last year before I went into my freshman year of college I had a lump in my throat. My parents were the one that noticed and took me an ENT and I met a nice doctor who said he would keep an eye on it A few months later on Christmas break I had surgery for them to remove it. The doctor was acting kinda weird though I loved him because he was so good to me. Before surgery he came in my room to check on me and told me he was going to get me a cocktail ( Valium ) to help me relax which worked  Apparently after I had my surgery I was knocked out and he kept calling my dad that night to see if I was ok and ask how I was doing He did this over a period of weeks and even before my other appointments he would call and recommend what I should do He also came hack from vacation early to take out my stitches and when he came in the room he was knocking stuff over and looked rlly nervous. He ended up telling me I had lymphoma and said that he would do everything he could to fix this  He was very charming and smiled at me a lot  I'm 18 by the way my dad even said it was odd how much he kept calling and checking up on me and said he was a rlly good doctor Am I overthinking or was he being flirty? he had a wife but I'm thinking of this isn't he context that if I flirted him would he stop it he had a son that's in college too which he mentioned occasionally and was around my age so maybe he saw myself as one of his kids? Idk but I'm a girl and he never compared us. What was the deal?

So, my mom had a leak in her roof, and had my brother try in repair it. He kind of half assed it. I have no clue what I'm doing, but I tried to correct something my brother did, and I may have made it a little worse. Its leaking to the point were I'm putting bowls in the attic to catch the water, so it's not leaking through the ceiling.  Could technically afford to have it done professionally. I told her that, but she said she wants my brother to keep working on it. Well, this needs to be done asap. Would I be an asshole if I called a roofer behind my moms back to get it done?