I ask because I'm 34 and have been a hermit for most of my life, no friends, no job etc. Now everyone is doing it with me. How are you feeling trapped in the house bored? Thanks 

i have some good friends, but lately because i'm so scared they're going to leave i haven't talking to them to not bother them. i know this is distancing and now i believe i'm losing them. i'm just so scared to talk to them and i feel liek im not good enough for them or anyone. i'm so scared im going to be left behind.

I've known her since second grade and grits her teeth all the time and thinks we should be scared of her but she should be scared of ME. she doesn't know I've dealt with a bully before and the physical bully type too. But she has got on my last nerve. So she takes my seat so then i walk to another seat then she goes to another seat and i take her seat she starts throwing this hissy fit and says stuff like you are annoying and you ruin everything. and I'm like do i look like i care. BTW I'm the type of person that LOVESSS revenge. I don't really care but i don't know how to say i don't want to be her friend if she is going to get on my nerves. But i would just say it carelessly but i have a friend that tells me otherwise. So please Help!

I dont know if I would consider him my friend. More so a boss. Hew the bf of a women I work for at her house. He loves in California, and she lives in oregon. I know that california is under a stay at home order, so I suggested he should probably stay home. I really didn't think he was gonna listin to me, but hes not only staying at home, but hes not going to his doctors appointments. That's what his gf told me. I think it's his physical tharapy, and I'm not sure what else, but hes 90 years, old, so I'm pretty sure those are essential. I think I scared him, and now hes afraid to go to his appointments even. Should I call him, and suggest he goes to his appointments? Hes always really nice to me, but I'm afraid hes gonna be like "well, you told me to stay home, so I'm saying home"

The title of the show was...  "'I Was Really Annoyed That Coronavirus Was Getting More Publicity Than Me,' Says Woman Who Licked the toliet seat…" She is right, those Chinese people will do it again anyway. And you people will continue to be friend with these Chinese. It isn't her problem that these people got lung problem because they smoke. Smokers will continue to smoke after the Covid-19 is over anyway. Why does she have to stay at home? Old people will die eventually anyway.

Me and my boyfriend hang out way too much and its ruining our relationship.  He feels happy but i feel suffocated and anxious even though its me that makes the plans with him since i dont have other friends. Im starting to feel anxious and smothered around him. I need other people to hang out with but i cant make friends (ive tried school, gym, etc and nothing worked) people are always busy and i end up calling him because i know he is always available for me.  He has a lot of friends but they are male and so i only hang with them when he is around, otherwise i would feel awkward. I need female friends but everytime i reach out they are busy... Help me please!

Like isn't reacting to bullying in a way where you say stop the way to make them stop? Shouldn't you react?

I am an extrovert, and I like interacting with people. That's why it's so surprising. I also have social anxiety, and self medicate with alcohol, and what I'm really enjoying is not drinking and smoking.. It feels so great

i have a friend who's been my best friend for years but lately they never talk to me or tell me anything, i have to find our stuff from my other friend, and i constantly feel like I'm not good enough for her, what should i do?

For I want to do it again it felt so good n relaxing. She said same thing..but she doesn't want to do it again. Will she change her mind you think. She told me I'm a very good friend here. It kinda just happened our fooling around...were just try about any n everything here. I've been dreaming about her alot since it happened. Starting to develop feelings for her..even before this happened. Never told her though and Idk if it would kill this friendship at all. What can I do??!#  

Me and my boyfriend hang out way too much and its ruining our relationship.  He feels happy but i feel suffocated and anxious even though its me that makes the plans with him since i dont have other friends. Im starting to feel anxious and smothered around him. I need other people to hang out with but i cant make friends (ive tried school, gym, etc and nothing worked) people are always busy and i end up calling him because i know he is always available for me.  He has a lot of friends but they are male and so i only hang with them when he is around, otherwise i would feel awkward. I need female friends but everytime i reach out they are busy... Help me please!

My friend turns 21 soon and im not sure what to get her. She likes to decorate inside her house alot, with plants and fake aquariums and whatever else looks appealing, so maybe this helps.  Could you advise me what to get her? I wouldn't wanna go too high from £25 either as Im not doing too well financially atm

First off Asian women are very intellectual. They don't put out, they aren't easy. A white guy like me cannot figure out why other white guys chooses Asian women. I tell my white guy friends that very soon your penis will be cut off because Asian women don't play around. Asian women are just boring. Also Asian women has a whole lot of street smarts and knows how to cockblock themselves without having their guy friends to assist. Asian women holds their own themselves. Don't you other white guys agree?

