I wash everything I wear weekly and she still claims some of my clothing is not clean enough. I told her I could only wash it so many times and use so much detergent on an item that isn't even meant for vigorous washing. We started arguing heavily when she said if she checks my clothing (why does she need to check it in the first place if I check it myself) and she finds it's not washed enough then she's going to throw out an entire section of my clothing. I told her if she even comes in my room and removes everything then she's going to get a long time coming punch in the face from me. I also told her that dad doesn't love her and he hasn't in years, he's just too chickenshit to say anything. She called me a fuckingpsychopath and stormed out of my room. We haven't spoken since 9am and it's now just past 3pm. Dad isn't speaking about the fight at all and is just treating both of us fairly - as though it had never happened. How would you handle a mother that just completely flips her switch and loses it sometimes. Other days we are very close and practically best friends, and other days it turns to this. I told her too that if she ever throws out anything of mine to never consider me a friend again. I'm just so fed up with her threats over dumbshit and I'm not taking it anymore. This also isn't the first time she has threatened my things. When I was a small child she would take some more of the insignificant items and break them and throw them out if she felt like I was "acting out" according to her behavior and I would just sit there in shock, and eventually cry. I'm sick of that so I threatened to fight back this time? Was I wrong. Even though some of those incidents happened when I was 3 I can still remember them perfectly, and I know they happened. Hey, I didn't tell my mom to lie down and have unprotected sex. I never asked to be her problem, she's more like my problem and my father's problem right now.

My brother has some kids his age messin with him and I tried teaching the kid to fight but he fights like a ***** so that's out the door and they keep messin with him so it time for me to step in but I'm 21 and there 13 14 and as easy as it would be to roll up and bust knuckles knock head I cant so I'm asking you internet to help me out

I am a 25 year old single guy with a 15 year old niece, my sister' daughter Pam. I like Pam and think she is a very nice person. Pam ask me to take her to a high school function and I said OK if it was OK with her mother and she understood IT WAS NOT A DATE. Her mom was OK with it and Pam said she knew it was not a date. It was just friends having fun. Pam ask me to do this 3 more times. We all had fun doing this but nothing romantic happened as I would not do ANYTHING romantic with a 15 year old girl especially my niece. However Pam's mother ask me to stop taking Pam anyplace. I told her OK but I ask why? She told me I was so nice to Pam the she would develop a crush on me. I don't think she would but just to be on the safe side I agreed not to take Pam anyplace in the future. It looks like Pam's mother did not tell her she ask me to stop taking Pam places because Pam called again asking me to take her to another school function. When I told her I could no longer do that she was very mad a her mother and ask me to talk to her mother and explain that it was just friends having fun together NOT ROMANTIC. I am not sure I should talk to her mother about that. Should I?

My mother has always been very difficult during this time of year. She feels like she has no time to relax yet that's all she does. She barely goes out to buy any presents, we don't even host Christmas Eve dinner at our house anymore, and all she does is sit and watch TV. Yet I want to do all of these holiday-themed events in my community and it'd be fun to do them with her, yet she gets mad whenever I want to go. And if I go without her, she gets mad that I left her at home alone while I went out and had fun. I always get excited about Christmas coming every year, then I remember that she always acts like this every single year. I just came home from college for the first time this year and I was especially excited this year, and she just ruins it once again. What are some things I could do to try to enjoy myself but also make sure she doesn't feel like I "abandon" her? She always whines about buying presents, too. It's really not that big a deal, and it wouldn't be Christmas without at least some presents (we don't need a lot like she thinks).

Say my cousins husband, this gangster dude, is accusing my dad of ripping him off on something items he sold to him. This guy is all getting mad, well i told him, your mad about someone that you think ripped you off, well how many people have you robbed, killed, steal, beat up, stab etc etc so maybe someone did something wrong to you, but how many people have you done something wrong too. Yah sorry, no one is going to sit there shedding a tear for you. Your no one to talk about right n wrong. He just stayed quiet n did not say anything anymore. I just thought it was kind of funny that a gangster guy is accusing someone of doing something WRONG TO HIM. Ur no one to talk about right or wrong in any way, shape, or form. Wat r u talking about, this really happened

I've been taking care of bills etc since i was 15.. i got my first apt at 15 and my mom moved herself in.. same for the second and third apartment.. then she gets money, hoards things from goodwill.. doesn't clean up after herself.. and stays on social media all day.. She even added thousands of miles to my car.. I'm taking care of a grown woman and it's making it hard to even take care of myself.. and when she's mad she calls me everyname in the book... am i wrong for not wanting to help her anymore?

I want to know why my niece Anna is embarrassed if girls (her friend or cousin)see her underpants but not a boy?   I don't know if the girls tease her about her underpants being white nylon.  Anna is eight If she in a short dress playing with the girls is when she got embarrassed   I noticed she does not seem to care if either of the two boys her court sees her undies   Recently she was her Fathers lap getting a spanking with her dress lifted up past her waist when my nephew came in with his friend    Anna panty was then fully showing and she knew that Derek was looking in at her as she got spanked.   That is weird I think. Do you think the girls teasing her about her underpants is why?

