I recently ended a 10 years friendship with two friends of my husband and I. We became close through out the years, mostly through a lot crazy party times.They are the type of ppl with "free mind", living the life don't give any damn. They have two kids, we have zero. My husband and I have been trying for the past 2 years with no luck so far, first time ended in a natural miscarriage, second time which was this Feb, I ended up being rushed into the ER, I had ectopic pregnancy, I'm very glad I'm still alive and sitting here to share my experiences. There was already fractures in our friendship since last year, they only care about having fun, but my husband and I are in different stage of our life, we want to have a baby, we want to make our life better through hard work. I got judged after I got successful last year, they think I'm too "Greedy" in life, although themselves worked very hard in the past, which we never judged them back then. The explosion happened while I was suffering from the ectopic pregnancy, they refuse to understand what we were going through, they think its because I'm too stress from work, that's why I ended up miscarrying again. Ectopic Pregnancy is a rare medical condition, its completely out of my control. I was expecting I can get some comfort or support from them, but instead was a lot insensitivity, selfishness,still they just want us to go join them for party party. I value friends a lot, but I guess they are not worth for me to be sad anymore? 

Why they hell didn't they choose a right partner? 

I wonder due to my own 4 year  relationship. We're 24 and 25.  Do women have to cut a man off or give distance for him to make the move or will he just continue to wait because he knows he pretty much has it already? So he may think what's the point of marrying right now..idk

The court ordered my dad to pay my mom a ton of money in alimony. They both work and although they have different jobs their income is within $10,000 of each other. It's so dumb It also makes it look like it's my dad's fault they got divorced when my mom went and cheated on him multiple times

and he has been married to his wife for 17 years. He was a big flirt when I went to school with him. Since the divorce rate is so high I don't see how he has stayed married. Also since he is a big flirt how could a marriage last so long? They will probably never get a divorce.

I've been friends with him for 10 years. I've known him longer then I've known my husband. My husband and I have been having incompatibity issues for quite some time now and he's sort of bipolar because one day he can be extremely nice and affectionate the next day he's mad over everything. He's controlling. I feel like I have to walk on egg shells around him. I was feeling pretty depressed over my marriage and I ran into my old friend who I hadn't talked to in about a year then small talk turned into us being on the phone for hours and hours on. This went on for about 6 months and my self esteem was already in the gutter so he made me feel good about myself, I felt like I had life back in me. He made me laugh and smile he gave me greasy advice. We also have a lot more in common than me and my husband. I know all marrriages are hard but it's even harder when you and your spouse have nothing in common and they are willing to compromise or budge one bit. I stupidly had sex with him 3 times. But after that I told him I just want to be regular friends again I don't want to have sex ever again it's wrong I want to be a good person. I let my emotions get the best of me and it was wrong of me. I don't want to be this monster. Even if my husband is mean to me I just cannot have sex outside my marriage anymore. My friend told me " your husband treats you like $hit and is probably having sex with so many females right now. I value our friendship and we had some great conversations But he said if we didn't have sex that one last time we would end our friendship  He was like " we can go back to being regular friends after this one last time" He was also like " you can go back to venting to me about your husband because I'm sure he's going to switch up on you again. He always does. Your female friends probably can't give advice like I can"

My husband likes for me to stick a finger in his butt and anal sex. Should I be worried if he's gay? Does that mean he is? I am a female. 

Y'all I am worrying myself sick over this. My husband and I have always had sex regularly. He loves playing with my boobs and butt. Recently, he discovered that he likes me to put my finger or dildo in his butt. Last night, we were in the shower and I was standing behind him and he wanted me to lick his butt and put my arms around his waist and also finger him while I was behind him. We do have anal sex also, but not all the time. He likes for me to play and finger his butt a lot. Should I ask him if he's gay? Does this mean that he is? Or am I overthinking? When we seen 2 men kiss on tv he said, "that is weird." He hasn't shown any other sign that he could be gay. He's also been married before to a woman but she cheated on him.   He also has a gay friend 

My husband and his step child and I were all laying down one night and she asked if he knew any funny stories. He told one and when she went to ask me, he replied, "she doesn't know any." Not sure if he was saying that so I didn't have to or if he actually didn't want to hear me. Should I mention it to him? 

I've been married for two years now and my wife is nearly perfect in every way, but she has two kids by her late ex-husband. I knew of some issues by I looked passed them because I fell in love with her. She has a daughter who is 16 and is chronically depressed. She's overweight, sad all of the time. Every weekend she's in tears over something, and she self harms. Then you have my wife's son who is 13. He is afraid of everything, he squeals like a girl, used to get beaten up by kids in the neighborhood. The worst of all of this, I can't say anything to them about anything. If I do their grandparents and their the entire family gets involved. It gets so out of hand that I stay away from them in my own house. I am either in the basement, the garage, or in our bedroom. I avoid them all and I feel like a prisoner most days. These ungrateful kids don't even speak to me when we cross paths in the kitchen. I am in my basement so much that my wife has to come and get me at bedtime. I absolutely hate her children, so yeah the Coronavirus has made life hell for me. Have you had similar issues or problems? I would like to hear them so I can feel better about my situation.