I have a roommate who I don't particularly get along with. I'm an introvert and shes a total extrovert. Shes currently not working due to the virus (but is getting paid) so shes been at home almost 24/7. She has people over constantly and she has her mom staying with us right now. At this point her mom has almost been here for 2 weeks. I know the bills are going to be a lot higher because they're both home 24/7 and we've gone through a ton more dishes so obviously the water/lge bill will be way higher. If she is still here by Sunday I'm going to ask my roommate to have her Mom pitch in on the utilities since she'll have been here half of the month. I asked my roommate when she was leaving and she said she didnt know. Am I being unreasonable for asking her mom to pitch in?

Conflicts between a former best friend has left me incapable of trusting people. Being an extrovert I'm great at forming friendships but I usually either get too attached or too detached while still not being able to trust them. I know that's it's not healthy and that not everyone is out to get me. But I don't know what to do because it's too awkward to bring up with my parents. Like what am I supposed to say? "Hey mom, dad, turns out I've only been pretending to be happy for the past year due to being emotionally traumatized by an abusive ex friend who knew I had abandonment issues but decided he wanted to toy with me anyways. And even though I detest him more than anything else, I still idealize the old him that wasn't a gaslighting liar, which is why I still hang around him despite knowing it's terrible for me." It just feels kinda weird sharing that with my parents but it's gotten to the point that my lack of trust and ability to tell whether I'm being abandoned or not is negatively impacting my relationships with my new best friends that I know don't hate me, but I can't help but convince myself anyways. How do I get help without making anyone aware? I just want it to stop.

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Me and my friends have our own band we're doing our first concert of the year on Friday. We sing everything from 80's rock to 90's country we also have some songs of our own. I'm the lead singer usually there's a part in the show where we sing some sad country songs like Concrete Angel or The Little Girl. My wife was obsessed with that Little Girl song by Montgomery Gentry when we were kids she use to sing it all the time it made me cry whenever she sang it I don't see how she stand it its the saddest song I ever heard. Even to this day at 23 years old I can't even listen to it without tearing up same with Blake Shelton's song about that baby. When it comes to a country song about kids like that it makes me wanna cry. We also have Don't Laugh At Me by Mark Wills on our list I can't stand that song either it makes me think of my wife because she was bullied a lot in school because she was different. We saw him in concert a few years ago I started to tear up as soon as he started singing it. I do love country music but the sad songs I can't hardly listen to let a lone sing them live. Is it OK to cry ? 

I'm a 21 year old guy and I'm friends with a 26 year old girl. We are co workers and have known each other on a surface level for a year. I recently added her on social media. She has expressed interest in hanging out with me, but I told her I'm busy and it's difficult for me to find time, although I do want to hang out. What I said to her was true, but the truth is I'm afraid to get close because she tells me about how much anxiety she has and it sounds to me getting closer could be a burden. Should I be friends with her or is my instinct to stay away right?? Also, what is the right thing to say to someone with anxiety? She writes about it on Facebook a lot and she seems to be kinda self destructive. I'm a happy guy and don't want to be dragged down so I'm confused. She seems cool but I'm weary of her.

I personally just am not comfortable as a female sleeping in the same bed with another grown woman, nor trying to share the restroom for getting ready in the morning and showering in the evening. Its like 2 mother birds in the same nest, doesnt happen. I prefer my own personal space. Are u like this or do u not give a shhh? Dumb F#cks! Its a vacay rental space as our school is closed. We had to go somewhere, so this is where we are!!!!!! If you dumb f#cks would like to let all 7 of us live in your home for free while our school figures out what its going to open ever again, let us know! 

I have two friends. One is a redhead and the other is a blonde (saying this so you can distinguish them, I'm not coming up with stupid fake names). Recently, I introduced them to each other. They didn't really hit it off. But I invited both of them over a few weeks back and they spent the first two hours arguing over stupid crap (like why the redhead would shave his legs or why the blonde likes SpongeBob more than Stranger Things). After this, all HELL broke loose. Literally, the two just started beating each other up. And after this, neither one can see each other without trying to go after the other.

Is it worse than "B" word? What does it mean to you? Ive seen women clutch pearls, gasp, and guys flip out when used toward women. In my culture it is not used, so we would not be offended as we just know ur trying to harm us, but we dont use it ever, so the effect is lost. Can u please explain? 

