Why is it that girls go after the dumb guys and are pretty comfortable around them and they avoid being around the better men. the one with disciplined life, caring men who actually gives a **** about them. men they can trust and all?

I'm dating a guy that I've known for over 4 years. We were really close as friends and I have been there for his last two heart breaks. We didn't expect for "US" to happen but it did. He says he really likes me and I really like him.. But I see some potential red flags and I'm not sure if he's over his EX's. There are 2 girls that broke him. One girl that he dated for 2 1/2 years left him for another guy. She cheated on him 6 times and he still stayed with her. He said its because he loved him. Well, one day we were driving and drove past a bar. I guess he got a flashback because he said "Thats the bar I would pick so and so up from when she was drunk". He then became quiet and when we got to my house I got out the car and he said he needed a minute. When we got back inside I asked him if he was over his EX, he said yes. He reassured me that he was completely over her and I let it go. Well the situation got brought up again.. I was going to post a snap of us and he got all mad and said he didn't want to be on social media, I asked him why and he said its because he was self conscious.. I thought that was strange. There are pictures of him and his EX on Facebook and Instagram, and there STILL on there. I got upset and asked if it was because he didn't want her to see, he said no its because he doesn't feel good about himself.  Me and his EX follow each other on social media.. I knew his EX before he did. We weren't close or anything but we knew each other and when they got together I knew she was too immature. Well I was looking through snaps and he was watching over my shoulder and it accidentally got to her snap he says "NO NO NO I CAN'T SEE THAT" I look at him and say "REALLY? wow your not over your EX are you? He claimed he was but then said "Maybe your right, how do you know if your over your EX?" I told him what I thought and he said that his most previous EX had the same doubts as me. His most previous EX broke up about 4/5 months ago. They were together for like 6 months. There is not a single picture of him and her on his social media. We were being intimate one day and he said "WOW so and so never did it like that" I was immediately turned off and hurt. He said he was a compliment and it didn't mean anything. I got upset. This EX also left him for another dude but happened to be her  her EX. He said she had no social media at all and when she got a Facebook her abusive EX messaged her saying he was sorry.. She ended up telling him (the guy im currently dating) and he had doubts. Well 3 days later she met up with her EX and ghosted him (the guy im talking too). He was heart broken. He claims thats why he hates Facebook but its really hard to believe that, that is the problem.. I don't know what to think. He's an amazing guy and I really like him and he says that he really  likes me too. He wants to take it very slow but I can't post anything on social media about him. He sleeps over my house a lot and I don't know what to do. He wants to be intimate EVERY SINGLE DAY... I'm not like that at all. I can't tell if this is a "friends with benefits" or he really likes me? I don't wanna keep investing my time in someone who isn't over their EX... HELP ME

How do I talk to a guy that i've liked for over a year. I have his snap and we txt almost everyday but the thing is he switched schools. Now I really want to see him again and get to know him more than I already do but the only thing I've ever been able to say to him is you're welcome when he said thank you. If he hadn't switched school's I prob would've talked to him by now but there's no reason for me to hang out with him. He's 2 years older than me and his birthday is coming up ... Should I ask him to do something then???

So last month, this guy I don't know asked me about classes while I was walking to class, so I gave him advice since he's a sophomore and I'm a senior. After that, he started waving and saying hi whenever he say me in the hallway. Yesterday, he told me his name then asked me for my instagram, then he DM-ed me asking if we could be friends and how I'm feeling. Then he asked if I played imessage games so that he could get my number, and kept texting me about how he knows I'm going to be a good friend, and encouragement since I said I was working on an essay. Then he asked if I wanted to hang out with him during brunch and lunch, and this morning, he texted good morning to me and saying how he hoped I have the best day ever.

