im from a family and family friends that goes above and beyond for weddings.,like 400 plus guests, open bar. 10 day events and gathering. like 10 hour wedding ceramony, reception dj and all. Has anyone been left because if u married them u couldnt do all this stuff? i persoanlly hate it. but thats just the type of family i belong to. like 10 kg 23 karot gold etc. I hate it, but i just found the excuse hillarious for some reason. I dont care lol. But its kidn of funny. i dont want the wedding. Even i was forced to get married in this tradition I WoULD not. now i know the guy was not the right guy. or maybe hes scared . But the point is he said he wants me to have a big wedding like that . Its so complicated to expplain. Even i was 100 percent confident , I hate these show off type things.  and thr bridfe and groom basically grinding everyone.. Indian Dance halls are sweaty as hell . and its kid of gross To think .. old men 50 plus groping the bride

We are trying to get married at Broken Bow Lake sometime next year! We love the outdoors and it is way more cost efficient, but we have never been there... and now with all the rona going on, who knows when we'll be able to travel there to check it out... So does anyone know if there are any clearings/openings by the lake or with a view of the lake large enough for the ceremony and seating? And is there anywhere on site to have it inside in case of rain? I'd appreciate any help! Thank you!! 

I am no style guru, so I want some help picking out my bridesmaids' dresses.  I have been a bridesmaid in friends' weddings, and I know what it's like to feel uncomfortable in an incredibly unflattering dress that makes you feel super self-conscious in front of a large crowd of people.  Even though I have always done it with a big smile and never said anything to the bride about it bc it was her day and I was there to support her, I have had to wear some pretty unfortunate bridesmaid dresses in the past that I felt very uncomfortable in.  It is important to me that my bridesmaids match and I prefer floor-length dresses, but otherwise I don't really care what the sleeves or neckline look like. My bridesmaids are all different body types, so I want to find something that will be as universally flattering as possible.  I know you can't please everyone, but I don't want my bridesmaids to have to feel self-conscious or vulnerable standing in front of all those people, if I can avoid it. I'm worried about involving all of my bridesmaids in the decision bc inevitably, their ideas will probably differ, and I would prefer to avoid hurt feelings when I end up having to tell someone I'm not going with their choice. (Can you tell I hate confrontation?) Anyway, to all my style gurus out there, is there any particular dress style that tends to be flattering on most body types? Thank you!