So I asked two girls I was close to to be my bridesmaids. They are also very close with each other. My wedding isn't for 8 months but I already officially asked them and showed them dress options. But now I'm regretting it. They said they would come bridal gown shopping with me and they knew the days 3 months in advance. (Also the both moved about 4 hours away each direction and live in between both of them) I asked them what the plan was about a month before they both said they couldn't make it, I was okay with it at the time. Then next thing, I sent them dress options and then one of them said that they both like a certain one and it sounded like they made a separate chat to talk about it without me. That's where I started to get kinda iffy about it. Now it seems like I'm the only one initiating any form of contact and I saw they they both came home for Christmas and we're hanging out together, normal i wouldn't be bothered but they told said "we should totally hang out when we come back" and then nothing. I'm starting to feel like the odd man out and not included. I don't have a lot of girl friends but I feel like I'd rather have cousins be my bridesmaids at this point. I want them their as guests now but how do I tell them