Please tell me if i'm over thinking the situation.. I started dating a guy who I've been super close to for over 3 years. He tells me he really likes me but wants to take it slow, which i'm completely OK with! Its been about 2 months now and we are starting to get a little more serious. He has 2 really close girl "friends". Once again, I'm completely fine with that! One day his friend kept calling and texting him and he was sleeping... so I opened the text to see if she was ok... I saw a response from him which said "you can pay me with food and occasional back rubs".. They were talking about how she just started doing tattoos and she needed a favor and that was his response. TO ME that is flirting, to him it was a joke because they are best friends. I let that situation go. Another situation happened today where he was showing me a text from his other best girl "friend" I happened to see another text that I didn't really like.. She was having trouble with her ex.. Which is now her current boyfriend. She was saying how she wanted to leave him and stuff. He lives at her house even though they aren't together at the moment.. His response was "You are more than welcome to come over and hangout or even crash anytime you want". I think they may have had a fling or something in the past but to me thats sketchy.. He talks to these girls at least 4/5 times a week but mostly on the phone. He used to be secretive and walk away until I confronted him about it.. Maybe I'm over thinking it? I'm not sure what to think about it. He's said other things like "i'll pick you up and we can go on a drive and talk" I'm ok with that but the backrub and the sleeping over thing isn't ok with me.. He tells me he wants to take things really slow but for some reason I feel like he lies to me. We hangout ALL the time but I still feel like there are some red flags...

I started talking to this guy about one week ago. We hung it yesterday after school and just talked for a bit and he drove me home. Since then we talked about "hanging out" again maybe catch a movie or grab some food. Obviously he likes me and I like him cause otherwise I would say no, but the thing is, he wants to talk to me everyday. We snap constantly which I was fine with at first but it's been one week and I haven't had any time away from him enough to miss talking to him. He told me today he was going to see a movie with his friend and I said to have fun and left his snap on open after. He then sent streaks 20 mins later and I left that on open cause I wanted him to enjoys the movie with his friend but then he snapped me again and said "yo I'm paranoid did I do something wrong?" To which I said "lmao no I just didn't want to annoy you while you watched the movie" and he said "oh ok good I got scared." Is this a red flag like is he clingy or something?

My friend found this frog and I was wondering why it looks like that

And you keep your sex money up by growing and selling shrooms and investigating? Say if you had sex with 5 or more hookers

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This girl and I both work in a retail store. I work up front and she works in the back. She has showed some signs that she might like me, but I am not 100% sure. She does this one thing that is really werid. So if im working at self checkout she will walk pass with her head turned away from me. She will be looking the opposite direction away from me.Then as soon as she has walked pass. She will turn head around and look directly at me.

So I had this realization finally when I went to visit her at work and none of her coworkers even knew she had a boyfriend we have been together for 3 years and she started a job in the summer around May or June and I showed up to surprise her the other day with some food and I had to here everyone say " you didn't tell me you had a boyfriend" which is so weird because at her past jobs I would here the opposite like " I have heard so much about you" then I did some digging because it was weird to me. She told her friend that she doesn't get sexually excited for me like she use to and that she normally just has sex with me to keep me happy. I can't lie I went through her messages with her friend she told her she loves me but I don't really believe her. We are both 21 and we use to get into a lot of arguments but we had some amazing times and amazing sex and we would go on these dates and just had the most amazing time. But now we don't go on many dates  , our sex is not often and apparently when it happens it's just for me. I just really have came to the conclusion that she doesn't love me like she use to and I am stuck. If I bore her sexually I could spice it up I have some ideas it's just hard to even attempt to try them because I feel like she is repulsed by me. What do you guys think?

I have a thing with my friend who (Male 16) I am just honest, I end up saying what's on my mind. I cannot hold a conversation, for I am an awkward person. I don't know if I like the idea of him or him. I love being around him and he's a wonderful person. I care for him deeply. But sometimes I want physical contact too (we aren't dating, but we like each other). We don't want anything to be rushed which is why we aren't dating.

My personality and sense of humor has been described as down to earth and I'm not entirely sure what it means or what that looks like. I'm finding vague answers but I'm looking for specifics if someone could provide that. 

Cause a lot of guys lie to get what they want

So i work with this beautiful girl that i sometimes flirt with, in fact i think every guy at work flirts with her and hits on her. I know she has a boyfriend and i try not to flirt with her but sometimes i can't help myself. It also doesn't help that she flirts back, she teases me, trys to be around me all the time, works the same days i do, she asks me a lot of questions about my life, giggles a lot around me, and her best friend also told me she talks a lot about me. Recently she went on vacation with her boyfriend and before she left she asked me if i was going to miss her. When she got back i found myself having anxiety and getting butterflies in my stomach. I was really busy at work so i didn't go up to her i was hoping to avoid her but she went to look for me and said was excited to see me and she even she said she had a dream about me but didn't go into detail so i gave her a wink and she just smiled. I asked her how was her trip expecting to hear about what she and her boyfriend did but didn't get anything. Part of me wants to continue to pursue her but i feel like the more i do the more i would fall for her. The other part of me feels guilty because she has a boyfriend and i should be respecting that. I just wish she didn't flirt back or talk about her boyfriend more so i can at least know she is not interested. Iast thing I want is to be friend zoned. 

