She just discovered that she was pregnant and so she messages her former bully from school on Facebook and says "guess what girl I finally got some dick even though you said 10 years ago in the 9th grade that I would never get laid. This proves that I can get the D." 

I was at a party and the host ask me to drive Jane home as she was too drunk to drive. I agreed as I did not want her in a car accident. The host said I will call her husband and tell him you are bringing her home. When I got to her house, her husband met me a the door and would not let his wife come in the house. He said "She is not coming in this house until she sobers up". OH CRAP. What am I going to do? I can't leave her there drunk on her door step. I called the party host and ask her what I should do. She said to take her to your home and take her to her house in the morning when she was sober. I was not comfortable having a married woman sleep at my house over night. I was afraid of what her husband might do. He also seemed to me to be drunk but I didn't know what else to do so I took her home. The next morning she wanted to know how she ended up at my house and I told her. She was outraged. She said "I am not going back and live with that S.O.B. of a husband". Can I stay with you until I can find a place to stay. I told her no but I would help her find a place to stay. I was afraid of what her husband might do and/or I would get involved in a divorce case. Please tell me if I did the right thing here. Should I have let her stay with me?

I am a 27 year old female fixing to be 28 and I have a best friend that is a lot older than me and me and her have been friends for 3 years. She has pretty much known me my whole life because she has been knowing some of my family for a long time. Anyway I have had fixations for a long time and I actually am fixated on her and it has been going on ever since we have been friends. I know it's wrong though but I struggle with my mind and I have gone to therapy for this but it was just a temporary fix. I think I need to tell her that I have this fixation with her. Should I tell her that I am fixated on her? She says that she's no ever going to stop being my friend no matter what I say to her. I have never had a true friend like her before 

When my friends were teenagers, they were all driving cars and having boyfriends in school. I was too scared to drive and too scared to talk to guys I liked. When I was 21 years old I learned how to drive and got a car. When all my friends had kids and married life in their 20's. I didn't feel like I was mature enough in my 20's and wanted to focus on career. Now I am in my 30's and want to look for a partner, why am I always behind my friends on maturity level? I am single, still trying to get my life together and they got their life together

Where I work the company owner, my boss brought in his new wife and introduced her to us employees. Our boss John is in his 50s and his new wife is in her early 20s, my age. A few days later he ask me if I thought his wife was cute. I said, "I had not give it much thought but yes she is cute". It became known at the office that John was very jealous of his wife with other men. One day John ask me if I would like to "fool around with his wife". Wanting to not get involved with his personal life and wanting to keep my job I said "I would not fool around with any man's wife". He said "then you are the person to train my wife to use the company's computer system so she can help me with the business. I did not want to do that but I had no choice to do it if I wanted to keep my job. I did train her but it took a long time. After the training she told me "I owe you big time. Please let me take you to lunch to say thank you for being patient with me during the training". I told her I could only do that if her husband John came with us. She said he is very busy and probably could not find the time to join us for lunch. I told her a thank you lunch was not necessary. My thoughts were that a lunch with her without him would put my job on the line. Do you think I made the right decision about this or was I worried for nothing?

My friends and I made plans to go out, but a couple days later I found out that they invited someone I don't get on with. They know I'm not her biggest fan but they all get on with her so fair enough. I'm just wondering if I should still go because she reaaalllyyy gets on my nerves.

Hii, i'm 19...but i still haven't been able to make any friends in real life😶...i'm super quiet/shy(only irl)... so i have trouble talking to ppl irl.(I'm a girl)

I was headed to NYC from Florida to meet with my best friend. We traveled seperate she left first. She was at a friend's house who lm I know and I was sick with a cold on my way to the house. She says she was out probably about 15 min away from the apartment. I asked can u just open the door she agrees. I then tell her I'm 30 min away as a reminder. She then says sorry no one will be there. After I was close to the apartment. She was out hanging w other friends and wanted me to just sit outside w my luggage until she was ready to come get me. So I quickly head back on the subway to my fathers. Apartment. My family is upset that she treated me like an option when she begged me to come this far to see her. I just don't know if I should be friends with someone who constantly treats me like a burden or baggage or an option. But I have know her so long. Not sure what to do.

My friend (the closest thing I got to a BFF) makes me pay for our lunches, snacks for her own stuff and etc. I am a teenager that works my *** off on my holiday to earn money but my friend told me that she is too lazy to work but still orders expensive stuff when we are out and I pay for that. Since I started working I have been feeling like I am a money source for my friend. I have been shutting off my friend and I hate it so much. Am I cheap for that??

