So my wife (we've been married for 3 years, together for 8) decided to spring on me today that she went to go see a plastic surgeon while I was at work and that she's getting a boob job. This is the first time I'm ever even hearing about her wanting plastic surgery. I begged her to simply talk about it first but she said she had scheduled the surgery today along with a 500$ non refundable schedule fee.    Personally I just don't understand, I'm frustrated and hurt that she didn't come to me first. I also don't understand who she's trying to impress when she has a husband who loves everything about her. I don't like fake looking woman and the fact that my wife is 22 years old and getting plastic surgery just makes me wonder why.   It's also very unsettling she's willing to blow thousands of dollars on appearance when we just bought a house..   It really hurts me because I feel like if she's this insecure, clearly I'm not doing a very good job as a man or husband. 

My fiancée already has two kids from a precious marriage and keeps going back and forth about having a child. I don't have any children and I am absolutely sure I want a family with my own child. Is it fair that he keeps going back and forth? Is this some kind of manipulation tactic?

My spouse and I got married and had the civil marriage. Then a few days later, we received a later to apply for a marriage certificate (for a certain amount of money of course). What is the use of the certificate if we are already registered legally?  What kind of situations will it require such certificate?

My ex husband has never been in our two sons lives in fact he has outright been hurtful . Now he has taken them (they are teenagers now) for the first time and he can't just spend time with them he has to drive leaving from new York to Miami and the keys . I feel like they will not want to come back , they haven't even texted or called . He is trying to win them over with his money and I am barely getting by . I feel like they will resent having to come back to the same old me struggling to get by and school , rules ... 

My friend recently split with her husband. She's 34 and I noticed recently she is constantly posting sexy and over filtered selfies. She shows off on her Instagram every bit of designer items she owns. She's not wealthy but comfortable. She likes to make her lifestyle look rich and glamorous. Why is she doing this? Why all the need for constant showing off?

He broke up with me. But we never stopped communicating. we made a date to see each other (lived in different cities) about three weeks later. After that weekend we decided we were going to try to work things without WITHOUT seeing other people. 5 months later i found a receipt for something he purchased while we were on that break. he purchased a prepaid mobile phone and a phone card. i confronted him about it and he completely denies making this purchase even though his last four card number is on it and my text messages with him proves he was at this store. we got into a huge fight and i told him i'll drop it. but should i? it was before we decided to work things out but our relationship clearly wasn't done as we continued talking and saying i love you since the day he left me. he swears up and down he's never cheated nor talked to anyone during our time apart. but why the need for the prepaid phone and why lie? should i bring it up? if i do, i can say our "working on it" will definitely be over. or should i let it slide but risk him lying to me again? I love him very much and want things to work out. but i just want to know why he lied about the phone and why he needed one? Please help! i put this under marriage and divorce because we've been together for 7 years. 

It's so boring.. I used to like it way better pre 2013. And they were frequently changing the outlet like every 2-3 years. What happend?

I don't know couple just seen them around

So my fiancee has car issues which I dont feel comfortable trying to fix.  Her ex husband is a mechanic but for her to go to him would make me feel like I'm not adequate to help so I offered to pay for it to be taken to a garage she still chose taking to her ex.  I didn't explain to her how it would make me feel until the day she took it.  Not sure how to feel about the situation now.

There was a guy I worked with he would always stare at me when I would catch him starring he would quickly look away. He would get nervous to talk to me. He transferred a few months ago and when he left he started following me on Instagram. I recently started being more active on Instagram and he literally stalks my if stories he's alway the first to look at it. I noticed so I reached out to say hi and he looked at it but didn't respond until 3 days later just saying he's doing fine thanks for saying hello and he hopes my family is doing ok as well. I just said good to know and yours as well. I always thought he was interested in me but scared to say so but his response was kind of like a conversation closer like he didn't want me to respond back or leave the conversation open for communication.

Women: If you wanted to just experience pregnancy and not actually wanting to have kids, would you get upset if your husband liked a picture on Facebook of someone who had a baby? Would you also get upset if you posted a pic also but he didn't like it? 

this weeks blow up, last night the baby woke up at 11ish, I gave her a bottle and ran downstairs to let the dogs out and close up the house, when I came up the baby finished the bottle but was wide awake and gassy. Wife freaks out and blames me, going on and on about how I left her with her bottle for 2 mins. "I'm very disappointed with you today" she says. meanwhile, I'm home with the baby in the am, feed/change/ drop her off at day care/pick up at daycare.. everyday. last night I cooked, cleaned up, took care of the dogs, did the dishes. After the baby woke up I come to find her re-doing the dishes I already did saying "I didn't do them" I basically told her, "im sick of hearing this BS, I do a lot around here everyday and I'm sick of you taking your stress out on me." Last week she did something far worse, she left the baby in the crib with a boppy pillow and when I got up and heard the baby crying I found her face smashed against the side (deadly). I then discovered she had 2 drinks before this happened so she was passed out and confused when she woke up. The next morning I sternly but calmly told her "never again"... If I did something like this I would never hear the end of it. It happens once a week, how do I get her to stop?

Hey! So long story short I recently met the husband of my brother's wife's cousin and ever since he added me on Facebook he has been messaging me.. at first I thought he was just being friendly and I replied back in a neutral, platonic way, trying to incorporate his wife in the conversation too, but he continues on. His first messages were asking me to dance with him at my brother's wedding that just passed, and on the wedding day he pulled me aside and whispered in my ear "I'm gonna get you on the dance floor tonight ok."  Later that night he was realllyyyy eyeing me the whole time and when my dad had left to go the bathroom, I was sitting alone and he had sat RIGHT next to me with his knee touching mine. It was wayyy too close for comfort in my personal opinion, and he was asking things like how old I was etc. he constantly made round-about comments about my butt as well, saying things like "wow if you got it flaunt it," and other comments. I'm trying to convince myself he's just a friendly guy because his wife is super friendly as well, but whyyyy is he even messaging me? I feel like a married man shouldn't be texting a young girl almost half his age. Idk thoughts on this situation?? Should I brush it off or is my gut feeling on to something?