This is someone I was good friends with in college 5 years ago but we both moved geographically. Should I even bother?

I met this guy when I was 14 years old, across the table in the cafeteria. This past year in 2019 (i am 21 now) we finally got to reconnect after he joined the military. We started dating and everything has gone well, although we do have our off and on moments of struggle and preparing of things. We are currently at a community college together, he said I had inspired him to go to college. I am about to graduate in the spring, and going to a University. He will be graduating next spring and said he didn't plan on going to a university. I told him I was going to move to (a far town) and attend my favorite university once I graduate... Today he gave me news, that he chose to go to my same university I am moving to next fall. Meaning he will be moving in the following semester, the spring, to my university.. why would he go to my same university? Currently, we are not dating, we are repairing things, specifically our communication because it's been kind of off. He is working on getting me back. Although we've still talked and have stayed close.

When Jenna graduated from high school, she found a job, moved into her own apartment, and enrolled in acting school. She started getting small parts in commercials and her future looked bright. She met a new group of friends, all of whom liked to dance and party. They also did drugs. Jenna liked the club scene and she started wondering whether her friendship with this new ​gr​ oup would deepen if she did drugs with them. After all, she would have a lot more in common with them. * She decided it would. The first time she tried Ecstasy, she felt on top of the world. However, over the next several months of using drugs, Jenna lost interest in her dream of an acting career. In fact, she lost interest in everything but getting high. She became depressed and couldn't sleep. When she did manage to get to sleep. she had nightmares and the shakes. One night she starting having horrible hallucinations and felt as if she were having a heart attack. She was taken to the hospital. Luckily, ​J​enna decided to turn her life around. Howev​e​r, a brain scan showed that her brain had been permanently damaged by Ecstasy. She will probably have to give up on acting because her memory will never be the same.Instructions: What if Jenna had chosen a different path? Starting from the asterisk (*), write a new ending to the stor

I love my parents me not inviting them is not meant at disrespecting them or so. It's just that it will be a small wedding of about 50 of our closest friends. They are young and hip and my parents wouldn't fit in. They keep bringing it up that they are paying for the wedding, but a gift doesn't come with any strings attached. Should I just cave in and invite them

So, my friends in the past, my exes, and now my current friends seem to be all the same: let's always have you host everything at your house. Always making excuses not to have me at their house, but what they don't understand is that I'm the one always cleaning up, always paying for items - groceries, laundry soap, dish soap, garbage bags, etc. and they can freely use it. I am really sick and when I ask for money from them, they make a big stink about it. Practically if you are there about everyday, of course I'm going to feel used. Then my cocky friend through this whole situation has to be out of his apartment by Thursday and had two months to find a place, but instead slept in until late in the afternoon and now has no place to turn to. Who's place will he turn to next with his mom? Mine. But I'm definitely not going to be afford groceries and three people to live in a studio. Not happening. Stay at a hotel, not my problem they don't plan out getting an apartment and have two months to do it, but didn't. I'd end up paying the rent for three people why they just live off of me. Wow. I'm really burnt with people, but they say it's not using me. 

Hello everyone! My friend texted me 2 weeks ago asking me if wanted her backyard umbrella because she got a new one. I told her I did but I would tell her when I was going to pick it up because she lives an hour away and this isn't exactly the best time to get out of the house. Plus I would be needing help for it. Few days later I was feeling really sick and was diagnosed with Covid 19. I have to quarentine and stay home. My friend knows this. She did texted me to check on me but few days after I told her I was feeling better, she texted asking me when I'll be picking the umbrella up. I appreciate she offered it to me, but I just understand what is her rush. She knew I was sick, why is it so much of a burden for her to store it for me? When she texted me asking me when I'll be getting it, I told her that this isn't the best time but I understand that she probably wanted to get rid of it, so she couldn't give it to someone else. She texted me back saying that I was very rude and that I shouldn't have replied like that. I know I probably didn't use the best words, but I don't think I used any offensive ones either. Plus she cared about her stupid umbrella more than my health. Idk just be honest. Was I rude? 

