This is odd to me I am married and have a very happy life with my wife. But recently my ex keeps popping in my thoughts randomly. I've never felt real love towards this girl so it's uncomfortable to have her in my mind at all.  For those who specialize in these types of situations please feel free to add your thoughts

We were just talking in the car on the way home together and wondered what normal was. We do it about 6-10 times a month.

Husband lives with his parents, and says only way he would move if it was on his parents land and we build. I told him I feel we need our space and he said he's not moving anywhere else. I'm tired of living with his parents with our son and his mom is constantly questioning me about moving out. Saying if I move out she's done with me and I would be the worst daughter in law ever. And she wouldn't help with her grandson if I moved she would refuse to help with anything. Please help?

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If your husband quickly brushes one of their female friend's back and is just being silly, would you be upset? He isn't distant towards me or anything so I don't think there's a problem with our marriage. He still flirts with me. Should I let it go or ask him about it? 

I know that you give up everything to take care of the baby as that becomes priority. I know how babies are handled. I know you need money and support to take care of it. I know socializing doesn't happen as much anymore. I know you get tired. But what is out there to know that people don't tell you? Good and bad responses please 

At the family gathering with the wife's side this year, her sisters and one of the brothers were all talking about the financial struggles of the past year.  My wife described the 4 car payments/insurance we have, 4 phones, along with the mortgage, and the way too expensive senior pictures, along with the other things we pay for.  One of the sisters asked 'how do you do that?' - and she pointed to me in the kitchen and sais "he's a good provider". Next week when I'm visiting family (I'll be going on my own) - I'll be spending more time at the hotel room with my GF - and I don't think that is one bit wrong. I used to, there was a time when I would have despised someone like that - but the bitterness and broken soul have gotten rid of that nonsense. Before I leave, I know the wife is going to want to have an orgasm on my mouth - I'm going to flat out say no, that I don't want to.  But what I really want to say is "sure, climb on up, but it'll just have to be you, I don't want any boring missionary, because I'm saving up a huge load for my GF's face."

I'm giving birth at home in about a week and my husband really wants to be here with me but I want that special moment with my baby besides I'm gonna be in a lot of pain, sweating and pushing and he doesn't need to see that 

His father died and he instructed his step-sister to sign the death certificate, which she now uses as a primary identity document.  He seems to want me to leave town with our marriage license intact.  Are there reporting agencies for this expensive, isolating garbage?  

I told my husband this new years i rather stay home but he doesn't want to leave me alone for New Years to go to his moms, and he doesn't want to tell his mom not to come over. i feel bad what should i do? 

I want to run away from my boyfriend of 9 months. He's been manipulating and abusing me. He convinced me to travel abroad to where his family lives, which is Germany. I've been suffering here abroad with him for 5 months now. He uses me to become his personal slave. I live to be his slave. I don't really have family, I never had a family growing up. I lived with my uncle who's also abused me and made me the personal slave of the house. I'm planning to run away from my boyfriend and go to a woman's shelter. I don't speak the language here and I'm wondering what will happen if I pack and run away. I'm really scared of my boyfriend finding me and ending my life. I'm 21 years old.

For the last few weeks, my husband and I have discussed our plan for New Years Eve. We just got married two weeks ago. We are both in our late 20s. We agreed to go half on the trip's expenses. At first, he said we can go to New York. A week later, he told me that he wouldn't have the money to go there and I made a suggestion that we can go to Chicago. After that, he told me that he isn't going to be able to do anything because he wouldn't have the money to do so. He is planning on working on New Years Eve to earn money. Should I stay at home since he'll be working?

So that he too comes her her level, n both becomes experienced? Why not

My Sister knew it before n did'nt care as it was before marriage n nor did my Sister"s husband cared about it. But my sister and her husband  asked n adviced me not to tell about the sexual relation with him to my husband, so I hid it from my lovely and caring husband and so he openly and willing got friendly with my Sister's husband and also sometimes asked him to drop me to work sometimes when he was busy without knowing about the truth. Now, after he found this out he feels humiliated and also feels ashamed to face my Sister's husband due to awkwardness about what he may be thinking of him as he had sex many times with his wife. And he also said to me that his mind has started to create visions and he sees in vision that I am still having sex with my Sister's husband and enjoying it. I feel very bad about myself and for the hurtful n humilation that I created for my dearest, caring and honest husband. Now, he does'nt visit my family home, due to fear of facing my Sister's husband. What can I do to save him from this tearfull n defamed situation that has caused him? He says those thoughts comes automatically and he cant control it, n the more he tries to forget or ignore the more he gets reminded. Does anyone has any advice or way to solve this situation? He never ever treats me badly, and has been always working hard to fulfill all my wishes. But now I has caused him so much distress that he feels he is ruined.

I am divorced but my ex wife and I are still on friendly terms. I work for a news organization and I saw a news report that the current boyfriend of my ex wife was on probation for domestic violence. I am not sure what I should do about this information if anything. I talk to my ex wife rarely and she tells me what a good boyfriend she has. I doubt if she knows about his conviction for domestic violence. Should I tell her? Who she has as a boyfriend is really none of my business but as a friend I think she should know about his conviction for domestic violence. I am torn between telling her and my desire not to get involved in her relationships. Gals, if you were my ex wife would you want me to tell you?

