I've had stuff like this happen early on in EVERY relationship and the women always back down very quickly from the "break up attempt". This girl flew across the country to meet me after 3 weeks of talking, we hooked up and had a great weekend together. She called me her boyfriend and took down her profile, invited me to go see her next time, etc. So fast forward 2 weeks, I don't call or text much, kind of aloof, if I don't text for a couple days she texts me, I'm a week from going to see her and all of a sudden I get a text saying I want to tell you something, I had a phone call with my ex a few days ago and discovered I still had strong feelings for him...but he is married now and we can't be together anyways. You are very special and I really like you a lot, I thought I was ready to date but I have to get over these feelings on my own.... So I tell her I like her a lot as well and thought we had a connection and that she was throwing away a good thing, let's take it slow if she wants but if she has made up her mind then I wish her the best and to take care of herself, etc. She then tells me I'm amazing and agrees to keep the trip to see her on (by sending me a picture of the food she had bought for my trip to see her). This seems like a fake "break up" to me, she gave in really easily and I've had this happen in almost every new relationship. Is this some kind of test to see how interested I really am???

I was seeing this guy and didn't know the mother of his child still liked him . He didn't tell me that because he said they are not involved . I came over his house and she ended up showing up knocking on the door aggressively. She was disturbing the peace so he came out and told her to stop . It became drama so I called the police . Little did I know that she had a protection order against him despite him staying away from her . Obviously with her character it's clear who the attacker is she's stalking him and now cursing him and I out . When the police showed up , this poor guy went to jail because he answered the door and the police said he shouldn't have that he should have let her continue and call them right away . He is now facing up to 12 months in jail here in WA state . This is terrible I feel bad . Anyway , I called my mom for a ride back home . She gave me the shoulda never went to his house  talk. Well how was I supposed to predict the future that he had a stalker and that she would be pounding on his door ? She's now distant from me and doesn't talk to me. 

1. Living in Philadelphia. I Follow the general safety precautionary protocols. -Make sure I have in my house Everything im going to need or want. -Don't go outside after dark hits or before the sun rises. -Dont hang around anywhere. - Use 215-Get-A-Cab -No Bars, No Clubs, No drinking, No drugs. -What sounds too good to be true, IS. I.e. its too good to be true that I can just work at mcdonalds for 5 hours a day, 5 days a week.. It's too good to be true that I can just go to labor ready.. It's too good to be true that I can just run my old time hustles. $450 or $500 a month rent is too good to be true. Yeah, Don't do anything on the too good to be true list. 2. College. Get in there and get it done. If some college kid wants to believe that somebody over in Belgium is going to pay their rent for them, Or that the moon is made of green cheese, Or that Santa Claus is coming to town... That's their business... They'll learn otherwise, starkly... I'm not going to waste my time... I'm here to learn How to be a nurse 2 years from now.