My name is Eric,  and I am 25 years old.  I was friends with this girl from my job named Lily.   Lily and I knew each other for almost 2 years, and I had feelings for her. the problem is that she was married with two kids,  she  would always stare at me like crazy I always made her blush, smile and laugh.  I could feel this weird connection between us.  one day Lily told my best friend that she starting to fall for me, and  that deep down she feels guilty because she's married. Lily begged my friend to never tell me the truth.    as time went on everything was I'm going fine between us,  but other co-workers began to gossip about us.  some co-workers thought  We were having an affair because we were always together.   my supervisor told us that we need to stop talking at work to avoid conflict.  Lily told me she would have my back and that she missed talking to me.   I know for a fact Lily was still having problems with other workers.  But later I noticed a difference in Lily and she seemed like she was giving me the cold shoulder.  one day it was her birthday and I gave her a gift card but she gave that gift card to my manager and told him that my presence is affecting her. My manager got mad and moved me to a different floor. two weeks later Lily left her job  blocked me from all her social medias. Early February she returned to work after one year of being gone.   she doesn't look at me, she just stares at the ground every time we run into each other.   

The first one I've definitely accepted is not coming back. It's been nearly 2 years since we spoke. They left for no reason and gave no warning. The last time we spoke, they behaved 100% normally and we had a lovely chat. We were due to talk and when that day came, I reached out and they ignored me. They never did say anything else. The second one is rather sketchy. They went silent on me similar to how the first one did so I called them out on it. They actually replied and apologized. They said they felt terrible, didn't mean to hurt me and that they'd love to stay friends if I'd accept them. They then said we just wouldn't talk hardly at all because they're just "too busy". I get not talking daily, but you're too busy to EVER talk? No way. I told them we could talk whenever they had time. 4 months later, they've never said anything else. I assume they've left permanently. The third one still has hope. They haven't spoke to me in about a month. I sent them a check in message a couple days ago, but they haven't even read the message yet so there's still a chance they're here. I'm just a little worried because it's odd for them not to read a message for 2 or more straight days. I really fear they've left like the other 2 did and that makes me sad. Why would people leave randomly like this and how can I maybe find REAL friends? I still have some friends I talk to, but I keep my circle small by choice. I just feel awful that 2, possibly 3 of my absolute closest friends left. I'm an adult too, so obviously all 3 of these people are adults too. The second one I mentioned was a couple years younger than me but the other two were a little older than me (not much). I just don't get why people who you were so close with could simply ditch you at random without any warning or explanation. The first one, I basically begged them to tell me why and they just kept refusing to speak. I gave up on them long ago. It just hurts. I feel really betrayed by this. Am I wrong to feel that way? It aas especially weird with the first friend. They literally fell off the face of the earth. That last day we talked they had made plans and everything and then boom - they were gone. At least the second friend replied, but saying they were "too busy" to be friends was a bit outrageous. The fact that they've failed to say anything else 4 months later indicates they've defined left too. I really hope the third one is OK and comes back. Sandy - I know that. I don't have any friends left from HS really. I have seen a couple in passing and we still stop to say hi but that's it. The others I have no clue where they even are. That's fine because I know it's something everyone deals with. These 3 friends I mentioned were not school/college friends though. They were friends I made in adulthood.

I live alone, i do new things alot, but i get bored. I need help. but i dont have any friends on here, or at home? Does anyone have some good advice?  Nothing dirty