A while ago, I reached out to an old friend from my childhood. She and I hit it off super well, and for the past few months, we've hung out pretty regularly. We've talked about introducing each other to our respective friend groups, and in particular, she mentioned a friend I should get along with really well. Naturally, I take an interest in this, and I want to meet this person. Problem is, I worry about the communication I have with my friend. It's more I who is the one reaching out to her, and it takes her a long while to respond, though she admits the latter. She does see my messages though. Currently, she seems to be away, but she never really made it clear when she would be back. On Insta(that's where my friend and I message btw), I seem to have found the person my friend has been talking about. I've been asking to meet her friend for a while now, but I'm wondering if she's been trying to stall that (Her friend's a girl too). Though she gets a little flirty with me, another trait she admits about herself, she has a boyfriend. I can't help but wonder if I am seen as a backup, but the motives are unclear. I want to reach out to this person, but could I? I don't want to sound weird or creepy because I'm would be introducing myself over Insta instead of through my friend in person, but what would I even say? Thank you for your response

What does it mean when someone says that a woman is very cut throat?

My best friend for many years recently dropped me. I didn't do anything. What led to this was only me asking her what's been wrong lately. I told her it felt like she was pushing me and her other friends away and that I was worried about her. She suddenly played the victim and tried to say stuff like I didn't care about her (which if I didn't then why would I try to talk to her), and that I didn't understand what she was going through and stuff. I know some of her situation. I'm going through pretty much the same thing if not worse. She practically forced me to tell her and then she did nothing to help me feel better. What she's done most recently does not help me at all. I'm going through a lot. If any of her friends understands what she's going through, it's me. I didn't pry to get her to tell me what was wrong. I just asked if she was okay. She had been acting very different lately. When she said yes which was an obvious lie, I asked "Are you sure?" And she got annoyed at me. Whenever I would ask what's wrong she would get mad at me and defensive. She also always has to be right. We've been friends for so long. When I first moved to our school, she was one of the first and only people to accept me. We've done so many things over the years. She threw it all away. She also told me to leave her alone.. and got mad when I did. Last thing she said to me was she needed time before she'd talk over this. It's been almost a month. I don't know what to do. I feel betrayed.

Am I still young at 26? Like to pursue my dreams, party hard, meet cool people, have cool experiences, etc? It's just that a lot of my friends are getting engaged now and I'm scared it will be to late. I wasted my teens and early twenties doing nothing. Like I didn't start doing the stuff I stated above until I was 22/23. Do I still have time?

My friends and I have always been playful with one another, but I feel differently about this situation: I was in the middle of a test, this was the second day he gave us so the front was graded. I'm not doing particularly well in this class (bonus for those who see from post history it's calc) so the front was a bit red. They get done, and I hear chuckling from behind me. I think "what if they're talking about me?" Then shrug it off as being paranoid. I return my test, and when I sit back down they're all still chuckling and one of the people shows me their chat log, and my fear came true, it was jokes at my expense in a group I'm not in. I went silent to them the rest of the period (went on my phone while they talked), later one texted in a group we were all in if I was mad. I said no (looking back, a mistake). And one of them (different person) replied "I apologize, merry Christmas" So here's my thought process: I joke about myself doing bad in calc all the time and go along with them. However, I feel if it's in a group I'm not in, it's not really a joke with me anymore, it's a joke about me. What should I do about them? Should I confront them, now that's it's after the fact and I already said I wasn't mad? Should I text the one person that asked if I was mad? If so, what should I ask them? I'm just very confused about this entire thing, and being in Christmas break I'd like for this to not be on my mind.

I have a problem. Whenever I am upset about something and my friends want to hang out, I would decline. If I do hang out, I would be in a bad mood. Even at work, people can tell when I am upset even though I try to control my attitude. I will not be happy until whatever problem I have is resolved. I hate that I act like this. My friends have complained about my attitude (that I don't hang out, my emotions are up and down...) but I can't help it. I also feel my friends should be more supportive and understand why I am in a bad mood and not expect me to just get over it. Some of my friends don't even want to talk about my issues and expect me to be happy all the time. I'm the type of person that if I don't talk about my problems and resolve them I will always think about it.

I have a bunch of friends, but I only get to see them at school. These guys have been my friends since 4th grade, and I've been away from them for 3 whole years, I wasn't with them since grade 8, 9, and 10. I've decided to return to them in grade 11. We talk, but we don't play sports anymore, and that's all we do, only in school. They're nice, but I have a feeling of doubt, a feeling to make everything much more lively between us.. can I call them "true friends?"