Someone I'm very close with has said to me; "can we adopt a kid someday? You adopt one and I adopt one and we look after them together" "mine and yours can become siblings" then they said "we can adopt another (they meant together I think) so i asked "you'd wanna adopt a kid together" and they said "some day possibly" what's all this mean? I also once said "I think it's sweet you wanna adopt a kid with me. Like me??" And they said yes and i said really? And they said really.

between a 28 year old woman and a 44 year old man actually work ? the Male will not let his young girlfriend go out with her friends at all 

Say if a guy and girl meet at a party or bar or something. They get along good and they end up hanging for like 3 hours. Well say if after that they went someplace more secret, and they ended up making out hardcorly, he ate her out for a bit right after. And then at the end of it all, they had sex. Well say if the next day after that she texts him just asking how he is and what he's up too and then she says to him a few texts later "that was really fun with you last night ;)". What's she trying to tell him?

For months, I had feelings for my coworker. I felt very much in love with him, constantly thought about him and missed him when he was gone. I did nothing about it because we work together and he's older with a teenager. Recently, I felt strongly enough that I wrote to him and told him how I felt and he said he felt the same way. We've gone out twice and, suddenly, I feel so wrong, like I love him as a person, but, not romantically. I feel like we're too different, but, I don't want to crush him and don't know what to do. He's a very good person, but, I can't help the way I feel. Please help. I never wanted to be this person.

A few years back I caught my boyfriend sending nudes and asking for sex on a cougar sex site, emailing back and forth wanting to hook up, found a whole other Facebook to talk to women, and saw messages with a lady to meet up at his car shop. He didn't think this was cheating, I think it's not PHYSICAL cheating, but unfaithful in some way. Cyber cheating if that's even a thing. Which is so silly. It's still in my head sometimes and so I'm probably ending the relationship.  I just wanted to know if that would constitute as cheating to you guys  or unfaithful in some way! Thanks.

I am boy never had real sex, but I don't enjoy porn alone w/o thinking it is similar to my love almost always, I see love a strong feeling that never ends, but sex is a 2 mins feeling. It doesn't satisfy me w/ anyone I am not loving, except my love, her, even most beautiful ones.. How others lose Love & seek sex???? They are not doing great & need help, agree?

I started messaging this guy from my fraternity on Snapchat because he'd always stare at me, so I thought he was interested. Sometimes during our weekly meetings for our fraternity, I'll catch him staring at me, and we usually hold eye contact for a bit. When we first started messaging, he'd respond very quickly, but he wouldn't keep up the conversation. However, now since I'm messaging him more often, he keeps up the conversation, but I'm still the one initiating. Anyway, when he sees me in person, he'll smile and enthusiastically say "hey". He's a lot better at keeping up the conversation in person vs through phone. We are both music majors, and I have two performances coming up, and he saved those dates in his calendar. I can't tell if he likes me or not. *i can add more info in the updates*

I  met this guy at a store and right away we had a mutual attraction. We ended up give each other our phone numbers and met up today. He is over 40, thought he was single the way he was talking and flirting but when we met he opened and told me he is married and his wife is sick. They don't have kids, she can't carry a kid. He was flirting and touch my hands. He told me his wife knows about him and I hanging out and he told her about me ...which I found really weird. I really liked him and on text I've told him how I felt about him and now I'm not sure what to do... mature advice please

So awhile I got my senior portraits done and everything and I found out that my mom had paid extra for the "editing" they can do where they fix blemishes, smooth skin, etc. I got mad because she hadn't asked me beforehand if I wanted this, and while I understand that she is paying and wants the pictures to look nice, it still upset me that she would do that without telling me about it and I was also upset about the fact that she would think I would want/need editing in the first place. We got into a heated argument and it ended with her venting about how emotional I am and how I'm so picky and demanding and she didn't think I'd want "all that acne and stuff" in my senior pictures. In all honestly this really hurt my feelings. I am already insecure about my looks but I don't believe that my acne is a bad thing and I want the pictures to be of me, not of some fake, touched up version. But I am mainly upset that she would decide for me whether or not I am okay with my acne in the pictures- it was like her saying that my acne makes me ugly. So, am I being unreasonable for being angry that she touched them up without asking, or are my feelings valid? I just need an unbiased opinion to put the situation in perspective. 