My stepdad and mom have been married 8 years this year and he used to do things with us before they got married then things took a turn and all he does is work, drink a lot and is a huge mamas boy. He treats us like ****, I have had abuse again and again and I cannot take it anymore. He makes me want to do something bad to myself real bad because how he treats me. 

I am not American. While talking with my American acquaintance, she said, "I can't understand why infidelity is a big deal in your country. Here, it's like, "Whatever." A slap on the wrist, and let's move on." She added my country people seemed to rely heavily on appearance, image, other people's opinion of them, and social standing.  Huh? So Americans don't care about adultery because they don't rely on others opinions???  I said that it was about morality, and if people wanted to live freely, they could stay single, not married instead of having an affair. Then she said, "Even  Martin Luther King Jr. had affairs many times. Can you say he is immoral?"  I thought Americans also considered adultery as a mean behavior. Don't they?

its actually my dad, my mom, my dads crazy gf and my ex-step-mom all going to be at the same party. My dad gets along with only his gf and vis versa My mom with only my ex-step-mom and vis versa 

Y'all I am worrying myself sick over this. My husband and I have always had sex regularly. He loves playing with my boobs and butt. Recently, he discovered that he likes me to put my finger or dildo in his butt. Last night, we were in the shower and I was standing behind him and he wanted me to lick his butt and put my arms around his waist and also finger him while I was behind him. We do have anal sex also, but not all the time. He likes for me to play and finger his butt a lot. Should I ask him if he's gay? Does this mean that he is? Or am I overthinking? When we seen 2 men kiss on tv he said, "that is weird." He hasn't shown any other sign that he could be gay. He's also been married before to a woman but she cheated on him.  

I am confused on Social Security benefits.  I don't understand if the wife gets 1/2 of what her husband earns only applies to outliving her husband or does she get 1/2 while they are both alive?   

I'm 31 years old my best friend has started this new "thing" where she only goes after married men. She's still a virgin (according to her) and never had a real boyfriend. She only goes after married doctors at the hospital she works at and "fools around" but never has sex. (according to her) Most of my friends seem to feel it's none of their business and they stay out of it. While it's not my business what she does in her spare time it does make me uncomfortable especially her bragging about some new married doctor shes been talking to. She never used to be like this and I don't know what could cause it. I get nervous sometimes she might even attempt to go after my husband. (Though he's not a doctor) and he thinks she's a "nut job" those were his exact words. We've been friends for 23 years and I think I'd feel guilty ending the friendship but at the same time I'm not sure I want to associate with someone who's a home wrecker or "attempted" home wrecker in her case. What would you do? Should I end our friendship. I've attempted to have a discussion with her to no avail.

When I was in college I could sleep until 2PM easily. Things have changed quite a bit with a husband, a home, 3 dogs, and a full time job.  (No kids yet we are trying or were before this whole virus!) Anyway, my husband is a nurse so he's been staying with a good friend of ours who's a doctor closer to the hospital so it's been just me and our 3 dogs for the past month! Ever since this whole virus and my routine is getting thrown off and not having to cook for a hungry husband I've become the laziest person on the planet. I don't fall asleep until midnight and I don't wake up until 7AM let the dogs out then go back to sleep until around 11AM. (It's insane!) I should be cleaning MORE but I keep putting everything off. The house isn't "dirty" but it's not it's usual clean. I feel like I've reverted backwards to those "lazy Sunday's in college." the ones where you are too hung over to do anything (minus the hangover part) I've tried to make a routine for myself but I keep saying "I'll do it later" or "I don't need a routine." It's kind of depressing and I'm wondering what the adjustment will be like when I do return to work? I'm starting to feel a little down and disappointed in myself. Wondering if this is normal to become THIS lazy? Thoughts? Anyone else going through this too? Thanks everyone!

When my wife gets mad she always brings up the past before we got married when we were friends when we first met. I was mad at her and compared her and to other women just spite her. I said I was sorry multiple times and 2 years later we got married. We now been married for a year-and-a-half and every time she gets mad she brings it up as if it happened 5 minutes ago. This argument last for hours never ends well and she only wants to be left alone. She said it doesn't matter that it happened years ago. She hurted with her words as well multiple times over time and I always forget and forgive her but she cannot do the same for me.... Help.. Idk what to do