Momma where are you? This is your son, Kent and I don't like this name very much. Please change it mom, where are you please? 

My family and I were going to a gathering and we were supposed to bring chicken so my mom asked me to pick it up after I put my baby brothers to asleep. They took a long time to fall asleep so I fell asleep with them. I woke up and started getting ready. As I was getting ready she came to ask me why I hadn't picked up the chicken. I told her what had happened and that I would go to pick it up in a little bit, but she yelled "You should have told me you weren't going to pick it up and that you didn't even care!" So I said "Why do you ask me if you're just going to put words in my mouth?" Then she said that she didn't care how old I was and accused me of trying to make her afraid of me. I was incredibly confused so I said "What are you talking about?" and she just kept repeating "SHUT UP". Then she pulled my ear so hard so I began to cry and she said "What's wrong? Not so brave anymore?" and tried to slap me but I stopped her and said "You're accusing me of trying to make you afraid of me but you're the only one shouting and hitting!" Then she started crying because I was "talking back". She threw up because of how mad she was and took off. We haven't spoken in 4 days.

So I'm 15 and my parents have been gone for 5 days on a family trip and i was sick so i couldn't go and they hired a babysitter and she was making me dinner while i was on the computer and she handed me mac and cheese and i had some but it tasted HORRIBLE so i told her and she said to just eat it and i told her i couldn't and she kicked my computer to the floor and screamed at me to stop being rude and i tried eating it but gagged and she beat my head over and over where i had a black eye and bruises and assaulted me and then smashed the computer monitor with her hand. my parents are back now and i told them but they don't know what to do either because we don't have evidence

He cheated on me months ago and a month ago the girl he cheated with broke up with him and ever sense he's been spamming me on facebook messenger and imessage that he's sorry and needs me back and i told him i don't give second chances and to leave me alone but he keeps messaging me and every time i tell him to stop but he doesn't and he begs for me back

She pulled my brother and I aside for an hour trashing our Mom. I agreed with the insults to avoid her being mad at me. This was in October. How should I have responded? This aunt is a bully to people. She's my Mom's sister. 

They are loving someone with a soul as evil as a demon like figure and as fiery as the fires of hell. If the devil is real then my sister is the devil. How do I get my parents to stop loving her?

I'm an identical twin and I hate it! Being a twin is not fun at all! It's my birthday soon and I'm not excited at all because it's not my day, I have to share it with someone else. In my family we usually get to pick the restaurant we want to eat at for our birthday but my dad ends up picking the place he wants on my birthday because my and my sister can never decide on a good one we both like. When I ask my sister what she wants for her birthday it's weird because it's my birthday too. I was hoping some other twins out there could relate and provide a little support because I'm struggling to see what's good about being a twin

So my older sister on September left the house on bad terms with my parents ig and after a while they made up. She now has an apartment with her girlfriend and she's struggling to pay the bills and her school expenses too. Her job is a part time teacher meaning she only works on the school days and not on breaks such as Christmas week and things like that plus they only call her in when they need help. She's currently looking for another part time too work at. Whenever my sister asks for help to pay the bills to her gf she says she just gets really mad and things like that. Last night, my mom came into my room to show me on her phone to translate something for her and my curiosity hit too see what she was doing, I saw that she was on a student loan website... this was my sisters dumb decision to do on a whim bc of her gf. She wouldn't be in this mess bc of her. She didn't plan on anything like moving out that day she just left on September like that so look now where's she at struggling all bc of her gf. It hurts my mom to be like this. I don't want her to get a loan and be in dept bc of my sister. I don't know how to tell her about how I feel about this too and I also don't want to see my sister struggle at the same time even though that was the choice she made.

She is very beautiful and treats me very well. I can't stop thinking about her. I'm thinking of asking her to date.

