My husband's mother purchased a swing set for her daughter's children. She wants my husband to unload it from a freight truck because she didn't pay for proper delivery or look into the process. My own children don't have a swing set because of this exact issue. We don't have proper help to unload it, we don't want to get hurt, our work schedules get in the way, and we live in a coronavirus hotspot. So she bought a swingset for one set of grandkids and not another set. And she wants the parents of the set who didn't get one to do the work to get it delivered and put together. And she doesn't care about our work schedules at all. She also used my husband's dead father to manipulate him by saying he would have figured it out. Am I wrong to be utterly furious?

This past weekend, I had a friend and his wife to come to my house for dinner. They live very close to my house and we have all been staying home. We made sure no one was sick or coughing. There were four of us. My friend's wife, Lily, sat next to me at the dinner table. Then a little later Lily put her hand on my knee and left her hand there. I pretended to not notice and just kept talking and laughing while were eating and drinking. Can someone tell me why she placed her hand on my knee? Was she trying to send a message?

So my mom got pregnant with another man than her husband. Her husband left and told her that she is not raising someone else's bastard of a mistake and my dad didn't wanna own up so it has always just been me and my mom.

So yeah my ex-wife is in a really bad situation in life and she is asking me if she could stay at my place for a month or so because she doesn't have a home. I don't know if it will work out but I don't want her to be on the streets either. Btw I'm taking care of our child so no need to worry about that.

I'm 28 and newly married as less than a year. I do not have children. My husband and I have a great relationship and love each other a lot. Trust and loyalty isn't the issue. In living with him for over a year, I'm just fed up with his comments. He often comments on how I should buy more lingerie, how I should style my hair, how I should be more natural at home, how I shouldn't wear red lipstick because it's too much, how I should wear my nails, how a woman should do x,y , and z while a man should do this and that. He pays the rent and cable and I pay utilities, insurance and groceries. He likes calling himself daddy but doesn't mind asking me for money when he needs help. He wants so much from me but never offers me anything. He hardly ever cleans-once in a while. I've tried talking to him but it doesn't change. When I need help, he can't offer me any. I'm trying to be a good wife but I'm fed up. When we were dating, he wasn't like this. He did his own clothes, cooked, cleaned and took me out on dates. Now, it's far and few. I want kids but I'm afraid of raising them alone and him not having the money to help provide. What to do? 

We have been dating for 9 years, over the years I have made it clear I want to get married. He was always on the fence. I talked to him and was finally getting okay with the fact we were not getting married. He always have me the run about, then he said well of I ever decide I won't marry you I'll break up with you. I told we would not have kids till we married then. I talked to him in Jan and he said I needed to get healthier and lose weight I was at 192 at the time and now it's April and I'm at 183. I asked him do you want to get married and he said idk and I asked have you thought about it and he said no not really. I feel like he should know after 9.years of he wants to marry me. I have made steps to better my self and he has made no move forward. He said because I haven't worked out as much (never mind the fact we are in quarentine) but I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like he always has a reason and it's not okay to still not know of you want to marry me after 9 years and 4 months together ! 

Do women choose low paying college majors and low paying careers knowing that eventually they will marry well and the man they marry will financially support them? Because that is a very sad way to live. Basically choosing to be lazy and using sex to lure men into marrying them so that they can live in financial comfort rather than living poor and single For example, I know a lot of women in their late 20's who are still living with their parents because they work low paying jobs because they chose an impractical college major. The only way they will ever move out of their parents house in the next 10 years is if they get married to a financially well off man who has a decent job

My wife told me yesterday that to her "it doesn't matter" if she has an orgasm or not when we make love. I've spent the past 30 years trying to help her achieve those. often with great success. I was surprised by her comment, and kinda hurt. I mean, isn't that what lovemaking is about,  bringing pleasure to someone else? Makes me feel for caring all those years. So, I did decide I'll just quit caring about her enjoyment and pleasure. If that's what she wants, so be it. I'll just focus on my own pleasure. Any thoughts? Suggestions? She claims to enjoy our time in bed. I don't know what to believe or think any more. Make me feel foolish for caring all those years 