Cliques Bullies The first group that ***** with you. Stereotypical dickheads, but not cool enough to be jocks. They are moderates lead by a resident (grade repeater) a retarded ogre whom you takedown in the first few hours of the game. After this, the bullies become your greatest allies- Ironic, isn't it? Preppies The Preppies notice you're fine boxing skills and invite you to their boxing club. They are typical New-England area upper-class snobs; incestuous, idiotic, and ill-tempered. Their daddies are every other kids' parents bosses, causing this clique to be universally loathed and despised. Over time, you give them what they deserve and beat the **** out of them into submission. Greasers Up next are the greasers; lower-class tough guys who keep 1950's counter-culture alive and well. They are second to the jocks in the hierarchy. Moderately athletic and very savage, they provide some of the most difficult challenges. Nerds Next are the Nerds- autistic backstabbing geniuses. Early in the game, you assist them but now they turn on you. So you have to put them in their place in an epic showdown using potato guns. Jocks /Cheerleaders These are the closet case shitheads who made all of our lives living hell in school. Athletic and socially intelligent, these assholes call the shots. But now they will pay - but sadly not in a sequel to LOLumbine. Eventually, these roid monkeys get put down by Jimmy, and now all of the students submit to his authority.. for a short time. Townies Townies are dropouts; they either got expelled or couldn't handle the shithole that is the American school system. They have come to greatly resent all the students. They mostly do drugs and hang out around chemical plants. They take you on, but you put them in their place and gain their loyalty in time to stop the 1992 LA Riots going on at Bullworth.

I introduced my friends to each other and they clicked instantly. They both are loud , goofy , talk about sex constantly , and they find each other funny. Then when I'm around them separately their energy changes from excited to more calm. I am more of a quiet and less talkative. I dont talk about sex because I have never had sex. I dont date. And when I attempt to bring up stories or crack or joke they dont laugh. They act like they are so bored with me. But when they get around someone else they brighten up and get talkative. I feel so bad because I have social anxiety and I want people to find me interesting and funny. But people have never found me interesting. It's like people get really quiet around me. Its to the point I get nervous when some friends call because I think I will bore them and I will feel bad. Is there anything I can do to appear more fun or funny?  How can I lighten the mood. 

Im a dude and i became friends with this girl from work.  we both worked across the hall from eachother,  But we would talk all the time.  i had feelings for her but she was married. She would stare at me like crazy and would always laugh and smile at me.   we never talked innapropriate to eachother, She told one of my close friends that she was  falling for me and that she cared about me, But she begged my friend to never tell me. She would always talk highly about me, and i made her blush  later on some coworkers began talking bad about me and her, they kept reporting us to management saying that we're always flirting, and other people began making rumours. so later my manager told me to stop talking to my friend, so the drama could stop.  she would still talk to me behind everyone's back because she missed my presence, But eventually I noticed she had become really weird with me, and was giving me the cold shoulder. she was still staring at me like crazy but, but would look down one day for her birthday I gave her a gift card, but  later she gave the manager the gift card and told him that my presence was affecting her. my manager moved me from the floor far away from her,  One week later she left work and took an entire year off, and she blocked me completely off Facebook. She came back to work early February after 1 year of being gone. She looks down everytime she sees me, and she avoids areas i go too.  Why did she push me away this way?  She knew i respected her Just deep down I kind of feel like it was selfish  of her to throw me under the bus

My friend was cheated on by his girl friend when they went overseas

she will keep asking for personal information. So ask me what date app I'm using, and if I am talking to someone she will ask for pictures of him, and I would say how I don't feel comfortable showing her photos and she will keep asking for it as if she's pressuring me even though I refused many times. When I buy something she had asked me can I see a photo of what you bought? And she keep asking for personal information like events from bad memories in that I don't want to talk about. I just feel like whenever I talk to her, she'll keep pressuring me for information and I feel like she's competing against me and comparing herself with me. If I ask her for photos she wouldn't send it. She would ask for screenshots of conversations i had with people. I already refused to show photos of guys im talking to and ( i don't have anything to hide or anything) but she keeps on asking even though I already told her I don't want to show it. I had already divulged a lot of my information to her and I sent her photos, but I don't like if somebody is Desmond photos.  I told her I did not want to but she will keep asking. I told her a description is enough and then she kept pressuring me to send it and I don't understand why? she would also ask questions like 'how much money does he make, does he have a nice place, does he have a nice car?' I feel like it's not her business and I think she's just using me as entertainment.  @the first answerer, I already gave all the info she needed and you didn't even read my description,she doesn't share her photos and that's not true about girls given that you're not even a girl, I'm not anti social.