I'm 18, and he's 50. I first thought that the feelings I had towards him were just teenagers woe stuff, but I hate him. I feel sick every time I see him and  hear him. I don't want to call him my father. The memories I have of him are of him being angry or saying things to belittle me (kind of like nothing I did was ever good enough). He never showed me love. I feel hurt and emotionally crushed by him.  He's a much better father to my little brother (always loving with him etc) and is better to me nowadays. I'm also grateful that he never physically hurt me or anything. So why is the pain still there? 

So my uncle's wife has a brother who is a pedophile. Her brother sexually abused her growing up and now she blames the mother. The mother apparently failed to protect her. Obviously the mother did not know her son was sexually abusing her daughter or she would've stopped so why is the mother to be blamed? The brother is long out of the picture and last I heard in prison.

I am 5'3 male and i am 17, my twin sister is 6', my 15 years old sister is 6'3 and my 11 years old sister is 5'5. I get a lot of **** because of it, they're stronger then me and each one of them beats me up from time to time. Theyre always making fun of me (like every day) and my parents are cool with that. It sucks, does someone can relate?

Let me just say that mental illness runs in our family with my mom's side having a history of manic depressive tendencies and my dad's side having a history of bipolar disorder. So right off the bat you'll be to understand why our relationship is quite different than that of a relationship from two brothers in a typical, average american family. Growing up I had severe anger issues I guess deep down I always felt different than other kids and I think it angered me that I wasn't normal like everyone else. Either that or I had a literal demon living inside of me but that's besides the point, anyways needless to say I was in and out of mental hospitals and I couldn't go to normal public schools I had to go to special needs schools designed to handle kids like me and I feel as though my mom gave me a little more attention than she did my two older siblings and growing up they always gave me **** for it, for being different, for being a little messed up in the head and having to attend special needs schools nothing was off limits to them. It took me a while to stop hating my brother over the **** he pulled growing up and when I eventually did and actually try to build a relationship with my brother he shuts me out of his life and wouldn't take any attempts whatsoever to try and bond with me or see things from my perspective. I've always felt second to him he's always made me feel small or worthless or shitty and yesterday we had a big fight it got physical the police were called my brother just kept treating me like **** and i was over it I tried to be nice to him I got him a 15$ gamestop gift card for his 25th birthday and for christmas i got him this 20$ charge and play pack for his damn xbox one controllers I did nice **** cause I wanted things to be good between us but clearly that didn't amount to squat he would become enraged or annoyed when I knocked on his door to try and hang with him or offer him some food. That's how the fight started I offered him some food he didn't want it was agitated that I knocked on his door told me I was quote, unquote f u c k i n g annoying and that just broke something in me and I knocked on his door when I came home after going out with my mom to get some stuff from the store and he comes out asking why i banged on his door i say act like a prick get treated like one and he's just standing there looking all agitated so in a fit of rage i pushed him and said do something and he immediately reacted and pushed me into the dining table and made a whole in the wall and started chasing me around the kitchen trying to fight me and I walk away and distance myself from him and he starts coaxing me to come outside and fight him saying we needed this men fight to work this out there was tension building between us for years and the only catharsis we could reach was beating the ever loving hell out of one another. we start going out it **** gets broken my brother is a lot bigger than me we come from an overweight family he's about 500 or more pounds i weigh around 370-380 i thought i could take him cause he's quite lazy he doesn't move around much and sits around where as I actually get up and move and remain active despite my size but no that didn't matter i was getting hit repeatedly in the head i was starting to black out he wouldn't let up i had to find stuff to hit him with. it ends with me in the pool and I decide to call the police cause at this point i am fed up with my brother and him taking the stuff i did for him for granted and I wanted to ruin his life I was tired of it also the dude's 25 he's been mooching off of my parents for some time now and still doesn't have his life together won't move out and so on and so forth.so i wanted to try to get him arrested but it would've backfired. anyways the cops didn't end up taking us away since this was just a family dispute it didn't get too out of hand but I don't think after this there's any chance of working anything out there's no talking to my brother or resolving anything peacefully he's just a stubborn, selfish, greedy, egotistical f u c k wad and I'd had it.

