I took cake decorating courses and I found a job as a cake decorator even though I don't have experience.  The problem is I don't drive any more and the job is in a different city.  I live outside the city limits and I will have to take a cab to the bus station and take the bus to where the two cities bus routes connect.  My sister says it's not worth it but I think it is.  The bus is 4.75 round trip and a cab or Uber will be 10 dollars each way.  My sister says besides the commute it's a dangerous city but I was homeless there once and nothing happened to me.  What do you think?  I will make between 12 and 15 dollars an hour full time.

I am getting married early next year. My fiancé and I have planned the speeches as follows:  Her father to give one My father Her maid of honour She We asked both our fathers and they said that they were happy and willing to give one, ditto her maid of honour. My fiancé is much more of an extrovert than I, and as such she feels more comfortable at doing things like speeches.  However, most of my family and some friends have said that it is weird and even wrong that I am not giving a speech, and my best man for that matter also not giving one. I have two sisters, I am the only boy of three siblings. They have both been criticising me for this, yet they themselves did not give one when they married; their husbands both did. I have noted their hypocrisy on the matter but they keep saying that "men should, it's the right thing to do, the woman doesn't have to", which I find sexist to both sexes. What do you all think? Is it okay for a groom (and best man) to not give a speech? Is it "wrong" if he does not? Any help and tips would be greatly appreciated.

In my dream I was getting married but when I got to the alter there was no groom as I looked around there was no groom in site, but the guy I am dating popped up out of no where and stood by me and started taking crazy silly pictures and he was in street clothes what can this mean?

Does anyone have recommendations for places to go for a bachelorette party in St. Joseph Michigan? Specifically the bride is looking for a fun bar to go to at night. 

My mother is on bad terms with her siblings and so all of my 16 cousins get asked but I don't. Growing up I so seldom saw them cause my mother banned me from attending their events because her father was an alcoholic. He's died and yet my legacy is now "we don't know him much". I don't want that legacy. I want to be a family leader. It hurts. Of the four weddings I've been excluded from three. I was asked to one and went and it was wonderful. Like I said though I've been excluded from the other ones and it hurts. I just learned there is a new engagement with a wedding next June.