My boyfriend Jim came to pick me up for our date. While he waited for me to get ready, my mom ask him if he knew anything about computers. He said he did. Mom then ask him to help her get her computer working as she really wanted to get her email but her computer would not work. Jim examined her computer and found it had a virus. He removed the virus and got the computer working again. Mom was overjoyed she could now get her email. She told Jim she wanted to properly thank him so she gave him a hug and a kiss. Jim said "Wow, your mom sure knows how to say thank you". I am not sure how I feel about this. Is it OK what my mom did? How should I feel about my mom kissing my boyfriend?

My brother wants to take my son & cousin on a road trip 6 hrs away. I'm not very confident that my brother will take good care of them. For starters, he is very cheap and will probably buy a meal for all 3 people. He wants to spend 4 days away, and I don't think he's prepared to spend $ on all their necessities. They would be driving an RV to Louisiana, and probably going to New Orleans. I said no to his request and now everyone is mad at me. I don't let my kids be away that far and that long. Not just bad drivers, bad weather, night driving, where is he gonna park the RV? and how inappropriate is NOLA without a kids parents. He has no kids, so sometimes he can't discern what's appropriate for kids or not; such as movies (rated R) etc. Thoughts? my son is 14. 

My younger sisters behavior has been disgusting me embarrassing the last 2 years ive been with my soon to be fiance. I mean this girl would go out of her way to show she hates my wife. Cyber bullying, in person, phone, dirty looks, constantly talking crap it, never ends. My mom on the other hand keeps telling her and I to ignore my sister but ignoring hasn't stopped the issue. I can't stop the issue because my sister doesn't listen to me either. My wife's relationship with my mother is great, but now her relationship is decreasing because my sister. My fiance now says "Why doesn't your mother check her when I tell her what your daughters been doing?" "Does she think this is acceptable?" "Why hasn't your mom confronted her?" Because of this my fiance's loosing respect for my mother I can tell.. she hasn't disrespected her but she doesn't want to come around anymore.. we just moved into a new apartment and I wanted to have dinner with my family over, at least mom and brother and she's not really going with it.. shes turned off and has no interest and I don't know how to fix this or help.  

My mother enables for him.

Mine does this a lot so I am trying to understand his arrogant ways. 

My Dad has continuously disappointed but I don't hate him. My sister on the other hate I have true hate for. 

My sister a moron? I feel like my parents like her better and if I am the least bit unkind to her it's evil. 

I'm 7 months pregnant and just a few days ago he grabbed me by the neck and face and yanked me by hair because I was talking very disrespectful to him and didn't let him touch my pregnant belly (which I think there's other things underlying why he went off) afterwards he told me don't cry and that he aologizes, he just stared at me and kept asking if I'm ok.  It's like he didn't even fully realize what he's done even after he verbally abuses me.

Hypothetical question. you had a 16 year old daughter and/or a 25 year old daughter. One or both started dating guys that you knew off the bat were bad. So you stress to her not to get involved with him. She doesnt listen. A few weeks later she comes crying that shes pregnant and that the dude broke up with her saying he didnt wanna be a dad and didnt care for her anymore. What would you do as a dad? Would you let her deal with it on her own? Would you tell her you told her so? Would you risk prison time to make the guy pay?

My family will be really excited about the news.  I've been engaged for two days now. I'd have called them by now but I'm going home in three days, so I'll see them in person to tell them.  However.  My fiancé won't be up until Christmas Eve (4 days after I arrive)  I can keep it a secret easily enough. But how do I suddenly tell them once he arrives?  Any ideas? Thanks in advance. 

When I was 18 years old my sibling was 27 and she went to the same college as me and majored in the same thing. Which is abnormal for an older sibling to do. Than she would follow me around the house and copy what I wear copy what I do cry when I would not invite her places. I am 30 now and in a wonderful 10 year relationship and she is still living at home with my parents still concerned about me and still figuring out ways to copy me and follow Is this normal? How can someone devote so much time into someone else life?

Let's say a father comes home from work one day and announce to his son that he's been fired from his job for petty reason from his boss and then he says that him and his son will be fine and he'll be looking for another job soon. Few years went by and he is still unemployed and the money that he is receiving is coming from the government benefits for his child is still in school. The father has delicate himself to being lazy. So lazy that he doesn't bother cleaning after himself nor does he change from his clothing for years on end. He doesn't bother taking a shower which creates a strong odor from his body and then cause the whole house to smell terrible every time he walks past. Overall, he is currently living he life as if he is a homeless person living in a home. And every time you tried to help him and such, he'll always response with "I'm Fine" or "I can handle myself" and then he tries to laugh and if it's normal which is not. Something is clearly wrong with the father and the father refuse to see the problem right in front of him rather than trying to fix it. What can the son do to help his father out rather than to see him struggling to survive along with his son?