My dad I still see and can enjoy myself with. However I'm not happy with him. He has caused her to the family. My sister however I avoid. When I do have to see her I say hello and that is it. She is a dark soul. She is greedy, bullies, users, has no moral standards, and I consider her a narcissist. My sister dropped out tomorrow there would be relief present my father dropped that tomorrow I would still grieve even though not close to him. So what would likely be the reason that I still love my father but not my sister? I meant to say if my sister dropped dead tomorrow not dropped out though I guess kind of the same thing. 

The time off work from December 22 through today has been really good except for the first half of Christmas day was bad. Is this a good Christmas? Or since Christmas day was 50-50 does it make it a bad Christmas?

I called IHSS/Public Authority and they told me to go to etimesheets.ihss.ca.gov but when I went there and signed up it wouldn't let me order a new timesheet. I have two recipients, but keeps telling me that I have no recipients available to request timesheets for. Is it because my recipients have not signed up for the etimesheets website? I can see both of their names on their, but it just doesn't let me click on their names. Well, i can click on their names but it doesn't lead to anywhere. Under their names it says "Not registered under ESP or TTS" I am not looking to enter my hours worked on the online website, I just want a physical copy of the timesheet mailed to me. thank you any help if greatly appreciated and happy new years!

my brother forced me into the closet and is holding the door shut. he's much stronger then me so I can't open the door! all I have is my phone. it's going to be just us for hours and I don't want to be stuck in here for so long! PLEASE HELP!

So my older sister on September left the house on bad terms with my parents ig and after a while they made up. She now has an apartment with her girlfriend and she's struggling to pay the bills and her school expenses too. Her job is a part time teacher meaning she only works on the school days and not on breaks such as Christmas week and things like that plus they only call her in when they need help. She's currently looking for another  part time too work at. Whenever my sister asks for help to pay the bills to her gf she says she just gets really mad and things like that. Last night, my mom came into my room to show me on her phone to translate something for her and my curiosity hit too see what she was doing, I saw that she was on a student loan website... this was my sisters dumb decision to do on a whim bc of her gf. She wouldn't be in this mess bc of her. She didn't plan on anything like moving out that day she just left on September like that so look now where's she at struggling all bc of her gf. It hurts my mom to be like this. I don't want her to get a loan and be in dept bc of my sister. I don't know how to tell her about how I feel about this too and I also don't want to see my sister struggle at the same time even though that was the choice she made.

Do I HAVE to babysit them? Is this a law? Because he says that they are my nieces, who else is supposed to watch them?  He brings them over and then leaves them even if I have other things planned or if I just wanted to take a day off to relax. I have a life too. What can I do if he keeps leaving his kids with me even though I don't want him to? Should I get a restraining order for him? He calls on short notices and leaves his kids. Even if I told him no he shows up anyways and PHYSICALLY LEAVES HIS KIDS. LIKE WTF IS WRONG WITH HIM?? Isn't this abuse to his kids??? He just leaves and doesn't come back until he feels like it! I have to feed them sometimes too! I have even changed their diapers! I knows it's not a big deal to some people, but it is to me! 

I avoided my brother at all cost. I avoided his phone calls, left the house if he came to visit, etc. Yesterday I broke. After MONTHS of no contact with him, he showed up and I had a lot on my mind. I told him how sad I was. He called back tonight at 8pm telling me to watch his kids. Not asking.. TELLING me he was bringing them over at 5 in the morning. This was one of the huge issues I went no contact with him. He would not take no for an answer. He will always blame me for him not having anybody watch his kids. He tries to guilt trip me by saying things like, "but they're your nieces. Who else is supposed to watch them??!!". I told him to F off. Now I messed up and I talked to him after months of no contact. I picked up his phone call at 8pm. Now he is bringing his kids over tomorrow at 5am. My mom told me it was till 1pm. He called our mom after too. I still live with her. He does this so if I tell him no then he tries to pressure our mom in to kicking me out of her house. I have a two jobs now so I don't care if tells our mom to kick me out, but I still don't have enough money for the security deposit, first and last month's rent. How can I handle this problem? Watch his kids tomorrow and then stop talking to him again? Stop talking to him, right.? I feel so f*cking pathetic. How could I let him keep pressuring me like that. I am so freaking pissed at myself for picking up his call.

