I'm getting more irritable as time passes and he doesn't do anything. He works 3 days a week, sure they are long a grueling server shifts, but that doesn't justify sitting around on his butt and his phone for the remaining 4 days he has off. We live with his mom so it's not like we have much to do in the first place. I work 5 days a week. I do our laundry, I clean the bedrooms, I vacuum the house, I share doing the dishes with his mom. Yet somehow it takes him a month to put some bins in the basement. Even his mom is getting fed up as she works 5 days a week too. I stopped cleaning the bedroom that we sleep in out of petty spite and started sleeping in my studio room because our bedroom is disgusting. My silent protest goes unnoticed.

My little sister has a kid with this guy. He was always a player but she's stood by his side as a friend. They talk everyday. He even took her out and she stood by his side when he was in the hospital.  But he likes to hang around young pretty women. He's a player and they talk about that stuff. I don't know how she puts up with him and still cares about him 

I worked in the afternoons but my sister do not listen. I have my own life too and do not have kids. I watch her kid six days a week while she is at work. She did not thank me at all including my mother. I love my nephew but he is not my kid.

My dad has been really stressed due to his job. It shows in a lot of ways but he has been pretty good handling the pressure but this isn't about that. I have been hearing screeching from their room like every night before going to sleep and it's pretty weird and I decided to ask my dad about it. He just told me that he needs the sex before going to sleep because it helps him relieve the stress of the day and that I shouldn't mind. I just answered: "You're so weird dad!" and then went back to my own room.

I have noticed signs of my grandmother having memory loss, confusion and doing strange things. My grandmother is turning 72 this month and is and always has been a spit fire. She always needs help with her cell phone and she'd call me to ask her how to setup her Facebook on her new phone. I told her that she needs her old email address and password for the Facebook she had. She insists that since it's a new phone she has to create a new Facebook because the old Facebook only works on the old phone. I get frustrated at times trying to explain things to her because it's her way or no way. She calls and asks for bread from the store. Then calls a few hours later asking for bread from the store after I'd told her already I'd be going later. She doesn't think she'd asked already... ALSO! She has packed up her apartment in hopes of moving, but has not put in any applications for other places. My mother and I ask "Where are you going?" She says "someone will call me soon so I can move". She asked me to check on her waiting list spot for an apartment complex. I called them and they have no record of her applying. She calls a lot asking me to bring her packing tape and boxes so that she can move and we told her that the complex doesn't have her in their system. Long story short, I need to know if anyone has experienced something similar with a loved one and how to go about getting them seen and diagnosed for further care and treatment. 

i went to the bathroom to wash my hands and found my father on the toilet recording the himself in action. i told him to stop but he continued anyways. i found out he has a channel with 100 videos of him on the toilet in processo of fecal matter extarction. in one video he extracted 10 durmsticks from his urethra, in a span of 10 seconds,like achaingun, and in the next 5 seconds shoved them back. his channel name is the erik family crap club world tour united 77 ask jeeves. what do i do about him?

my mother alls me fat and tries to tel me what i can eat and when i can eat it. My father has been so horrible from yelling at me to shaking or putting me in a head lock. My father also has stolen $100 dollars from me. people are saying this is legal todo is it?

They always find something for me to do when I try to go back to my mom and step fathers home they keep finding something for me to do I hate it I wanna go back to my mom and step dads home I live with my mom I was supposed to go back last Christmas but my stepmom won't let me I wanna go back so badly but my dad and stepmom won't let me go back and it is killing me  Can I force them to let me go back to my mom and stepfathers home 

It's my mom and stepdad but they have been together for 4 years. I'm just kinda curious if they are gonna bang. They don't have any children at home now. They are both 36 if that matters.

When I was attending college I lived at homes paid small rent and helped out with the costs of car maintenance etc. I graduated found a job did well for myself moved out and continued to work on my skill set. My father when I started a business he wanted to be my business partner which I did it want that at all. He also expects me to pay his meals when we go out, he is also a bit narcissistic and judged me when I accomplish something without including him which I find gross because I am on my own now. He is waiting for me to buy him a car and I find this extremely unrealistic with this economy I am barley paying my own. How do deal with him expecting reward?

