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Even my mother never did this. I avoid this aunt now.

Still talk down to you like you're a child? Even talk trash about the person you are with? I am reading a book toxic parents and still have 100 pages to go. Its hopeless with my mom. Shes not happy for me one bit.

I'm in a bit of a predicament. I recently got married and, for a while, my mom has been in denial about me getting married. When I did, I asked a couple of months ago if she would like to come over to my house and she claims that I only wanted her over because I am insecure about my marriage and so I will believe she likes him. She also said that I am only making myself feel better. Now, I asked if we could all come over for Christmas and she hasn't answered the question yet. My oldest sister still lives there and my other sister will be there a few days after Christmas. They want me to come, of course, but if my mother doesn't want my husband or step kids to come, should I even come? We are all a package now and it can't just be me coming over. That would be like my husbands family not wanting me over, but wanting him and his kids to come. What should I do? Should I go over there or just invite my sisters to my house? I don't know what to do and it upsets me that my mom can't even let her own son in law into her house without hiding somewhere. She does stay in her room a lot and I'm afraid if we come she will stay in her room. My husband doesn't want to go because he doesn't feel welcomed and also doesn't want his kids there either if she says no. Any advice?  UPDATE: My sisters want to be peace makers and say that I could just come, but it can't be like that anymore. Why would I want to go if my husband and his kids can't? 

My dad asked me to go with him skiing because my cousins would be there but my dad has changed his mind and thus was lying to me for the second year in a row. I has been all excited last year also. I feel really bummed because these cousins live in different parts of the country so I have to wait till the next funeral to see them. Last funeral was in 2015. How do I get over the disappointment so it does not ruin Christmas for me.

He tells lies a lot to family that he's honest at work.  He gets bothered that I don't follow suit and lie to family a lot.  I'm going to start by lying to him. 

its been 4 days now will he ever come back Im only 6 and i want to see my dady  my momy told me to ask this site since she said she dont knwo 

i have a crush on so many band members from my favorite bands and i always message them how much i love and appreciate them but they never even see it. a few of them said thank you but then when i start a conversation they leave me on seen or read

I am a high school girl with a 18 year old male cousin. I have know him all of his life and he is a great friend. I call him when ever I need advice and he calls me when he needs advice. We are very close friends. A few days ago he said "I am VERY LUCKY to have you as a friend. I am VERY UNLUCKY that you are my cousin because you are the most beautiful, hot, and sexy girl I have ever met. Unfortunately since we are cousins, all we can ever be is friends." I think that is a complement but I am not sure. What do you think? Is it true that cousins can not marry in the U.S.?

My only contact is by phone because I prefer not to have any physical contact. I do not miss them whatsoever. I feel guilty, and like it's not suppose to be this way, but I'm tired of not being good enough, and not accepted as a person. I like the way I am, they dont.

This is the father I mention that lied to me about the ski trip, he also told me he would get in touch with me when his cousin is in town at Christmas. He told me today he's not gonna get in touch with me about it. Therefore he lied there also. I feel like cutting them out of my life but it's my father so I know I would regret that.  Cutting him out of my life I mean, not them. He is the only one that is a problem. 

I know she is a toxic parent. We do not get along and she treats me like an I inferior clueless stupid child. I'm 35 years old.  I dont want to block her number again, but she's not helping me in any positive way. Nothing but negativity towards me and doesnt want me happy unless she can control my life. It's been back and forth he said/she said type arguing as if we are a divorced couple. It's making me angry, miserable, and hate my life.  I dont ever want to see her again to be honest.

She and he mother in law was very angry asking me how could i blame the dog for my flatulence. I told them i don't even know wtf that means and when i said his stomach prolly didn't agree with your cooking **** really hit the fan. Now she won't cook breakfast. She a selfish *** mofo! She over their eating Raisin Bran looking at me sideways and smacking her lips. Little does she know milk & raisin brand causes *** gas and when she does her little quief fart i'm fronting her just like she fronted me last night. I'm here pretending i'm texting my side chick to buy me breakfast and it's really pissing her off

My uncles own a company and are multi millionaires (about $10 million per person per year). My other uncle moved and although he was not in need of money, they gave him money. They told my mother they'd give her money because they gave her brother money, and many of her family members. This was in August. When are we going to get this money? I am bothered by the fact that they did not live up to their promise. 

She might be furious with me cause when they divorced she was bothered I said to my cousins, her kids, "tell your Mom I said hi" as she hates their mother. We are seeing her at something the weekend after Christmas for the first time in 5 years. I am looking forward to seeing her, my grandmother despises her with passion. What do I do if she scolds me for saying more then just a cold "hi" to this former aunt? My mother fears my grandmother with intensity so she will scold me to in order to please my grandmother.

