so our baby is born may 15th, and june 9th two of my top favorite bands are coming to the HOB Dallas and I get out of the office at 6 and the show starts at 7. My wife believes that since the baby is newborn I should not go because i'll be a new father, but I feel that If I go and leave by 9 pm it should be fine.  I'm at a crossroads.!

I'm having a natural unmedicated birth in about 1 month and I'm telling my husband how scared I am and he says we're gonna do it together. But I don't think he should see me sweating and pushing and in pain how do I tell him I want just me and my baby?

My son is 6 years old, his dad has visitation every other weekend. I have asked several times for a phone number from him or his family and they won't give me one they all have me blocked on social media and his dad hasn't consistently paid child support in 3 years. He doesn't come to counseling appointments or doctors appointments after being asked is this grounds for full legal custody? 

My husband and I have been together for six years. At the beginning sex was a once a week thing, then since it has drifted further and further. At one point in the last six months it had been almost a year since we had sex. Now it's once maybe every couple months. Should I be worried?

For example, you're out in a public setting and your wife says in hot and angry tone:  "just wait till we get home.....you're really in for it this time mister!"

My wife cries during sex. Why does she do this ?

Then why do I have such a hard time getting you to fess about the seedy history before marriage? Also, isn't your body count a source of pride and a bragging point among your peers?

Trying to settle a discussion with a friend...she says you wont and i say you'll go to jail.

Both of my step kids are playing ball this year and we are getting shirts to match the kids. The kid's bio mom and her husband will be there along with my husband and I. I am hesitant about us taking a picture: husband, kids and I (just us) because I feel like it wouldn't really be fair to bio mom because it's her big day as well. I don't want to ruin her big moment. And I don't know if we should all take one as a group either. Should I just forget about the picture because it's been eating me up. I feel like I'm not going to enjoy their game without wanting a picture. What do y'all think? Would it cause an issue if I did get a pic with them? Or should I back off? My nickname will be on the back of my shirt and I thought it would be cute to all take a pic with our shirts, but I don't know. 

I am going back to my country for marriage. This normally takes 2 weeks or more. My manager is a nice person who is willing to understand. While my company would allow 1 week off, how can I pitch 2 weeks without putting my manager in a confusing, weird situation? 

I caught my husband cheating and he doesn't admit it. She sent him a pic of her butt in underwear and his excuse is that she sent him that for his birthday when it was sent a week after his birthday and I also found texts saying that she likes him. He said he did it on purpose because he knew that I would see the texts it doesn't make sense to me. We have a kid together so idk if we should try working things out or not. What do you think? 

Look I'm 26 my husband is 28. We just got married but after we got married my husband started having a problem keeping his dick up during sex. Like he can be inside me and lose his erection. I have tried to blow him and i have tried buying sexy clothes etc. Sometimes its like this isn't even an issue we can have sex. But its getting worse for a whole week now we can't have sex. I can blow him and he will get hard and *** but the moment he's in me his dick gets soft. I'm hurt and i feel like **** like its my fault. I've tried to be supportive and understanding i look the same he didn't have a problem before financially everything is great. I'm too young to stay in a sexless marriage he won't go down on me. And when he uses his fingers it hurts me i tell him but he doesn't listen. I can't keep doing this. I want a divorce or open marriage. He's not fat. Just cant keep his dick up. He doesn't try to fix it like he knows its ******* up our marriage but he still doesn't try. 

He talked to his wife like she's a dog but he seems to have softened since his divorce. He also yelled at his kids all the time but they're older now. I see her brother and his son sometime so I don't see the girls since they took their mom side of the divorce and I'm not friendly to us. So I don't want to be forever scared of my mom's brother but I am. I was a little kid when he was violent. How do I get over this fear? he's no saint but he's also not a monster.

My step kids are both going to be playing ball this year for the first time and I know this is a big deal for both of their biological mom and dad (my husband). We are all getting parent shirts as well to match the kids. I really want to get a picture with all 4 of us (my husband, me, and 2 kids), but don't know if the bio mom would like that because she and her husband will also be there. We all get along though. I'm not sure if I should just take a pic of kids or get a group one of all 4 of us. (My husband, 2 kids, and I). I don't want to steal the moment by wanting a pic and posting it. Any advice?