I was just thinking about when my boyfriend broke up with me and had sex with his baby mama in the same day. Then got back together with me later on that night. This was a couple months ago. So I texted him and I asked him " do you think what you did by having sex with her and then coming back to me in the same day was cheating." And he was like " it wasn't cheating. It was wrong but we were broken up".. and I was like " yeah but only for a couple hours.." and he was like " why are you bringing this up all of a sudden. If it's a problem now that you're about to have a new job you can leave."... I wasn't even mad, I asked him a simple question and he flew off the handle.. what's wrong with him? Is he the one wanting to leave secretly? It's weird because he always talks about how he wants to marry me and stuff..and how he loves me.

is he a man your hubby likes or does hubby despise him ? and Old is 70s or older, not 50s. ever flirted or showedoff for4 him yet ?

Their husband seems very into them physically and sexually. He is possessive and jealous of her.. you know how flattering that is? You feel beautiful and wanted. Ugh...my husband is retarded and too soft. I hate it! I want an aggressive, strong and sexy man. I hate fake people with fake intentions. I think it's ugly how he tries to make me believe he was innocent and good his whole life. I see that as fake and he's too easy and easy influence. I hate it. I want a man who is sexy and tough. I always hated girly indirect guys, how did I end up with one? He rarely express his feelings either. No compliments, no communication nothing unless I talk to him other than that he'll never talk to me. I'm kind of here feeling nothing for him and we are married 7 yrs, I never feel love for him and the sex is very bad. I can't let go because I would feel bad and I have been so negative, mean and nasty to him so he'll let go of me instead but he's not doing it either. I'm depress.. kind of just stop living. I'm falling deeper and deeper into a sh*thole. 

Me and 3 other friends made reservations for NYE. Our 1 friend has been sick since Thursday and told us she may still be sick NYE and that we should make the reservations without her. (Sounds like a load of cr*p to me.) So we bought the tickets.  Now, she told us she feels better and wants to come. Unfortunately, the event is sold out now and you can't get tickets.  She's REALLY upset with us and told us she feels left out and how she's now going to be alone on NYE. She said it's not fair and that we all should get a refund for the tickets and all do something else so she can be included.  Are we wrong to not cancel our plans?  Are we leaving her out? We asked her to come on Thursday  She's been sick with an upper respiratory infection she told us she might still be sick and to make reservations without her 

I'm on official leave as of tomorrow, and I plan on taking my wife, Korah, on a date. I really want to give her the best, and I'd be willing to spend as much as necessary (within my budget of $500) on her. Any suggestions?

My husband and I have been together for 4 years and married for less than 9 months. About 2 months before our wedding I found out through one of my friends that he was borderline flirting with her through a conversation they had over social media. When I first confronted him about it he lied which led me to check myself and indeed he was being a little too friendly. When confronted about it he immediately broke down and apologized and said it would never happen again.  Fast forward nine months into our happy marriage I noticed he was hiding his phone from me and because of the past incident i decided to check his messages once I could get a chance. I found 3 conversations with women he worked with that were pretty flirty and inappropriate talking about "sexual tension" and "cant wait to kiss you again." When I confronted him about it he admitted to kissing two of them and one was just an emotional thing. He also admitted to having a non physical emotional texting relationship with a different woman from work last year before we were even married. He claims he never slept with any of them which I have since confirmed.  He said he would do anything to make it up to me and has been trying the past couple weeks including going to therapy. I at first agreed to try and work things out with therapy because besides this we did not have a bad relationship and I was very happy for the most part.. What would you do? 

Would it be an open risk to accept such a partner for whom abortion is a common thing? 

Should I forgive my dad? Long story short. My dad has never helped or been there for me and my brother as kids. Recently he got remarried and didn't invite me and my brother ( he even invited the whole street of people he barely knows but not his own children). Before he got married he told me that we were too much of the past and he needs to move on. It's been 6months after the wedding and I used to get calls daily where he is crying saying he bad a big mistake and if I can please forgive him . I feel like it's so hard to forgive him after all the hurt he has caused me and my brother . His new wife says he is was up all night crying but I feel the only reason he feels guilty is because his new wife and family have told him to make an effort with his children. He recently texted me a very long messages basically repeating how sorry he is that this is all his fault.... After that message I went to call him a week after stupidly to hear him out and I was blocked... I don't understand how he can stitch like that in a matter of a week. I feel like I'm just disposable and he only wants to talk to me when it's convenient to him ! :( I feel vulnerable and like I want to see why he keeps doing this but I don't know if it's best to let go and cut him off! Advice would be helpful!

I want to be a very good friend of my wife, but she always lies to me about ask the facts.. please guide why she does it. I have told her that I don't care and I want to know from her just as a friend.. I want enjoy that conversation with her and just have fun.. but she's doesn't open up and tell me anything openly.. I try very hard but she doesn't believe me or she's scared to tell me. I don't understand.. someone please guide me. I feel very bad that I don't get to know things from her when I love her so much and I'm an open book to her.

Every time me and my husband break up he has sex with the woman he has a child with. And this time he actually had sex with her while we are together. I'm starting to think he argues with me just try to break up because he threatens to break up with me a lot. Because I feel like my male friend likes me and that's the only reason he's saying that. My male friend has been asking me to go out for coffee and drinks he asked me a couple times and I said I wouldn't feel right with us alone. I would feel like it's cheating plus my friend is attractive and always makes me laugh until I cry.. it would be dangerous to be myself in a room with only him.. it's like running into temptation. My friend said I need to open my eyes to who my husband really is because he's playing me. My guy friend said " I bet you $500 he still cheating while you scared to go out for a simple coffee and drink with a friend. You think your husband gonna turn down a date with another woman? Absolutely not. You better off with somebody like me because I'm gonna be straight up with you. I'm just being honest,"