Theres an old saying about bullies who are cowards. But Not this one. I been getting picked on by this guy in my high school, im 17 and he also gave me problems outside of school. However when I gotten tired of his sht, I tried fighting him a couple times. But he won both times and I got my butt kicked twice. Recently a few weeks ago I tried a third time by having my cousin who's tougher and more experienced with fighting skills to take down this bully. I was there to watch the fight between them. Surprisingly my cousin was very worn out after the fight because it took him 20 minutes to finally get this bully to give up. Even though my cousin  hit him so many times and threw him on the ground,  he kept getting up for more. I really thought this guy wasn't going to stop until he beat my cousin. Eventually he threw him into the dumpster. We both left after that cause my cousin was tired from fighting. This bully must be made of iron or something. I thought about calling the cops but after him fist fighting my cousin for a long time, they would probably arrest him too. Yesterday I ran into my bully in the neighborhood and he told me that he cannot be beaten. But I think hes finally planning on leaving me alone hopefully. But why is he so hard to take down in a fight? 

ever since she started dating this guy a few years ago she's been obsessed with anime and looking Asian and all Japanese culture and only eats Japanese food. I don't understand it. and I barely get what she's talking about half of the time. she only talks about anime or only wants to talk about anime. she will disregard anything else. so it's just awkward and I can't talk to her because idk what the significance of one piece or yuri on ice is. I don't get it or understand her anymore her boyfriend isn't even Asian. but he's obsessed with anime. before she never even cared about it much

I was reunited with one of my best childhood friends who I have not seen almost 20 years ago. He tells me that I have always been a good, honest guy and that's what he liked about me. He text me his online user name and it's: Tripple666MafiaSix He doesn't seem like a bad guy at all, but my mom and sister think that he may be a minor delinquent.

Just some chick at work I've been hanging out with a lot. Main person I've been talking to most lately, and there's a lot of flirting back and forth. Not really pursuing her as anything more, but she's cool to talk to and fun to joke around with. And she usually initiates the interactions before I even get a chance to. Yesterday I figured I'd send a friend request for the heck of it. Denied. So, I'm thinking I am pretty much just denied as a friend completely, as far as anything beyond work interactions go. Not too hung up about this, as I don't really seek out friendships with people (rather, my best friendships are with the ones who come to me; they kinda "just happen"), but that being said I don't know all the social "rules." Let me make this clear again: The issue of being turned down for friendship itself is not a big concern. Already done moved on: I am just trying to learn social cues. Also, a responder assumed I'm a girl also, but I'm a guy.

I'm 18 and even though I have an okay job making more than most 18 year olds I feel empty. I have no idea what I wanna do with my life.what I wanna do as a career.  I don't have much of a mother. She has never been emotionally available for me. I try to be close to her, tell her things and she runs back and tells everyone! Then when I tell her how I feel about her telling people everything I tell her, she would laugh. Then when I say "I'm not telling you anything else" she would say "that's fine". She recently got a new boyfriend and she has went backwards. Started back smoking and drinking. I felt some type of way about it because how can you be this close and open to a man and have not yet learned to do that with your children. I feel as though she needs to be working on our family. I recently brought up therapy and I was laughed at and I also recently just got out of a relationship of a year and a half. He was best friend. Literally my only friend, and I lost him, as a boyfriend and a best friend. He did a lot of things do me during the relationship but I miss being close to someone. My younger sister I am close to, we talk about things but we aren't close in the way where we cry into each other arms. But she got a girlfriend and we barely even speak anymore. My older sister we aren't close at all, same with my older brothers and my younger brother.What makes it all worse it that I'm an introvert while everyone else is extroverts so while... continued in update question I'm an introvert while everyone else is extroverts so while I'm at home in my own mind everyone else has friends to vent to, and people to hang out with, my only friend was my ex boyfriend. I try to meditate, and get chastised about it, because according to them black people don't do those things. I try to tell them my greatest dreams and they down them. Like I'll never be able to accomplish them. I feel like I'm being left behind. I don't feel like it's okay to be an introvert. I feel invisible  I do so many things for everybody and never get anything in return. I'm a people pleaser because I'm an introvert I know people probably aren't that drawn to me. I'm quiet. So I give give give hoping that one day. I'll recieve. I wanna be heard. I wanna heal so bad, but I think this is where it ends. I don't know if I can continue like this. I'm a pushover. I don't stand up for what I believe in because, back to the first thing, people already aren't drawn to me so if I disagree I feel as I feel as though that'll be another person who doesn't want to be around me. It's not easy for me to make friends because I have such low self esteem. I can't even look people in the eyes. When I cry out for help I get called a weak crybaby by my mother. So I bottle it up until I end up writing one of these whilst I'm crying my heart out! Idk what to do anymore. Even while I'm wallowing I'm so much pain I can't help but to think about how much I might hurt the people I love if I was to no longer if I was to no longer be here! So here I am, lost, confused and I absolutely don't know what to do. I feel as though life isn't meant for everyone, myself included. I feel like life has nothing left to offer me. I've been through so much in these 18 years. I don't know how to handle it. I have so many regrets. I just don't know what to do. If anybody can offer any words, I'd appreciate it. I'm so very lost. 

What about his blackmail logs?  Who will use them now?

We graduated high school last year. We were great friends for 9 year until graduating high school. Lost touch over the summer because she went to Korea with her family and could not communicate. I facebook added her and she added me back. Never responded to my messages and keeps posting and replying things to other people. Why won't she write me back and invite me to her parties anymore?She's in college and doesn't invite me over to her parties??? why should I have expected her to move on? we were best friends? I'm stuck in the past?? That is stupid. Please revise your and resubmit your response. Many thanks.

For instance, I impulsively made an indirect rant towards a past bully of mine which is immaturish if you think about it. Or when I became passive-aggressive to a close friend of mine when he cancelled our supposed meetup. Instead of directly saying that I got upset about it to him, I just said I am ok about it but deep inside, I am not. Another instance is when dealing with toxic coworkers where I asked one who was subtly coming at me if he has anything more to say to me (like daring for him to mock me again and pick on me), which kinda ended up badly because instead of dealing it professionally, I may have escalated the problem and made that coworker of mine think that we really have a problem that might lead to prompting our supervisors and more problems outside work. I understand my shortcomings in this situation and I want to improve them. I don't want to appear more problematic because of how I handle issues such as these.

Here is the link to the backstory. https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20191105035703AABIFDy He is starting to suspect it because I asked another blockmate on when is the time of our finals for our majors on friday but he was busy doing his research paper for Inferno (Divine COmedy) so he just shouted "Just check the GC!" The toxic blockmate (TB for short) heard it. TB was asking me, "Hey I don't see it in the GC." I realized the friend doing his Inferno Paper put the exam details in the OTHER GC. WITHOUT TB. TB is starting to suspect about the other GC without him. He keeps approaching me and Messaging me about it. Should I just tell him the truth? I'm just disgusted by him because of his nasty attitude but at the same time I want him to learn and improve because I believe he can be better. We had one party without him and I feel guiltier if I keep on hiding details to him because he's badgering me with questions.

I've been confused by something I have friend who's  dating someone who's very clingy and gets jealous easily . In the beginning he acted nice towards me any time around always making sure I'm happy and acts goofy . I know personal stuff about him and other things. Soon all that stopped any time his girlfriend is around he doesn't talk to me that much other saying ok cause that's his job he gets paid for ( he r.a ) . But he stops acting the all goofy stuff and everything. When she gone he acts totally different. I don't understand cause I can't to seem to be his friend at time?

My girl friend has a big nose, should I say anything?