I know with these BiG words but I have faith in you

My step kids are both going to be playing ball this year for the first time and I know this is a big deal for both of their biological mom and dad (my husband). We are all getting shirts as well to match the kids. I really want to get a picture with all 4 of us (my husband, me, and 2 kids), but don't know if the bio mom would like that because she and her husband will also be there. Should I let the biological parents just take the pictures and back off or go for it? I don't want to steal their moment by asking for a pic. 

I know that marriage is full of responsibility and emotional stuff so i never consider marriage until mid 20s and im in college now. I am shocked that some girls they already engaged at 20 or 21 and they get married after graduation. I feel like silly that I am content with my improvement but some people my age already married or engaged. They already on different stage of life. 

Children of divorce, please help me! I'm looking for some experiences or input about the worlds "I love you." Have you found the words "I love you" don't mean as much or you have a hard time believing them as a result of the love you saw kind of fall apart in your parent's relationship? I grew up in a happy household filled with love and we always said it constantly and when someone said they loved me, I knew exactly how real it was and how they felt. But my boyfriend's parents divorced when he was younger and I can't help but wonder if when I say I love him, if he really understands it the way I do. I know love means different things to everyone, I'm just looking for some other experiences to help me understand. 

        Im married and my husband wants more children we already got two I have one with my previous marriage. I want to stop having another baby he wants more at least 2 more but to me it's very hard he said if I had tubal ligations he will marry another women. I'm worried raising kids without a father again, 

My step kids are both going to be playing ball this year for the first time and I know this is a big deal for both biological mom and dad (my husband). We are all getting shirts as well to match the kids. I really want to get a picture with all 4 of us (my husband, me, and 2 kids), but don't know if the bio mom would like that because she and her husband will also be there. Should I let the biological parents just take the pictures and back off or go for it? I don't want to steal their moment by asking for a pic. 

I'm on the works of buying land and building a house soon after. I am not married, but I am with someone.  But let's just say I own land, build a house (before Marriage) and I'm already living there with my girlfriend/boyfriend.  We happen to get married and it doesn't work out and we end up getting a divorce. Is it true he/she is entitled to get half of my assets? Even though, we weren't married at the time. As in, I'm going to have to give her half of the land and sell the house to give her half of how much it is 

it's considered cheating when you marry someone when you're already married.

I never wanted my son to get married I want my son all for myself :( I hate seeing her face her voice is soft and mousy like her families I hate the fact that my son has a family I tell my son to abandon them just so that I can have my son all for myself but he cut contact and moved across the country with his new wife and daughter he stood up to me on the phone saying "I have had enough of this you have crossed the line" and cut of contact with me and moved across the country with his new wife and daughter what do I do? Should I let him live his life or keep starting drama  This is not a troll  I will leave them alone 

I know this may sound stupid, but is my marriage still valid in the state of California if I signed the marriage certificate with my husband last name but not my legal last name? I'm actually hoping to divorce my husband since I haven't seen or heard from him since September 2018. I actually don't know what my options are on how to file for a divorce if I don't know where he is. He does have history of living on the streets, or crashing at random people's houses. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

My husband doesn't know I am having an affair. We just a random conversation about married women that have affairs because I wanted to know what he thought. He said that the guy involved with the married women only wants sex. I said what if the man buys her flowers takes her on nice romantic takes and texts her 24/7.. my husband said " doesn't matter he still wants sex. He probably in love with the sex but he's not in love with her. And she's going to end up looking dumb in the end when he doesn't take her seriously and ends up using her ." I believe the man can fall in love with a married woman. My situation is kind of unique because me and my affair guy have known each for 12 years. I'm just now seeing him in that attractive light because he started giving me amazing advice which lead to me falling in love which lead to us having sex. He said he's falling in love as well. He told me " it's not just sex for me. I think you're an amazing woman with so much going for you. I want this to be something. I would have ghosted a long time ago if it was just sex." My husband is a good provider because he's taking care of bills while I'm going back to school and I have anxiety plus depression so he's been paying for therapy for me BUT he's hot tempered controlling snd only thinks his opinion is fact. I want to get divorced and I'm waiting until I'm done with school and can financially afford to leave this relationship It's gonna be tough giving up this cushiony lifestyle where I'm taken care of but I'll give all that up to be happy. Happiness is way more important and being with someone you are compatible with is important. Me and the other man want to be together. He said he still has respect for me and doesn't think less. He said he understands my situation. Also my husband threatens to live almost every time he's mad.. awesome husband huh .. yeah right