Me an my ex of 4yrs split a month ago...we had a really bad fight...he was living in his car while split. We have a 1yr old daughter soninlet him come on Xmas to sleep shower and be with her. He wants us to be together..I thought I did too...I WANTED us to work before we split and wanted to figure things out. But I've been in a really down mood since he's been here becasue it's weird and BECASUE I partly feel stupid. I have a heart and felt bad for him being outside and him being sorry. I thought I wanted this but at this point I'm not even sure. I think the last insident just made me over it. And I wanted to work on myself and him work on himself but it's really hard to do when we're still around eachother everyday. I don't no what to do. I'm big on the law of attraction and positivity and his presence is effecting my happiness. I don't no if I'm just being stubborn and refusing to fall back into the relationship becasue I have doubt. Or if I'm just over it. I don't want him to live outside and he has no family. He lost his job since living in the car so he doesn't have anything. WHAT DO I DO???

If he asks or keeps bringing it up... Hes a gold digger. Even if he presents or even is himself rich or has a high pauing career. A lot of rich people want more and more money as its never enough. These guys want a "relationship" with a woman who is making as much or more than them so they can siphon off her money rather than pay for dates and for her lifestyle himself. I myself personally am waitng for a husband who is excited to be the sole breadwinner of me and our future large family. Any man that has any interest in your monetary intake, job pursuits, what part of town you live in, etc. He suspects you have money and wants to figure out how much before he starts to act like he is seriously pursuing you. A man who dates rich women is not a man and he's not dating. He's creating fake relationships. And before you slack jawed fools try to rip me a new one... A man's job as a husband is to provide. If you disagree, we can't even continue to discuss this matter further so sinara.

He said have an eggcelent day. And then i say thank you and he sajd you are of course welcome.