A father kicks his 17 yr old son out the house for doing drugs. He calls his friend (age 17) whom he's known since 1st grade and tells him about the situation. The friend talked to his mom and she allowed him to bring him over to come live with them for a while. The teen who was kicked out was black and the friend who let him stay was white

Do you need people skills to bartend? Bar I go to regulariky said I would be a great fit for their staff. Manager also said he thinks I'm a people person. 

i'm dating someone (let's call him S), and lately me and him haven't felt as close (as if we're drifting apart) but we don't know why and last night i had a dream. I had a dream that my ex (let's call him T) transferred to my school and we hung out as friends and just vibed. This dream really messed with me because i thought i got over T. T was my first boyfriend and he dumped me after going out for literally a few hours and i was hurt by that, but in the dream all my feelings came back within the dream (not irl), and i wondered if that was a sign that i'm not over T. I guess it was because i never really got closure and we were really close friends and he NEVER talked to me again and that broke my heart. This was about a year ago and the dream made me start thinking, am i over T? My feelings for T were really strong, stronger than my feelings for S and i don't know what to do. I don't want to lead S on but i also don't want to dump him for no reason. I always felt like T dumping me was karma for me playing with another boy's feelings and i don't want to do that again. Me and S have been dating for 5 months and we've been through so much. I don't want to make a bad decision but i honestly just don't know what to do. It's so crazy how feelings about (not for) a guy could come back and haunt my future relationship and it's making me question if i like S as much as i think i do and if the relationship is even going anywhere. any advice? Also, i feel like i love S but there are other times where i don't feel it as strongly and i don't really know anymore.

For example: I had a roommate in college like 5 years l ago. We do not talk much but maybe like 4 or 5 times a year because of our busy lives.  But every time we talk to each other, nothing changes, it's just like old times. We both know each other's journey throughout life but we are so separated because of our lives are SO different. But we don't hang out or anything of that nature. We just catch up with each other rarely!   Are we Friends or Acquaintances?

If someone texts back "same to you" if you text something sentimental is this positive or negative or neutral? The text said "stay safe my dear friend see you in the days ahead. I miss you a lot" and the reply was "Same to you" 

I got a group of people who now dislike me. It all started because someone in the group found out about someone and know it was me who did it. Now everybody know about it. They now think whatever other people say about me is going to be the truth when it is not.

I have this friend that's such a copy cat. She copied me to study business management and and she copies everything I do. So I mentioned that I'm doing this course a while ago and now she is telling me that's what she wants to do. I don't want her doing what I'm doing. I'm so fed up.

No, I dont mean learning disabled because those people are totally cool and thats not an issue. I mean a friend who is a male,but who would be the living equivalent of the stereotype of a dumb blonde bimbo who couldnt find her face with her hands and her face. How did u continue a friendship, in spite of this? 

After countless dates with girls and other friends referring to him as the town idiot...he finally got wind of it and has now become an expert on the coronavirus. Prior to, he could not hold a basic convo with man or woman. He'd be dead silent or ask a question that was so minute in relation to the convo, to which he became known a decade ago as the town idiot. What is a nice way to explain to him he doesnt need to regurgitate the news, being he is unable to actually discuss and give opinions on the news he read?

If someone texts back "same to you" if you text something sentimental is this positive or negative or neutral?  For example if I said "stay safe my dear friend see you in the days ahead. I miss you a lot"

* My friend says I should not be doing exercise at my park, inspite of it being allowed. He says Im part of the problem and spreading coronavirus. What do u think???

This is going to get descriptive, trigger warning. My current girlfriend and I have been together for almost 8 months now. Previously she dated my best friend. My best friend and I have known each other since the 1st grade. As they were going through their final rough patch, I was thrusted into a middle-man position and genuinely tried to help them fix their problems. Inevitably, they broke up. I was there through thick and thin for both of them, as all 3 of us were friends prior to them dating. Roughly 2 or 3 months after their big break, I found myself falling for my best friend's ex. We ended up together shortly after without my best friend knowing. Still, 8 months later, my best friend has no clue that her and I are in a relationship. Occasionally, my girlfriend has there breakdowns from "triggers". Whether it be small like a scene from a movie, or something more large scale like a news headline notification on her phone, she still gets them. While I was still in a middle man position, she came clean about some things that she was forced to do while she was with my best friend. Sexual things, that is. This went on for about a month, the last month that they were together. I asked her why she didn't go to the police but she kept brushing it off as "no big deal". I asked my best friend about it and he denied it several times until eventually he gave in and told me the truth that he forced her to do things. I'm unsure if I should continue talking to him or not. *typo: instead of it saying "there breakdowns" in the 9th line, it should say "these breakdowns"

If someone texts back same to you if you text something sentimental is this positive or negative or neutral?