Recently, my wife's car broke down due to transmission problems. I know that she's going to use her tax refund and her stimulus to buy a used car. I offered to help find her a car. For the past few weeks, I've been joking with her about splitting her stimulus check. I joked today about it. Is that wrong of me to ask for some of her money? She filed married separately. I haven't filed yet. Also, I'm not a citizen or resident of America. I know she wouldn't mind sharing her check with me but I know she needs a car. I haven't offered any money for her new car. I told her that I know an auction that sells cars and I could get a dealership to bid on the car for her and she can pay the car price and repairs and I can put on the parts since I can do some mechanic work. I told her that she would probably need $1500 for the car and $500 for parts and registering the car. My wife knows that I can help her with some money because I was just bragging before all of this happened that I make decent pay. Would you be mad if your husband didn't offer to pay something but offered to put on the parts to your car for free?

Her actions and the actions of the other man who won her over totally destroyed this man's life. I have not seen the man in years but saw him on Facebook and noted to my Mom how bad I felt for this man. He looks old and depressed. The marriage was good in his perception and I think was good until the other man came even if there were stresses before that. The other man was like the devil (he died last year). Even though the other man died I cannot see a scenario of the ex getting back with her husband now that she has been widowed (she married the other man 14 years ago).

Like in a year will our only contact be grocery stores, doctors appointments, and relationships via Zoom and Email? I have had no contact for a month except Zoom and I am really getting depressed.

?He lives in another country at the moment and wants to talk on the phone 2 hours at a time three times a day. I just don't want to talk on the phone that much, it's frustrating and unproductive. Plus I want to interactive with my family I live with. Is this bad of me?

My wife and I are expecting our first child in a couple of months. My wife is unbelievably excited and it's basically all my wife talks about at this point. I want to be a good dad but I'm honestly not all that excited and just ready for the stress of planning, medical bills and everything to be pass. I am trying to be supportive of my wife but I can tell she's disappointed that I'm not nearly as thrilled as she is. Both her parents and my parents are all excited as well and I just feel bad that I can't get myself excited about it. My question is, am I wrong for feeling this way and what should I do?

Yesterday my husband was in the bathroom cutting his hair and about to jump in the shower. He has a set of electric clippers and he usually cuts all the hair off his head. He also has several guards that he used to trim his beard. When I walked into the bathroom I noticed that he had trimmed his "area" and it was almost bald. I asked him why he did that and he said when he looked down and saw it was a little out of control he decided to trim it. I was a little taken aback by it because he didn't tell me he was going to do it. He showered and got out. I then showered a little while later. When I got out the shower I asked him about it and he seemed to catch an attitude about it saying he's already answered the question and why don't I believe him. He said women shave and trim all the time but the minute a guy does it it's suspect. I just feel that's something I, as a wife, should or would want to know. He said that he doesn't need my permission to shave his face or cut his hair so why does he need my permission or approval to trim his "area"? Am I wrong? Isn't this something a girl would want to know?

Because it may make me seem easy...if we get married what about then and what if we don't get married...

My husband refuses to rent an apartment  with two bedrooms.  Right now, we are in a one bedroom and sharing it with our 8 year old son and 6 year old daughter.  They are in bunk beds. He says that he can't save any money to move out. He doesn't discuss with me when he thinks we can move. It just never gets discussed anymore.  I told him that I'm no longer comfortable doing that while the kids are right there. But he doesn't care. My daughter is a light sleeper and just tosses and turns and then just wakes up. It makes me nervous and uptight. So I'm unable to enjoy this with him. I'm at the point where I just don't want it at all. It's a complete turnoff. I know moving is expensive,  but it is like he just want to move when he feels like it despite it being inappropriate for us as a married couple who needs privacy.  What should I do because I'm considering stopping all sex indefinitely. 

My husband and family are conservative, religious and politically incorrect. They love to look down on anyone who is liberal, even if they are kind, supportive, open-minded, and friendly because they think of them as immoral, godless, politically correct propagandists. I too stick my nose up at them because they encourage me to do it and also my family wants me to stick with my husband because they approve of him. Is it okay to snub out liberals, especially Democrats, and be mean and rude to them?