Be honest have you ever questioned your marriage? Maybe in the heat of the moment argument? 

My wife and I have been together for a long time. I've always been the dominant one (I'm male) and she has played the submissive well. I am into much rougher things than she is and she always keeps it where it is. Well today I tried to see if she was actually dominant and come to find out... she is. We're going to explore that portion here shortly however I have a concern I may not enjoy playing the submissive role. If she actually loves being dominant and I do too, it's going to end up creating a power struggle in the bedroom. What are some options of what we could do? She is already talking about switching roles back and forth but If I can't enjoy playing the role I simply won't... what can we do if this becomes truth instead of a hypothesis?

My husband is strictly following the social distancing rules and stay at home order. I haven't hung out with my friends since the quarantine thing began and I really miss them a lot. A few of my friends have told me that they're not following the social distancing rules. They have been going over to peoples homes and having people coming over to their homes. Some of my friends have invited me over and my husband will not allow me to go. Whenever I plead and beg him to let me go, he gets mad and frustrated with me. He won't budge. How do I convince my husband that it's ok for me to visit my friends?

I started a job six months ago. It was great position that was paying me six figures and it was plenty to support my wife and three kids. My wife is a stay at home mom, so my whole family depends on my income. However, three month ago, I developed a disease on my eyes that kept causing my vision to blur occasionally. I had to call out of sick every other week. Since I work at a desk job staring at a computer monitor for over hours per day, it's making matters worse for me and my doctor says, if I don't stop working NOW, I could eventually lose my vision permanently. Given the fact that my whole family relies on my income and the fact that it's not easy to get another job during this pandemic, especially one that's going to be easy on my eyes. So, I don't know what to do. If I continue working, I lose my vision. If I quit working, I cannot feed my wife and kids. What do I do?

If his "problem" can never be resolved, then did she make a big mistake by waiting until after marriage to lose her virginity?  That's a big mess to deal with when you have to annul the marriage, so isn't it easier and smarter to find out if he's a great lover before settling down?  Sex is important in a marriage, so why is pre-marital sex frowned upon?  

If Emma Watson happened to cross your path, and offered you sex, would you commit adultery?

I've been married for 17 years. I got married very young at 20. My husband and I have had disagreements in the past but last night we had our first big big argument. He ended up sleeping in the basement and wouldn't even speak to me until this evening. Last night was the first time in my marriage I started to question my marriage. I was thinking was I too young? Should I have dated other people? Did I make a mistake marrying him? Things are patched up but I feel so so guilty and ashamed that those thoughts even crossed my mind. I can't stop feeling guilty that I would even think that. Has anyone else ever had a heated argument with your significant other and had thoughts like mine? I'm scared this might be a sign of impending divorce in the years to come. I feel like most married couples don't have those type of thoughts.

Melania's decision to visit cages containing immigrants' children to show empathy has some people thinking that she does her best to moderate her husband's executive actions on immigration, but without a lot of success.

Ok so I was wondering about the stimulus checks that will be coming how much money can one household get by the way I live with a married couple and another person who works part time/temporarily also how will it work for SSI for someone who gets it so to make it simpler How much money in one household altogether there is a married couple who works full-time another person who works part time/temporarily and someone who receives SSI

Basically my wife lives right beside me with her grandfather. I live in The next house over . Her grandfather owns 4 houses and the street and he's renting one out one the street over. My wife moved into his house once he got sick three years ago and she hasn't moved back in since. Our daughter lives with her as well. She never comes over and spends the night or nothing it's like we are married but separated 

I mean if they unhappy why dont they find solutions instead of screaming and making problems? 

My husband and I including my adult daughter work during the day, and I cook breakfasts, make lunches and dinners. My husband isnt pulling his weight with helping me out with house chores and he's been like this throughout our marriage ( my 3 kids are not his) so he leaves all of it for me to handle. Once he's done to work he is on his phone or watching TV for hours. If he picks up a project we all help him and I always find myself helping him out when I see that hes doing all the work. Aside from taking out the trash on trash day, he doesnt absolutely nothing to help me out consistently around the the house and im becoming resentful and its taking a toll. If i try to talk to him its a huge argument and he says he will only clean up after himself, which is rarely the case. HE will avoid me and ignore the problem. Right now he's been lingering around the house for 4 hours, and has not once helped with the sink full of dishes. i am working and so upset that he will not lift a finger, i want to add that he says his only duty is outdoor, we have a gardener so he only cleans pool and sometimes our dog run, but its not consistent. Last weekend, I cleaned out the firepit, my son cleaned the grill, we helped out as he is working on kitchen cabinets., we help him out whenever he works on any project.  he doesnt do the same for inside the house, he never helps with laundry, he never helps with making bed, or dishes, or cleaning.   he works out of the living room right , he leaves dishes and trash in his corner all day and night, although he gets up a lot to take breaks, he will come into the kitchen use utensils, cups etc.. and leave them at the sink or countertop then walk about to his work area and watch TV or on his phone, not once picking up the trail he's left of trash or utensils. if he finishes a drink he will leave the empty cup and not toss in trash, if he rarely washes a dish, its only what he used. 