We've been together for years. She's gotten fired from 6 jobs for smoking weed and failing a drug test or for calling out too often. Well she's been out of work for a few weeks now. Anyway, she said she was gonna make dinner tonight. Then she decided she didn't want to cook a whole meal and just asked if I wanted ramen noodles. I said that's fine, I don't mind. Then she asked if I could make them myself. That's fine. That's not the issue. **** the soup. It's the principal behind all of this. I do absolutely everything for her. Bought us a house, bought her a car, a phone, I pay for our food, gas, literally everything. All she was responsible for was utility bills and car insurance. She doesn't do anything, she has no interests, no ambitions, we rarely have sex, she's just a boring person who lays on the couch binging Netflix.  So I told her I'm tired of her laying around all day and night binge watching netflix while I'm at work and she doesn't even give a **** enough to set aside 2 minutes to make me a bowl of soup. Like I said it's not even the soup, it's the principal behind it. Like I contribute everything and she contributes nothing. If I was out of work and she was hungry after work, I'd make her whatever she wanted. But.. She just doesn't give a **** about anything or anyone. I've tried talking to her so many times that I need more stimulation than a girl who ignores me and watches shows from sun up to sun down. Literally.. So she got mad and said she's done. Wtf.

Ever since I can remember, I always felt a sense of disconnect from my birth name (which isn't Queenie, by the way). It always felt wrong on me. When I was 13-14, I started hating it intensely, due to how common it is, the fact that my dad and I have the same initials, the way it sounded and that it can't be shortened.  I want to get it legally changed, as my school requires that students are called their legal names. I also don't ever want to see it ever again, it makes me sick. I'm not sure how to approach my parents about this. BTW, I've been using Queenie for 3 years now. 

I live in a very toxic environment. I am 24 years old and my family is suffocating me and holding things against me and constantly gas lighting me into making me think im sick so I stay living with them. I do have a diagnosis but I AM BEING TREATED FOR IT. and my psychiatrist knows I am fine. MY family is doing this as a manipulation tactic so I wont move out. I have no friends in florida other than pen pals and my dogs. I don t want to make friends because I have a bad view of florida from my judgement of the people that live here based on past experiences. I can bring 1 of my dogs with me and I have thousands of dollars saved so I can afford to move and buy a cheap place to live.....and make new friends wherever I go. I also was speeding on the highway on a day I didn t take my medicine a long time ago and so when the police officer tried to pull me over I just drove away because I was in a bad mood and was mad that on the highway out of ten cars that were driving fast I was the one to be pulled over. So because of that I have a felony but am doing volunteer hours and going to probation appointments. but that won t be over and the felony won t be erased until 5 months from now. but I cant stand this state and I cant stand living with my parents or sister any longer. Im suffocated. I saw on google its possible to say I am moving to a different state to help a sick family member and they might let that pass as a reason.. any advice? I feel so lost in this situation... :(

I HATE to need to depend on benefits since my mom was always on food cards/medicaid etc, and it is NOT forever, but I'm 25, I'm a single mom of a 6 year old, 4 1/2 year old, 3 year old, and a 2 year old. There is no father in the picture, please, nothing about child support. We make the most of our time together, I work from home and we live in jacksonville beach by the ocean, we watch lots of planet earth documentaries, we all love the beach/ocean, they're very much Florida kids as i was, in fact we all insisted we use "Ocean" as my youngest sons middle name. We are happy, but our apartment, though only 500/month, is one bedroom and that's all I can afford after clothes, food and appointments for 4 young kids. I do not regret having lots of kids really young and very close together, please NO rude comments, but do I qualify for at least medicaid? Or some food card money until they're all in elementary and I can get a full time job?  I said I work from home, but I never knew that being on medicaid allowed me to learn a trade. Thank you to all who have answered. :)

Right now I have a sister who I hate and I find my dad hard to get along with. I meant to type that they taught me to hate family, not heat. 

The aunt they've turned on sometimes does get on my nerves by cutting family down to me. The aunt that they were mad at never harmed me at all but they've reconciled with her. The two aunts have been at war with each other for years. I think of them as the allies in the axis but the ally and the access of just changed in my parents eyes. So which one should I turn on? Is there anything wrong with being neutral? My parents always want me to be on the side they're on and get mad when I'm not. Is there my parents I figure they can do no wrong. The uncle involved stays out of it that's why we don't see him much.

I hated her for this for years though I've forgiven her since my dad died five years ago.  

Or is 26 still young and most change as they get older? David B: my parents made her a narcissist by enabling her. 

My sister and mother constantly get mad at me over the smallest and pettiest things all the time, and I am sick of it. Nearly everyday they yell at me and pick fights with me for no reason at all (They even threaten me and try to harm me.), and I feel like I'm always walking on eggshells around them. They also always accuse me of doing things that I never do and make up things about me, so they can a way to fight with me. What should I do about this?. I only live with my sister and mother When I try telling other relatives, they not really believe me and basically do not even care.