I noticed some of my friends check their partners phone and I don't. My wife works Monday- Thursday and we do fun stuff on Friday-Saturday those things involve her connecting her phone to my Bluetooth in my car watching movies on her face etc. sometimes we go on her Instagram and look at her followers together or she showed me her new female con worker friend text messages. I have felt comfortable with. Not knowing her password. However, I once asked give me your password and she said for what and she felt a bit upset and said what do you want to check I said your contacts. She opened it for me and I checked she said what next I said now pictures she started crying. Is it bad for me to randomly ask for phone passwords etc? I guess there truly isn't a reason to check ?

Can you say, "I am married, but not for too long?" Since I am married but in process of a divorce. 

I've done wrong in my relationship/engagement. I've been with other people. I feel guilt. But I want to be a changed woman and a faithful wife . I've made my mistakes and I want to be better. Anyone else done this 

I'm a single mom of 3 kids... Recently I ended a relationship which lasted 1 year..however my last boyfriend isn't the biological father of my kids (the biological father moved to another country) my new boyfriend wants me to sue my former boyfriend and force him to pay child support, alimony and he also wants me to take half of his processions... I don't know what to do! should I do it? I feels that's stealing but my new boyfriend says that a lawyer would side with me... What should I do? .

It's so annoyed. Guys r pieces of sh1t. I've met some horrible guys that when I imagine myself married to them I'd just cry. I haven't really fallen in love with anyone. I feel too young for marriage. My sister who is 24 and lives at home is like " oh, she doesn't want to have support you all her life." I'm only 21 and have worked at a few jobs but high paying jobs r hard to come by. My plan is get a high paying delivery job and maybe I could save up for a cheap foreclosure and then I guess my unmarried @ss won't be a 'burden' anymore. Also I'm paying my own bills and for any doctors visits or eye appointments

My fiance's birthday is on Valentine's Day. Should we make it a trifecta and make that our anniversary/get married on that day?

I got married on my birthday many years ago. That ended in divorce (not because of the date, just because my ex-husband was a jerk). My birthday falls on a Saturday again next year. Interestingly enough, my fiance's birthday is on Valentine's Day so he's used to 2-in-1 celebrations. My birthday is in the summer, so it wouldn't be anywhere near his. Thoughts?

My aunt's ex-husband was a real ***. When his mother died she left the home to the daughter who took care of her for 15 years instead of selling it and splitting the assets among the four children. One of the children has developmental disabilities so he did not care. However my aunts ex-husband and the sister not living with the mother were in raged that they did not get the house split among them and that it was all given to this one daughter Marianne. Meanwhile Marianne took care of the mother for 15 years that had been her home. Thus it was left to her. Marianne is a lovely lady. My aunts ex is an asshole. The other daughter involved I don't know other than meeting in passing once or twice. So in this battle among the family, apparently it is a war, who is right? The aunt who got the house or the two children who feel betrayed? Of note: The father died a long time ago and the stepmother Judy is out of the picture and estranged. This is all unfolding in the state of New Jersey if that helps in terms of the laws. 

My husband tells me that if I leave him, no good, decent person close to our age available, in which we are almost 37 this year, will ever put up with me because I m a multilingual sellout, racially and ethnically ambiguous-looking and confusing, and a stubborn, selfish, lying, narcissistic b%&$h and lesbian who doesn t do what others want. They will just beat me up and strangle me for being myself and a bad girl and an adventurous slut (or whore) who associated with various guys. Why do I have to change myself for a good person who holds themselves to such high standards and has extremely high standards when I don't want to? My husband assumes that all the good, decent people close to our age are married, in relationships, and have children and that I cannot leave him because he is all that there is. My husband says that if I dare enter into a man's life, he will strangle me because it destroys his manhood and makes him feel less of a man and that women have bad intentions.

If the wife was sexually active with many of her exes for 10-12 years till marriage at 25 yrs, then she might have had different forms of sex for 1000's of times with her exes.....and the exes to got to have sex with her 1000's of times during her peak times. So now with increasing age if the wife and upcoming complications and responsibilities in marriage, will the hisband ever be able to reach to that figure they had sex with his wife..in number of times?  If the husband is polite, loving and caring then what can the wife do for him in this situation? Or will the husband will have to digest the truth that he will always be lacking in sex department in comparison to the exes and has to accept that he will not be the one who had sex the most number of times woth his wife?

Marriage proponents:  How is it possible to be married from before you were born....all the way back to the big bang AND all the way to the end of the universe? I call this super marriage. This is better than normal marriage.  Am I right? She better not cheat on me!

I'm also quite pretty and well-mannered/kind

They have four kids so I'm sure I'll see her at weddings and I'll likely go to the funeral for her mother for the sake of my four cousins. I always liked his ex-wife but like my mother she loves nursing grudges and thus does not like us over trivial things. My uncles first ex-wife he only had one kid with and I only knew her for four years so I just referred to her as Paul's mother. This ex-wife he was with for 30 years and I knew her over those 30 well. First one I was just a little kid. Ghost of Christmas Past: she wants to be divorced from us, us all  former in-laws.  

My mother-in-law kept insisting me to turn into a non-vegetarian during a phone call. And it made me angry. She has been doing this from so many days and I only denied. This time, I didn't react or say anything during the call. I just blocked her number and decided to unblock her after few minutes.  But I forgot the unblocking thing and the next morning she came to know about it. She told her son i.e. my husband about my stupid act.  I realized that I had made a huge mistake. I cried so much. I also called my mother-in-law and apologized. She was so kind to understand and forgive me. I have understood how much I have hurt my husband and his family.  I and my husband are living at different places right now because of the lockdown. I want to make him believe that I won't repeat such mistakes. I have realized that it was an immature behaviour. 

.../relationships! I made sure of that! So what's the problem?!