Our wedding was supposed to be this Saturday, but due to this coronavirus it's been postponed almost a year since this venue is fully booked till then. We couldn't cancel as we'd lose our deposits so postponing was the only option. We wanted to get legally married this year but right now none of the local courts are giving out marriage licenses, so who knows when we can even get married now. And we're leaning a bit toward doing everything next year, including the marriage itself, as it keeps everything together and isn't so awkwardly spread apart, plus some guests don't like going to vow renewals as much as real weddings, they aren't the same thing and I agree they're stupid and kinda fake. But we're really not sure, it's hard to make these decisions since we're so heartbroken and sad at the moment and don't know what to do. I'm not even sure this virus will be clear by next year, they're saying it'll take 18 months 

My mom and my fiancé are on board with whatever I want to wear, but my future mother-in-law is practically having fainting fits. She insists that I wear white.