Im employed and have a job i like. Im currently with two men. Yes, i know please serious advice only. One man is distant, makes very good money and has a house near my job. Hes boring but reliable. We have nothing to talk about. He also is passive aggressive. He busted my things in a temper rage. Hes also the father of my grown children who are on their own. Im 50. The second man i began to see because i was unhappy with the first but stay with the first due to trying to keep my family intact. The second man is an unemployed alcoholic. But he's handsome and funny. But he sleeps until 1pm and sells weed. I'm drawn to the excitement with him but he's always on his phone and has no insurance nor pension. He can be very crabby because he's an alcoholic. He's renting his sisters house in the country an hour  away from me. He wants me to change my job and move in. I agreed and started to pay him 600 a month. I then changed my mind and he still yells for the money. So here i am. In this mess. Please help. What do i do?

And on ask may claim that she is bored of it and does'nt like it anymore...and she just settled with her loving husband

He is sending me death stats and then getting mad at me for being anxious. He also wants me to come help at his office tomorrow since i have no school but he is mad at me for taking toilet paper to a neighbor saying I could have killed my sister or my grandmother (both vulnerable to a severe reaction of Coronavirus by age and in my sister's case by Crohn's Disease). Now he has me scared if I have it and don't know then I have infected others by doing a good deed. Yet I have to go to his office And there are a lot more germs there. I am scared, my Dad is emotionally abusive as is through his arrogance. How do I get him to stop scarying me?

My husband is an abuser but a great dad so I live in a conflict , he always curse me shout or through things my way when he is mad , this time he actually hit me using his hands , and I just can't take it anymore , I want to run but where will I go ? How can I immigrate to a place he can't take my kid away from me ? I want to run and never be found , I can't do this anymore  Plz help 

Didn't you ever hear of the google bus?  These millennials be catching the bus to schlep them from ugly city to corp headquarters and they making over six figures. I have a similar arrangement. Why the ridicule for catching the bus? Do you get a limo ride to work or something? This is common practice in order to reduce the amount of cars on the road during commuting hours.  Also, so you can take a nap instead of fighting traffic. Well, now that we're on lock down, I'll be working from home.  You know what that means?  More time for Q and A in Marriage and Divorce section!   My frens, I think we gonna get along well these next few months. All we need now are some good stories......GOOD stories. Who's with me!?

When you get a prenuptial agreement both parties agree that their finances will be separate even if they die. But can it work one way? Like can one person sign the prenup and they do not get the money if he dies but if she dies he gets her money? 

My wife of 10 years up and left the state, leaving me with our two young daughters. I just found out that she did so to have a relationship with a man she has known 3 weeks. She drained our accounts and racked up credit card debt in my name. She is bipolar and off her medication. Last contact I had with her was telling me that she and this man were going to get their own place and she was going to come take the kids to live with him (and his four kids, whom he does not have custody of). I am in the process of hiring a lawyer, but any advice would be helpful please. I would like to note that the man she left me for lives with his parents, is going through a divorce, doesn't have a car, and his four kids are by two different women. I mention this because his home life is unstable. He also has a pregnant ex girlfriend whom he abandoned and has a severe mental health disorder.

My husband and I have been married for 1 1/2 years. Things were good in the beginning but after we had our son he changed. I went on vacation to see my father. When I came back I found out my husband was on Instagram messaging over 35 women telling them to come over. While I  was away my intuition kicked in but I ignored it. We fought over that and he says he never brought anyone to our home.now recently last week I found him on other sites perusing other women. I confronted him and he beat on me. Now today I just can't take much more. I got up early to tend to my son I asked my husband for help and he says it's your turn you have to do 7 days. I find it unfair that I have to do everything! I'm human and need time also. He then wakes up starts yelling and saying only thing between me and you is our son and said it's so hard to break up with me and leaves I then started packing my stuff he comes in and says nobody told you to leave just calm down. I feel like he doesn't love me just keeps me around and I'm so hurt by this he does this every month I get money and tries to kick me out discusses it with family then embarrasses me then acts like nothing happened and that he wants to be with me I'm tired of this abuse. He's mad because I ask for help he is on maternity leave and he tells me I don't do nothing anyhow. I opened up a business online and he says all I do is play games on my phone he downplays the fact that I work online. He is tearing me down.-advice plz thnks

Stats on this website show that the virus is just growing, what do you think: https://worldometerinfo.com/coronavirus

Did my on hubs whored up toilet paper, during this outbrake! Please dont judge me! Disclaimer: i will share if yall deem this was fixtonious and something he shouldnt of done! I went in Tom-Toms man cave and saw 3 roles of toilet paper. kinda hiding behind his vanity, near a pear of MY hi hill shoes. Their was 26 rose in all! I am not about hogging up from others. Should i be mad or not? Thank you and god bless us all.

just let me no. Im hear to help and so is everbody else.