I broke up with my boyfriend a month and a half ago because I wasn't in love with him and didn't want to go on if I didn't feel reciprocal if his love. I felt awful - he really was the kindest, sweetest and most selfless guy I've ever been with. He was devastated and hasn't really been able to let go. He insists that we still stay friends, and I agreed, but he's been taking it too far. He definitely is still in love with me and still texts me every day and wants to hang out often. I've been trying to get him to detach a little by suggesting we don't talk as much, and barely hanging out with him. He hasn't handled the breakup well and has been going out and getting very drunk every weekend and spiraling.  Now, he has been suspended from his fraternity for sexual harassment at parties on two separate occasions. One was from 6 months before we started dating. I had NO idea. He didn't either because he was black our drunk. But It really hurt me because I am a victim of sexual assault. I'm just extremely hurt and confused and have no idea how to feel. I'm embarrassed and feel awful for the women he harassed. He feels awful too and is shocked at himself. He wants to be friends still but I told him I need space and did not want to talk.  But he has still been trying to text me and I'm not sure what to do or if it's even valid for me to not respond.

I have never given head before and my new girlfriend is hinting at it... I'm afraid I'm going to mess it up. Any advice?

My boyfriend and his friend are in a band and they pay for a jam room. They were bringing their gear to the jam room. He is not home yet. I live with him and he is not answering my texts either. 

I've been liking this guy for about 2 years. I really like him. He says he likes me too. We are very compatible, he gives me gifts, he takes me out, he visits me but sometimes he'll make plans and not show up or no follow through with the plans. He gets mad when I say he has to be seeing someone. He says he's not and that he really cares about me but he has a problem with consistency? I am convinced that he has a gf or someone he is seeing but he always says no. And when I try to leave him he keeps coming back. I don't get it? Men, what is this men really doing here?

One of my friends recently stopped talking to me without any explanation and I was wondering if I should still pick her up for school tomorrow morning. We normally talk in every single class but she just started sitting alone and I've picked her up everyday this year and on thurday & friday when I got her she didn't say a word the whole time and practically ran away from me when we got to school. Should I just not pick her up tomorrow or should I send her a text. If I should text her, what should I say?

There is not excuse, I feel disgusting and guilty, I messed up big time, I shouldn't have even been in that situation. I was selfish and stupid I didn't love him then. It was months ago and nothing has happened since, I love him with all my heart, I should have ended it, when I didn't care about losing him, he loved me then and I knew that. He can see I have changed and he just thinks that now I'm in love and wanting to be more serious which is true, but I feel so much shame and guilt about what I did. I can't tell him it would destroy our families, it would destroy him. I have seen it happen to him before me, I can't be another girlfriend who cheated on, even though I am. But the way we are now is amazing and perfect and he feels like the one.  I have never cheated before and never will again. It is awful and the pain on the other person is unimaginable. I was just stupid and careless and heartless.  He has made it clear how he feels about cheating and honestly don't know what he would do, but I just can't leave him because I love him so much  I know I'm going to get so much hate for this and told to tell him to leave him, my fear is that it will come out 

She was moving my hand back and forth to the music and it brushed against her boob 5 times. The first couple times I thought it was an accident but I think she could have avoided it. No clue what that means

Me and my ex broke up a year  ago, but he still checks up on me and looks out for me. I had such a special bond with him and we still have that, the idea of him being completely out my life for good is horrible to think of. We both know we won't get back together, and I'm more than ready to move on, but I've never been so connected to a person in well...my whole life and although we didn't work out together I never want to lose him. But I'm just worried of getting a new boyfriend and they find it disrespectful etc. Would you see this as wrong? I only want to speak to him occasionally just to check he's okay, maybe catch up every few months over a coffee or something 

I love my boyfriend so much, we have spoke about the future, children, travels everything. I'm 22 this year and he's 25 this year. I work. 18 000 salary before tax unfortunately, but its something  My boyfriend is a fitness buff, loves the gym used to work On building sites. He had to have a eye operation but that was almost a year ago, and since then he hasn't worked, he says that he wants to be a personal trainer, he needs a new passport to do his course but has to save. And that by the end of this month he will be able to afford his passport, (he refuses to take money from me, doesn't let me take us on dates food, cinema etc) I know he's responsible he pays all the bills and food in his house, his mum is not well, however she gambles her money and uses it to smoke weed then asks him for more when he needs to save.  My friends don't know I lie because they think I should be with someone who can actually date me not just be in a relationship inside. I agree but I also have faith, I love him I love spending time with him, I get us a hotel a couple times a month, even Valentine's Day I got us hotel, wine rose petals on the bed, got him a card, I didn't get anything not even a card, I did ask for flowers but he said he could but he won't be able to get passport. I just feel like he's not going to get even a simple part time job. I don't care about gifts, I just want a normal relationship, I'm happy paying my half of a date night, I love him so much, but this is annoying me

In school guys tease me a lot by saying "hey my friend likes you" when In fact the friend doesn't actually like me... I had a group of guys try to push their friend into me... sometimes they'll just say my name out loud even when I don't know them and this guy keeps calling me baby as a joke in front of his friends, I tell them to stop but they won't it's getting annoying why are they doing this? And what should I do?