I am fed up with my parents. I am 19 and my parents still treat me like a child. I literally came home tonight and the first thing my mom said was that I was acting too weird. I was too "weird," for being in a good mood.  Then I sit down and they didn't communicate to me that they had not eaten. They were also feeding my sister... they both got upset because I sat in between them (for a minute) and got some of the food. I understand and take full responsibility for getting in their bubble I guess.  I just feel angry with them... I can't stop crying and I don't know why. (I'm not on my period) everything built up within me is beginning to surface. I am about to leave for school in a month. I have tried addressing this to them and it hasn't helped. They always blame my anger on my influences. They wonder why I'm angry and I don't want to be around them. I feel like I am in a mental prison being autistic and misunderstood. I'm ready to leave for my school... I just can't quit crying I don't know what else to do... they don't seem to acknowledge how I feel. It feels like control and a prison. Am I over reacting? 

He's 19 and i'm 17 and i see him because we go to the same youth group and a year ago for several months I harassed him online constantly on every social media because i was obsessed with him and he reported me to the leaders and i got in trouble so i stopped doing it and now more then a year later he's still avoiding me and not talking to me and staying away, i've changed and i just want to be friends with him somehow but i don't know what to do i'm to anxious to talk to him 

I overheard my stepdaughter talking to her aunt saying I talk to much and I alway seem to interfere with her conversation she nor my husband are very talkative people. I always interfere with her this is not a troll and what do I do?

I was out of clean underwear, so as one does, I borrowed something without asking. I am now regretting this, and don't know what to do. I think I have a yeast infection, and I would hate to spread it to that sweet mother. She would notice if a pair went missing, and bringing it up to her would be too uncomfortable. Should I slip them into her dirty laundry? Clean them and hide them in her drawers while she's not at home? Help me out, yahoo! Serious answers only!! To clarify: trans rights but I am a 23 year old cis woman if that changes things 

I'm an adult and I want to move to another city to get away from my abusive family. But if I move away they'll follow me. I don't want to run into them anywhere I go. I know I'm an adult so there's nothing they can do about it but they don't care. I wasn't going to tell them where I'm going but they'll find a way to find out.

My brother recently got caught smoking weed at my parent's house.  He's still a junior in high school (I'm in college, and I also smoke regularly, though my parents don't know that) but my parents are taking it really hard.  My mom is an anxious mess who thinks it's because of a mental health issue.  My dad, though, is the worst.  When my brother got caught, he essentially screamed at him, and, among other things, threatened to strip my brother's room of everything except for the bare mattress, and if he got caught a second time, he would send him to live in the unheated shed in our yard.  My dad backed off of that particular punishment (only because my parents went in for couple's therapy and the therapist laughed at that absurd idea), but my brother is getting drug-tested once per month because of this, and both of my parents are extremely on-edge.   I'm angry at my dad for not doing the research on weed (he's under the impression that my brother is an "addict"), and for suggesting that punishment.  I'm angry at my mom for just going with it.  I've been trying to tell them it's not a big deal, but I don't want to get on their bad side myself, especially since I now know how crazy they can be. What should I do here?  Part of me wants to stop talking to them altogether.  Any advice from parents?

Why is that? When her husband is around, she avoids eye contact with me at times too. Is that bad? Otherwise, she seems happy to text me when I text her.

I am 17, 5'5, fully grown male. My 12 years old sister is 6'1 and according to the doctors she would end up much taller than that. 2 years ago we both were 5'4, last year i become 5'5 and she become 5'9, and now this. She's loving the fact that she towers over me and she is always making fun of me and teases me in front of people because of that. Last year she found out she is actually a lot stronger than me and because of that she beats the crap out of me on a daily routine. She controls me and i have to do everything she asks me to do. She could end up be like 6'6 and it will make me shorter than her chest. What should i do????