Someone that has hurt me multiple times on occasion and on purpose expects me to still care about them, is it wrong that I have no feelings or sympathy left for this person? (when I say hurt I don't mean name calling, like actions)

A girl, that i'm really into, and i have been talking for a while. recently i made a big decision to leave to the marines and i've had a consuming feeling of guilt, i've kissed multiple girls before but they were at most 2 inches shorter than i am. i'm 5'10" and the girl i'm talking to is 5'2". any tips on how to come to kissing her without making it awkward? i had an initial thought of a big department hug and lifting her. but seems too corny. please respond asap 

Will sexual deprivation build up the anticipation? It sounds harsh to term it sexual deprivation but I don't have time to explain it to you. 

On a Saturday night especially.

I started dating a man I was talking to for 3 months prior to dating. We have been on 3 dates now, and talked about planning something soon. Last night he tried to get me to come over to his place and sleep with him. I ignored the idea because I am not just a booty call, and he asked me to go out tonight and do something. He has contacted me today but just to chat over text, and has said nothing about hanging out tonight. He messages me every day, not sexual, just talking about life and our days. We have had sex, but we also go on dates and talk all the time. I trust him but it is hard for me to truly trust completely. I am worried that he may be turning me into a booty call? Do you think this is the case, or just the beginning of a relationship and Him wanting to have sex with me? He seems to make plans from time to time and not contact me til a couple hours prior as well. Does this sound like it's going anywhere? Also, should I be available to him if he hasn't contacted me yet today? Thanks. 

My boyfriend told me he loves me but I don't feel the same way for him. We have been dating for over a year and I still don't feel that spark. I care about him and he's a great boyfriend. Am I missing something? I feel like if he was the one, I would know by now. What do I do?

My gf's new job doesn't start for a week. She's hinted that she's hungry with no grocery money . Should I feel bad that I sent uber eats to her house twice ? Am I being used?

This may sound dumb and pathetic but right now I'm 21 years old and still live at home with my dad, he abuses me mentally I decided to record it today because it got so bad, he called me fat and ugly and then told me I should hang myself twice, and then was shoving me and told me he should kick my face into the curb,  this isn't the first time either I just happened to record some of it I don't have much money at all and I'm still not able to drive due to the fact that he says I'm too dumb to learn , I don't have anyone else I'm really confused on what to do I just need some advice 

Me 9 y/o and I still remember her. You=?

This girl and I both work in a retail store. I work up front and she works in the back. She has showed some signs that she might like me, but I am not 100% sure. She does this one thing that is really werid. So if im working at self checkout she will walk pass with her head turned away from me. She will be looking the opposite direction away from me.Then as soon as she has walked pass. She will turn head around and look directly at me.

he keeps his apartment at 69 degrees

Especially during or after sex. Just curious. 

This guy I'm talking to told me he makes 100k a year but he's only 29 years old how is this possible? @James Blackley: Police Officer does not make 100k a year. @LizB: Go away troll you probably don't make half that amount.

Yes, I am a virgin. I am not having sex until I am ready, after marriage. My boyfriend recently started to ask if he could explore my body, I trust him fully, he isn't a **** boy. I love him. Should I feel guilty? He is not exploiting me, we are both the same age. I feel guilt because I have always told my mom everything. I feel she should know, but I do not want to let her know.

And he didnt want to finish sex.

I do, but my fantasy is nothing illegal just extremely embarrassing.

I was dancing with two girls at the club. One was hot and the other was a nerd with glasses. They were friends. They were each holding my hands. The hot girl was moving my hand back and forth to the music and she bumped it against her boob like 5 times in a short period of time. Her boobs weren't enormous so I think she could have avoided doing that especially after the first time. After a while the nerd gave my hand to the hot girl and walked away. We danced for a while and I had one hand on her waist. Someone bumped into her and I accidentally grabbed her boobs to break her fall. She said sorry to me and didn't even get mad. After that she went to the bathroom but came back and danced with me some more. As while later the nerd came back and said they had to go. She was crying. The hot girl gave me a hug and put her nose against my cheek. No clue what that means. Plus the hot girl wasn't even drunk. She was the designated driver or something. I'm freaking out.