Patrick4024: and a jerk he is indeed.   He's also very ignorant

They had separated seven times over the years with the aunt being the one who always wanted to leave though I believe my uncle was the one who finally had to file for divorce after she threw him out. I guess she wanted to make him the bad guy. The uncle is the blood relative so he's who side we're on that I kind of see her point of you also. My question is are most divorces after a long time like this when the kids have grown up or or most after only the first 10 years? My parents divorced after seven years and both have been married and divorced again and my dad on marriage three. As a result I refuse to ever get married as it scares me. 

prefers to power walk? Which partner should change their workout style for the other? Suppose this husband read literature online that described how endurance running lowers male testisterone levels, and as a result, he prefers to power walk, should he run to make the wife happy, or should the wife slow down and power walk to make the husband happy?

I love him but he treated me absolutely horribly tonight. I didn't want to have sex tonight but he did and very much so.  Well he insisted but I tried telling him that I just wanted to sleep. Well he started coming on top of me and I obviously pushed him away but he just started choking me and told me that he wouldn't stop if I didn't start taking my panties off. I took them off and he put his dick inside of me and went full force. He didn't even get a condom as I don't want to get pregnant. Halways into it I trief telling him to stop again but he hit mr hard in the face and told me to shut up while he finishes inside of me. So he finished and I was crying at this point because I obviously couldn't imagine that my own husband would do something like this.  While I wss crying it looked like a switch turned on in his head and he started apologizing profusely and told me that he was so sorry and that he didn't realize what he had done and hugged me. We then went to sleep but now it just doesn't feel the same anymore after what he has done and I'm really mad at him still.

For example coronavirus 

Or by their lack of proper grammar? LOL! I've had people attempt to insult my socioeconomic status from my postings here.  If you only knew. I'm not a billionaire or millionaire, but certainly not impoverished (as some of you have suggested). So please, before lookings at me with your judgement eyes, look at yourself first.

If I loved someone, I would elope. Do you think some men are like "But..but..Babe, you wanted an actual wedding and stuff."?

As you may have guessed already, I am a Hispanic male born and raised in the great U.S.A to my parents who LEGALLY immigrated here.  There was no doubt in my head that I was born a male.  My late father (god rest his soul) instilled in me the value of hard work and how to be a responsible man.  My father lacked any kind of schooling but made up for it by working like an animal. He took pride in it and was able to build wealth because of it.  He would absolutely NOT want any special treatment or pity from anyone.  I was honored and privileged to have my father raise me in this GREAT USA of the past. As a child, I looked up to and appreciated everything that the US represented back then.  In school every morning, you would recite the pledge of allegiance and sing the national anthem and I felt dam proud and grateful to have been born here.  After high school, I proudly joined the military, then finished college and joined the work force. Fast forward to 2015...WTF happened to our country (so many questions): Why are there so many people protesting about rights they supposedly don't have?   Why are people acting and looking like circus freaks? In my kids schools, why are they celebrating oddly named festivals?   Why are my kids discussing gender in elementary school? Where did the USA go wrong to allow all this degeneracy I ask you? But another observation, did you notice HOW FAST all this garbage flew out the window in these times of REAL crisis? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m6KAWOzHOzU

sparked by another question where i read s3x is only about 1% important in a relationship. **if u read my answers or questions then u know I aint one to nice up my words** Welp, 1% aint gonna wash in my marriage!Im gonna tell yall if he stopped wanting to pork me, for no medical reason, I am outta here. U aint taking away my pleasure cause ur lazy or insensitive. Im getting mine with or without u!medical reason: i can be patient for a lil while but u best expect me to be grouchy even if u have a valid reason not to pork me.just being a f0cking lazy @sss--what not what i signed up for-- i will get my porking elsewhere.and i aint playing ur lil petty @ss games either, the withholding games cause ur pissy. get over yourself before i get whoremoanal and test my Corona immune system by porking the mailman!thats how MY marriage runs and thats my comfort zones.How important is s3x in YOUR marriage?Disclaimer--- ladies---PLEASE SWALLOW, its important and known to save a many of marriages! ** and guys help that chucky woman clean that house and tend to them crumbsnatchers so she can be in the mood too**Youre welcomeGob bless us all, especially the ones who aint gettting none.  i used paragraphs but this dumb@ss site crammed all that mess together

This has been going on for a while, I'm sick of it really. My husband hasn't showered this whole week. And he wants to be intimate and I just can't so I've been going to bed early to avoid sex. I asked him last  night and he said he's not the kinda guy that bathes everyday. And it's funny because when I first met him he was hygienic. After we had our child everything changed about him. His hygiene and infidelity.  

I'm 26, she's 30. We have two children. I was sent an e mail She said that she got very drunk at a friend's birthday party and does not remember what happened. A few of the bastards raped her. I don't know what to do. I want a divorce. But I can't live without children. After all, the court will give the children to the mother. Although the apartment is mine before marriage, only I work, she is a housewife.

By oppressed I mean those purple haired "muh genders" types.