked hard all throughout his life for building a good career and learning good values and not wasting time fooling around or flirting with numerous women, whereas the wife was fooling around with different men all those time, n now has nothing new to explore with the husband and nothing is new or special for her having done it with multiple men and its just a repeatation of same words, same acts and same feelings with the present husband...n instead willhave high expectations from the virgin husband as she is used to various mind blowing intimacy with variety of men?  Will he be under tremendous pressureof performance and will have to struggleto reach to theline set by all her exes and also will have to be inferior in front of her always and has to be henpacked husband?

I've been with my husband some 17 years almost and last night he said that I was being very insensitive. When we met he claimed to have 2 daughters. 1 biological and one "adopted". He dated a girl many years before me and when they broke up they remained friends. This girl got pregnant by some guy then when the little girl was about 2 he was killed. My husband stepped in and help raise this little girl. She grew up calling him daddy, even when she found out he wasn't her real daddy. To the day she still calls him her daddy. She now has 3 kids of her own and they call him their grand-daddy. Well, last night we were watching the season finale of This Is Us and my husband made mention that he's birth 2 children. I looked at him and said something to the affect of "you didn't physically birth any children and that his oldest "adopted" daughter wasn't his. No, he didn't legally adopt her but he's been there for every milestone in her life. She's spent countless days at his place, he's taken her on vacations with his through the years, etc.The girl's mom even refers to him as her "baby daddy" because of all he did for her. Well, my husband got very upset at my comments, to the point of tears. He's always said that when he dies he wants her listed on his obituary as his daughter, not god-daughter, not adopted daughter. His daughter! He got so angry with me until he left the house for a while. When he came home I was in the bedroom and he was in the living room.  I sent him a text to say "I was sorry."  Why can't / won't he accept my apology?  He says that I have never really accepted this girl as his daughter.  Yes, the girl's real dad's mom knows he has helped raise her and they have had a great relationship through the years seeing each other at events and things.  Yes, I'm sorry but was I really being that insensitive?

Will their relationship be balanced anyway as one partner will be more confident and would have high expectations? Also the husband will have to struggle and will be under pressure to become as good as her exes as he loves her very much and treats her well....whereas the wife will be simply enjoying life without any pressure and will be treating her husband like a henpacked and will always be superior in sex an relationships having had it with many men. So, getting naked and having sex with a new partner is not a new thing for her nor is it a big or special thing for her. But for the husband its totally different and everything will be first time and special but at the same time there will be pressure on him due to which he may not have a good time and his focus will be always on getting better than her exes...or else she will always fantasize about her exes and will have the picture of her exes in her heart in the folder of "best sex partner".

I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now. We both have children from previous relationships that we co-parent with! I currently have my own home with my children and he currently "lives" with his parents and is there during the day with his kids until they go home. He usually spends his nights with me at my house and his 3 kids sleepover every other weekend. Now that the cornavirus is very much real and present I have told him that I want to take initiative and put a pause to the interactions between our kids and ourselves by not having sleepovers and him spending the night. It's been hard for him to understand because he considers us to be a blended family and that we are in this together but in all reality us being together means combining 6+ households and creating new links for the virus  (in my mind). Do you think it's selfish or shady of me to make this decision?? Am I being way too dramatic about social distancing and basically showing my bf and his kids that I don't love them??? Help I feel guilty 

I met a cute guy at the bar, I gave him my number. He texted me and we planned a date. He told me how excited he was to hang out with me. Then he rescheduled. Then he completely bailed on the second date, even though he talked about how excited he was to go and how he couldn't wait. I then found out he had a fiance the entire time. Why the heck did this person go through ALL of the trouble of manipulating me, when it was very clear he had zero intentions the entire time of actually ever meeting up with me. It makes 0 sense to me.