I have met all my grocery shopping needs at Wal-Mart and other places. I really don't feel the need to pay for a yearly membership that I know I will never use. She seemed SUPER upset with me as if it was supposed to be my responsibility to pay for her membership to CostCo. I know it's only a payment for once a year and she told me it's only $50/yr or something but it's not about the money. It's more about how she talked to me about it? It looked like she really didn't understand that i didn't want to pay for a service that I will never use. I asked her what I was going to get out of it and she told me that I was going to get a CostCo membership. I told her that I don't go to CostCo!!! She keeps saying she is helping me. Is she losing her mind?? She talks to me about it like I am the one who asked her for help!! Like wtf??

My mom pretends to be nice, but later on gets really mean with nasty things to say. Everything she does has a catch too. I told my relationship is none of her business. Why cant she be happy for me?

I can't really get along with any of them because they all drink. One of them even says they are maturing spiritually but hasnt really fully gone against drinking all the way yet, he doesn't see anything wrong in drinking to get drunk in an extreme case of being rejected by a person he loves. Its driving me insane. Also, I feel like I have to stay away from home and I can't because I don't have any money especially to rent my own room somewhere else. Is there a way to deal with their drama?

Its beginning to get on my nerves and Im thinking of just hiding my things somewhere is there a way to stay away from this person? I feel like I am lacking so much privacy but I cannot afford my own place. Help. I cannot afford a room somewhere else because it will be 100 dollars extra is there a way to make at least 500 more a month? 

Just a warning, I'm probably just gonna sound like a bitchy teenage girl. So its finals week at my high school and I am incredibly stressed out. My parents have been divorced since I was 5 and my mom remarried 3 years ago. My grandmother is about to die of pancreatic cancer and my mother is helping out my grandpa with taking care of her. She is incredibly stressed because my stepdad keeps telling her the things that aren't going right without her here. Most of it is chores and about the animals that we own. I feel bad about not helping out more around the house, but I try and do what I can. My stepsister also lives with us and she's 19 and about to move out of the house to live with her sister. She doesn't do anything to help around the house. My mom keeps blaming me for everything that's been going on and adding to my pile of stuff I need to do. I get lectured when I don't do one of the things, and for getting bad grades. I understand this, but she's given me so much stuff to do that I can't get my projects done. This is going to tank a few of my grades causing another lecture. She had my stepdad take my phone because she assumed that that was the problem and not just being overloaded. I'm perfectly content without a phone, but I can't deal with anymore stress. Should I ask my father if I can move in with him until my grandmother passes ad things cool down? It wouldn't change my school if I moved with him.

Hay un chico que me gusta en el facebook le dedico canciones pero el nadamas se la pasa dudando de mi? A veces me da calentura y a el tambien. Luego no nos ponemos de acuerdo porque son asi los hombres?

I'm 25 years old and decided to come to Mexico this winter break to visit my grandparents. They live in a small town. Everyday my parents are forcing me to go out and talk to people they grew up with. However, I can never relate to anything they are talking with these people because they only talk about gossip of the town or they reminisce on stuff that happened when they were younger.  It's such a small town that whenever they get out of my grandparents house, they have at least 3 mini conversations with people, and a simple trip to the grocery store that would take 30 minutes to complete lasts about 4 hours. I don't know these people and only say hi my name is so and so because the rest of the conversation goes to the past. For the next hour or so, I just stand there listening while my parents talk. I told my parents today that no I wouldn't go visit my second uncle because I don't think he would really care if I showed up. I told him that all I do is sit there for three hours since all they talk about is themselves and people from town. Dad called me antisocial, said I would end up in a retirement home when I got older, that he knew my ex-boyfriend and I wouldn't last because he was antisocial (false) and immature (true), too, and stormed off. He's going to give me the silent treatment for the remaining two weeks I'm here. What's going on here? I am allowed to say no, right: Am I in the wrong?

My mom got engaged to her boyfriend today. Mom asked me when she should have a baby. She is not old at all, she is 29 years old. I need help on deciding what to tell my mom. And guys please no spamming. I am very serious.

I'm 15 and I was being stalked by an older adult who apparently is in his 40s called "Darby" on here who was constantly harassing me on here and being inappropriate sexually so I blocked him and after I blocked him, he started commenting on every answer that answers my questions to get me to unblock him and won't leave me alone. He also found my other social media accounts and won't leave me alone. i'm struggling about it https://answers.yahoo.com/activity/questions?show=6f071CZraa This user 

So basically i'm 15 and my history teacher is a fat man who looks to be in his 30s and has glasses and almost every class while he's teaching he will just randomly stop and fart really loud and it smells horrible and other times he'll burp really loud while we're working on something, when he helps us his breath smells horrible and makes me gag and i can't concentrate, one time he even accidentally burped in my face while helping me. He farts constantly the whole class and I can't learn like this and i'm not sure what to do This is a serious question and i can't learn like this therefor i'm struggling so i need help in what to do about the situation