i have a little brother and he's like the dumbest ************ but i don't want to like hurt his feelings by telling him how retarded he can be so how do i like nicely do it 

A)  Being super skinny, like the Thinspo kind of girl who tries to be super skinny;  OR B)  Becoming a wife

Would you allow it

She was moving my hand back and forth to the music and it brushed against her boob 5 times. The first couple times I thought it was an accident but I think she could have avoided it. No clue what that means

I was walking around a college campus trying to sell drugs to people when I was doing bad and was still an addict and I did 5 tabs of LSD and this same type of L I took felt different for some reason. I just kept running into people and everyone was talking about this amazing energy around me and I saw this beautiful girl doing cartwheels and I was amazed but I didn't want to approach her I felt too intimidated. Somehow these two guys I just met and smoked with just guided me towards this girl and her friends. They were talking to her and she seemed a little annoyed but when I asked her if she wanted to buy drugs she seemed very interested in everything I had to say and she said no but got my number anyways in case her friends want anything. We talked more and she let me draw on her notebook and I felt so calm and felt like I was home and it was as if time stopped. I drew stuff I later saw in other pictures she had and the wind also flipped her pages to an image that spoke to me as if she was waiting for me. After 30 mins she left and voices in my head started saying "I can love her forever!" I started feeling more spiritually advanced and had visions of us in past lives and alternate realities or future lives it was so trippy it was realer than reality to me. I was just thinking it was the acid but in a couple days I ran into her in the same spot, I was unknowingly sitting behind her and she just jumped up and smiled and sat next to me. When I was staring at another girl's *** and she did something with her eyes that magnetized mine and I felt super tripped out it was the first time I truly looked into someone in the eyes and felt immense energy. I felt like I was home again even though I didn't take anymore tabs from what I remember and I fell into even greater love with her even though we dont know eachother but it also feels like I really know her since forever its weird. Ever since that day we never talked in person again and its been a year and I still feel for her. I had an infatuation before but never this intense, its to the point where I literally love her more than I ever loved someone, even my ex girlfriends. Sometimes when I think of her there is a feeling shes thinking of me at the same time and she telepathically sends me love and its the best feeling ever, better than sex. It sucks because why is something that is probrably not real make me happier than anything, even better than my favorite drugs. Like when I try to deny this and stop thinking about her I start having dreams about her and it brings me back in love. Its extremely crazy how I changed so much and how my outlook on life has flipped after just a few moments with this one girl. I even remember the exact dates we met. I remember I lost her number and got deeply depressed and I accidentally found her on instagram and talked to her and she said she was definitely down to hang out sometime but never messaged me again and I feel overwhelmed to message her myself the energy created when we are together is so intense so I have this reluctance to dive in as if this is a below zero degree pool and I also want to make myself a better person i dont know why im so insecure and feel like im not good enough for her alot of hot girls talk behind my back about me being very cute and would definitely have sex with me but with her i feel very intimidated and unworthy.

I mean I don't think it's rape or sexual assault but idk it made me feel kind of uncomfortable. But I looked it up and apparently it's like normal for girls to just allow their boyfriends to do that? But for me it'd be weird for someone I trust to just start having sex with me when I didn't really have an option in the beginning? Does that make me boring??  Is it weird that I don't want my boyfriend having sex with me when I'm asleep? :(

We are a couple that have went from 3 down to 2. It's been five years now and we have been looking for a 3rd for two years now. Being gay all men want is sex, we are looking for a relationship. Any help where to look.

My coworker and I have recently confessed feelings for each other and we both would like to start dating. However, my parents met him once and they do not approve of him. They think he is going to be manipulative, pushy, controlling, aggressive, and they say he doesn't have a personality. He is actually very funny and sweet and is great with kids. But they are afraid that his true colors will come out and that he may be the opposite of what I see. My question is should I date him or listen to my parents?

I've been snap chatting this guy I met from tinder for almost a month, we haven't met yet as both of our schedules have been busy but I do know he's the real deal from knowing some of the same people. We're "best friends" on snap and mainly talk all day, except for Friday night he screened my snapchat since he was out at a bar (to be expected) yet he hasn't messaged me yet although I can tell he's been snap chatting other people? He has said he really likes me and enjoys talking to me but I don't want to message him first since he screened me... Unsure what to do or think?

I've seen this guy around for a few months as a host in a cafe we go to, and he's really cute so i went up to him after a long time and said "this might sound weird but my friend told me to give u my snap" and he said okay so i handed it to him and he goes "oh u already wrote it down" with kinda a smirk and i was just like haha yeah. So i felt Like he was going to bc he seemed kinda interested but it's been 2 hours and he hasn't added me. do guys add back after a lot of time or is he not interested? I hope He adds back later today but with my luck he won't