So long story short, my wife and i aren't living together and haven't spoken in a while and she's basically made up a whole lot of stuff that isn't true and done a lot of stuff, been struggling, today her mom texted me and said "hey, i need u to call or text me, its important" i replied and said what is it and she replied back with "(wifes name) really needs to talk to u its important so answer and unknown number", i didnt answer the call and texted back and asked whats going on she replied with "she just really needs to talk to u".... wtf could this be about? A lot has happened and idk why she can't tell me what it's even about, or why my wife has to call on an unknown number, i miss my wife so much but she's basically become a different person and become a horrible addict, she's hurt me so much, but despite all that i still wanna be with her, i just couldn't stay and watch her destroy herself and hurt me, i tried to stop it but it didn't work. So any ideas? Please help and thank you in advance

Just a wild thought; if I visited or lived for an extended period of time in my family's Sicilian town of origin, could I return with a wife? Or maybe more realistically, ever be allowed to settle down there?

So basically I expressed to my bf that I love him a lot and multiple reasons why I would want to marry him....that we make a great team and we work together very well and I can see us working like that through marriage. He straight up just told me I dont want to get married right now. I never said I wanted to marry him right now but it hurt hard to hear him say those words. He told me he believes marriage should come when two people are financially stable and can afford a house. Which I get his point but also don't entirely agree that that has to be the case. I explained that to him and he again said "I'm not going to marry you right Now" which hurt hearing it again. Should I feel hurt or  am I overreacting ?

I am so ready for this virus to come to an end. Not only am I fighting my teenage daughter daily to stay home but my husband isn't taking it seriously and is allowing her to go out! And the parents of her friends aren't taking it seriously either. So I look like I'm some sort of crazy person wanting everyone to stay home. What is wrong with these people? I completely agree!!  I've told my daughter that she can be reported and fined but she doesn't care. My husband is hard headed and doesn't think it's serious so he undermines me by letting her go. It's disappointing. 

Basically my wife lives right beside me with her grandfather. I live in The next house over . Her grandfather owns 4 houses and the street and he's renting one out one the street over. My wife moved into his house once he got sick three years ago and she hasn't moved back in since. Our daughter lives with her as well. She never comes over and spends the night or nothing it's like we are married but separated 

My ex mother in law Carol who I really like when I was married to her daughter asked me to help her younger daughter Nancy fill out college admissions applications and scholarships applications. Nancy came to my house every Saturday and we worked on these applications. We spent many house doing this. Nancy got accepted at the college of her choice and got scholarships for tuition, room and board for 4 years. Everyone was VERY happy with the outcome of our work. Carol wanted to pay me for my work but I told her I don't charge friends for my help. Carol said at least let me give you a "Thank You Party" and I agreed to come to the party. There were several of Carol's relatives and friends at the party. They all thanked me for my help. Carol told the group that Joe (me) was really a great guy and she was VERY thankful I had helped Nancy get into college. Then she said "If Joe was my age, I would be proposing marriage to him now". WOW. I know she was joking that was sure fun to hear. Can you think of anything more kinky than marrying your ex mother in law? Is that even legal? However with Carol's great beauty I would rapidly say yes. She would make any guy a trophy wife. Does that make me a real sick guy?

I understand neither is necessarily ok and a therapist would be the ideal, but if one is worse than the other which one would you pick when it comes to confiding/talking about marriage problems? A parent A friend of the same gender An ex bf/gf? Thanks

Also, if on their visitation  they all together starts discussing about all the enjoyment they had together before marriage including kinky sex, and the exes turns their head towards their husband and give a mocking smile knowing that he cant do anything because it was before their marriage or otherwise he will be called insecured, loser and narriw minded, then how should the face the his wife's exes? Should he simply hung his head in shame and bear everything? And what should the wife due to whom this situation has been created? Is this what is modernism? Like still "her choice, her body and her life...and the exes has nothing to worry as temhey does'nt have to go through such awkwardness in this situation?