I feel bad because I assumed I would get a plus one for a wedding I am invited to. This is the first wedding I will attended as an adult without my entire family, so I truly don't understand the etiquette for these things.  My mother told me singles always get a plus one, so I assumed I would.  My boyfriend and I have been dating 5 years, and although my friend doesn't know him well, she has met him and does know I'm in a serious relationship.  The other day, I mentioned to my friend getting married that I was waiting to RSVP until I figured out if my boyfriend could make it or not, but that I am definitely planning on attending myself either way. It is still a few months until she has requested RSVPs be submitted, but I wanted to let her  know as soon as possible to make planning easier. She said she was pretty sure I could make adjustments on the wedding website after I submitted my RSVP in case plans changed, so she said I could go ahead and RSVP whenever.  I went to RSVP today and realized she did not give me a plus one, and I feel like a complete idiot. I really hope I didn't put any pressure on her or make her feel obligated to go back and give me a plus one now.  I imagine she doesn't want to have to have to pay for any more meals than she was expecting. I just assumed I would have one because my mother told me it's typical for all singles to get a plus one and I didn't think anything else about it.  Was I wrong to assume? I seriously feel terrible now.  She didn't mention anything about me not having a plus one when I talked to her, but she is a very sweet person and is not the type of person who would come right out and tell me I don't have a plus one. I seriously don't mind not having one. I just hope I didn't put her in an awkward position. I am not at all offended. It's their wedding, not mine. I more so just wondering how badly I should feel for assuming. How normal is it for someone like me to not receive a plus one? 

To elaborate: My wedding was going to take place this upcoming July 2020 in Asia. (My fiance and I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 5 years now and so I will be moving there).  However due to Covid19 we decided to postpone the wedding to late October so that more of our family/friends are able to come especially with flight tickets being significantly cheaper.  My best friend is terrified of Covid 19 and I'm afraid that even though we postponed our wedding, that she may still not come to my wedding even though I have already booked hotels/flights etc for July-- I am still willing to go through the hassle of postponing.  Now keep in mind I will be moving to Asia (won't say which country)... Which means I'll be living there after I'm married...and my best friend's wedding will be coming up in April 2020. Now my question is... Is it ok if I decide not go to her wedding in America (when I'll be living in Asia) if she decides not to come to mine due to her fears of Corona?  My wedding was planned way before covid even existed. I'm moving to Asia. It's not a destination wedding just for the fun of it.  I postponed it.  It's going to be the same risk for me to go to her wedding. But anyway.. I'm not gonna do that. I just feel really down abt this all.

Hi guys,  I'm in a bit of a tough spot. My boyfriend (fiance) and I recently got engaged. We live in the U.S. but I am from Mexico and from the very beginning we had agreed that we would get married in my hometown. He was actually the one who suggested it after visiting and loving it. The only issue is that he does not speak Spanish and I don't know how exactly the ceremony would look like in terms of language and it's making me anxious. The wedding will most likely take place in May 2021. Any suggestions?! Also, he is Christian and I am Catholic. I have no idea if the Catholic church allows it. Thanks in advance!

Just looking to see if anyone has ever been in the same position and can offer some advice? I know with corona this isn't a big issue at all, I've just been thinking more and more about it and stressing out. I'm getting married August 2022 and have yet to ask bridesmaids or my maid of honour because I don't know what to do. I'm 26, at 19 I was maid of honour for my sister (although she had a small wedding and no bridesmaids so I didn't organise any hen stuff as she didn't have one), at 24 I was maid of honour for my uni bestfriends wedding (we met in uni and became inseparable), she had 6 other bridesmaids (our friend group) and we all had a week abroad hen which I organised. Now I'm getting married and have to decide on a maid of honour and I'm stuck because I have a bestfriend since I was 3 and she is my favourite person, I want her to be my maid of honour and always have. She isn't getting married right now but always talk about me being her maid of honour eventually.  However, my sister AND uni bestfriend have both made comments about being my maid of honour and I just know not asking them will cause issues. My sister especially will be upset/dramatic. Should I just not have a maid of honour? Or just ask my childhood bestfriend? I know if my childhood bestfriend is my maid of honour then I would have a stress free time because she is like another part of me and would organise everything lol  

We are planning on booking our honeymoon to Rome. It is November 22nd to November 30th. I cant imagine this all will be going on by then. Anyone disagree?