They laugh at me, make fun of me, yell at me, and curse me out. They always did that. But now it's worse. They act like they don't like me anymore. They never really liked me but now it's like they really don't like me.

I know what I need and want but you can't give me that because you don't have time for how clingy I am, my attachment issues, my constant necessity for reassurance, etc etc etc and I don't know what you want or need but (I'm guessing you suggest me to remove you from everything and if so it's cool but know that it'll be the end forever I'll love you in the depths of me although I'll force myself not to show it, I'll always have a soft, safe, comforting, loving / caring side reserved in my heart for you till the end of my days) Don't worry you can take off your location and block me everywhere including my number, I understand do what you need/ want take care. Have a good life sincerely❤️

My gf said "you don't have time for my clinginess, attachment issues, and constant necessity for reassurance" isn't that something she needs to fix within? I work all the time.. and give her love when i can

Let's get straight to the point, He's not good looking, he is quiet and has a solid face where you can't read his face or emotions. I have few mutual friend guys and childhood friend guys that some has good looks and some are nice, helpful, tone body etc. I don't feel nothing for them. Even a stranger that looks so charming or handsome I don't feel nothing either. They are just normal to me and I treat them with respect. I am 26 years old, I am an independent woman, I do have dating experience even though I don't have the sparkle like do with this guy. Anyway how I feel is everytime, he walks by or helps me with something, I felt a sparkle, and I would blush or turn red. I been fighting off this vibe that I been having for 2 weeks now (going on 3 weeks) and I'm thinking to myself I'm probably going crazy LOL! He doesn't know me and I don't know him, he doesnt know that I have the sparkle for him and I'm pushing myself away from him because I want to enjoy my single life because I don't want to drag myself into a relationship status again. I need help with answers that can explain this vibe that I have for him for no reason. And the answer to your question is No! It's not a horny feeling where I want to have sex with him no it is not, I know what I am talking about, anyways, I'm struggling to get rid of this vibe when I know I don't need it at the moment because it's still a bad timing. Please help me so I can move on with my life. Thank you.

My friend is close friends with me and him. After we both hung out together, he asked if he could take a walk with me before his shift. We've known each other for more than a year. He also told me that "it was nice talking to you." Also, thanked me for getting him a twix candy bar as his graduation gift. He also remembered about a scenic picture of Singapore I tagged him on Instagram. He also was shaking his leg while sitting down and talking to me also, stretched his arms. Also, strayed my attention by telling me they were cats outside. I like cats a lot. Also, he wanted to sit next to me in the campus cafe and asked me my schedule for the semester and plans for summer. Does he like me?

A lady told me this at work.

I was just playing ping pong with this guy and the next day he's so malicious that he's silent lmao. I'm a senior in college and don't have any patience for this and he won't give me any insight. The only reason I could possibly come up with is that I missed liking one post promoting a brand he's trying to start but that's dumb. Now I gotta deal with an randomly emotional person at stressful time, thank god I'm graduating next semester, but should I move out because even when things get better I don't feel like living with this type of person is good.

He's my friend and we talk all the time obviously. He looks at me in my eye and usually doesn't look away when we talk, but I can maybe look at him for maybe 2 seconds. Then I will look everywhere else besides him. Sometimes I'll see him staring at me and I'll look and then look away. How can I stop this? He probably feels that I'm not listening to him, but I do. He knows I like him, but I also would probably start blushing if I looked at him in the eye.

When someone asks another person a question and the other person replies "it's none of your concern." Does that mean the person is avoiding telling you the truth?

so there's this boy that i really like, but we don't share any classes (i live in balkan) and i only see him in hallways and during lunch. Whenever i see him, i look him up and down and smile and he occasionaly looks back and smiles too. Yesterday, i was walking down the street and saw some group of boys and one of them looked at me and said, "that's her" or something like that, and the boy i like lifted his head up (he was looking down at gis phone) and smiled at me. how can i, first, become friends with him, ans second, get him to like me?