My wedding is in about a month and I will be wearing a traditional chinese dress for the reception called an qipao. An qipao has two long side slits on each side of the dress, it goes all the way up to my thighs. I've heard that the garter is supposed to be hidden but I'm not sure. My qipao dress would make the garter look visible cause of the high slits. Are wedding garters supposed to be hidden or is it ok to let it show ?

Hi guys so we have a wedding coming up on July 18th. But with this coronavirus we're not so sure. It's far enough away that it's hard to tell, but close enough that we're worried. The cdc ban on gatherings ends on may 10th which is well before our wedding, but other sources say this will be around till august, others say 18 months. If this helps, most people are within driving distance of the venue very few are flying in. But we just don't quite know what to do yet. I would hate to postpone and then things clear up all of a sudden. We've been in contact with our venue and they say as of now we're still on. When should we make a decision to postpone? And what would be a safe month to postpone to in the event that if we have to? Because based on the 18 month prediction, I worry that even next year won't be safe to postpone to 

What do you think?

The church holds only three hundred people.  My fiance says that I can only invite twenty four people so all his guests can come.  His main excuse is because he's famous and only that amount of people in my family know how to carry themselves.  I would like to invite at least forty.

I guess I somehow insulted my friend. I honestly think she took what I said completely out of context. I apologized to her at least 7-8 times during our one conversation and she just won't drop the subject. She told me she does not want me in her wedding any longer after I spent a TON of money on a bridesmaid dress and just purchased gifts for her shower. I'm not sure what more I can do?! I've apologized what more can I do!? Honestly all I told her was she should consider getting a masters degree because she was very talented at her work and she'd be able to move up. She took that as me trying to tell her what to do with my life. 

We've been together 7 years and are in our early 30s. Well why weren't you already married some of you may ask? Everyone's situation is different. I believe timing is everything especially when a lot of serious things are happening to both our families.  She has 1 year of college left. Is it best to wait until she's done and has a job? Or do you think it would be good to propose while she has a little bit a of school left and hopefully have a wedding several months after she is done with school (Of course depending on how we decide it all together)? .. Some people on here can be rude. Please be kind when you respond. It's just a question. I'm just a guy trying to figure it all out. 

My husband to be and I have sorted our guest list. Unfortunately our venue only holds 80 people during the day and up to 120 in the evening - this is completely fine as we have 115 guests altogether however my partner tells me that he doesn't want his fathers side of the family during the day for the ceremony or meal and would rather have them at night and I'm unsure about this as this will cause an argument with his family. He keeps telling me he would rather have his friends all day rather than this side of the family.  Also, one of my partners best friends is getting married in a few months and we both really dislike his wife to be, she is incredibly miserable when the spotlight is not on her and causes drama for no reason - a lot of our family and friends have noticed this on different occasions ie friends birthdays, our engagement party, etc and I told him that I would rather this woman come in the evening however he is adamant she should come during the day with the friend. He doesn't want this friend to come at the evening.  Can you please tell me your suggestions and how you worked your guest list! Thanks! 

He can afford rent and other stuff. 

Jules and Lilah were a really nice vocal jazz duet that used to perform at the local coffee shop every saturday morning. They stopped performing there, and I was there and overheard someone say ."It looks like Jules and Lilah were once the best of friends, but it looks like they had a parting of the ways and went on into the mists of time to the green" What green are they referring to? Is it Gretna Green in Scotland. are they getting married? I dont think they would after a parting of the ways? THe other greens I have heard of are Whistler's Green (i think that means retirement) and Fiddler's Green (also think that is an idiom for fading into the past) What do they mean by "the green". I did some research, and I think Fiddler's Green is a place in scottish folklore that is far to the west through the mists and behind the sunset. Are they referring to the place where past times go. The land where the great sea captains of old dwell? What does the idiom "the green" mean?

Can a Kentucky Colonel officiate at a wedding. The title is granted by the governor of Kentucky and I don't know if the authority to officiate at weddings is included with a noble title. Can life peers officiate weddings? I know that knighthood does not confer the right to officiate weddings, what about Kentucky colonel?

I have 3 younger sisters. I'm getting married next year and I want all of my sisters to be in my wedding. The problem is I don't want to hurt any of their feelings by choosing one to be my maid of honor. I don't want it to appear like I have a "favorite" sister. Is it wrong of me to ask my best friend to be my maid of honor instead of one of my sisters? Will that look bad? I just don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. I REALLY deep down want my 2nd oldest sister to be my maid of honor but I'm afraid feelings might get hurt with my other sisters. What should I do?