Our cousin is a HUGE women's rights advocate and that is fine but when she hears this she is going to think it is true since we don't see her much. I am a guy and of course if I choked a woman I would be wrong. My sister is lying. I had to move her out of the way when she was showing five year old like behavior and blocking the door. I absolutely did not choke her but grabbed her by the shoulders like a father would if his 5 year old was talking back. I try to stay away from my sister but have to see her over Christmas at a family event. I am hoping her Crohn's has an episode so she can't make it but if she is there and starts telling people I choked her what do I do? I would argue back but then we both look like little kids.

My birth parents did something bad enough to lose all 3 kids and get a probation for 10 years and now my birth mother is trying to get back in my life but she talks as if she was the most amazing mother. I don't trust her so if there is any way I can find out why she lost me it would be pretty helpful. 

I just want to begin a trend of always having a perfect year but every year I can't always have a perfect year because I end up having the same issues with the same people in the same places. Every year I have at least one argument with my dad either in the house and or while we are in his truck together.My mother forces me to stay at home if I don't take off my pajamas and by pajamas she means just the pants. I was about to go with my dad to get some food. I was just gonna sit in the truck and ride with him right back but my mom said no to leaving the house because she said someone passing by on the sidewalk would see me in my pajamas getting into the truck. She also said she that I shouldn't wear pajamas outside because she thought someone would make a mockery off me. I can't have a perfect year because I can't get along with my parents for a full year. I just want every year to be perfect and by that I mean a year without being told by my mom not to leave the house for any reason in my pajamas even if it is to take out the trash.Also in this perfect year that I wish that I could have I don't want to have sudden arguments with my dad because they usually lead to him reporting me to my mom and her telling me what I did was inappropriate,disagreeing with my whatever I say,agreeing with everything that he says and forcing me to say I'm sorry.My perfect year will only happen if I'm not told to change when I don't need to and by my mom and if I don't have any arguments with dad. My dad and I don't talk much now and that is due to the argument in which I hit him for ignoring which that I mentioned in one of my previous questions. My mom is only easy to get along with when I'm not in my pajamas and about to leave the house in them which is stupid. I just wonder how many other people have these type of issues and who else has these issues as well. I don't see myself ever having a perfect life because I can't always have a perfect year. By the way I forgot to put the word me after ignoring

My mom has two half siblings. A sister from the same mom, a brother from the same dad. So her sister and brother are not actually related to each other at all. So my aunt's son and my uncle's daughter are together and having a kid, and getting married within the year.

I'm looking for care givers for my mom. She's mentally there. But needs help moving from her chair to the toilet, and make her a quick dinner. Nothing that takes a drastic amount of time.   The live in would be there from 5:30-9:30, Sunday-Friday, with one Sunday a month off. The person would be there to help my mom with those tasks, and they are welcome to watch tv, play on there phone and or do homework when she's not needing anything (which is most of the time). We are thinking we would $160/week, which would include room, board and free meals when they are on the clock. Any hours outside of this would be paid through the state, $15/hour Also, they wouldn't really be needed past 9:30, but just incase my mom needed someone during the night, with a live in, at least someone would be present. But it is very rare that my mom need to use the bathroom or needs a snack at night. 

So my live in girlfriend and I like to spend Christmas alone.We live with my Mom.And this year we wanna spend Christmas alone again.We have done this in 2017 and 18.1st year we did it with no problem.Last year it was ugh again???My Mom is going over my sister's house.(She's a *****.)And I know if I say we wanna spend Christmas home again.She's gonna flip and say come on it's the 3rd year in a row your not gonna be here.We wanna spend our day watching the BB games,playing our new PS4 games were gonna get.(I bought as a gift.) and just have a good time with each other.Even go to our 24 hour diner for our own Christmas dinner.But my mom already said to  my sis.Oh yes,Rachel,Kelly,and me will be there.Like what the F Mom.We really don't wanna go bc she has a 3 year old son.And he controls the TV with cartoons,and not to metion ROWDY as Hell.Also when we get there we'll just be sitting there watching cartoons until dinner's ready.Which would take a good 2 hours.Then another hour and a half of sitting around before desert.Then another 2 hours of just sitting around watching cartoons and having this kid jump on us the WHOLE time since my 4 other sisters won't be there with their kids we're my nephew's only playmates.(Lucky winners.)So help how to get out of this dinner?Merry Christmas to all.

So about 2 years ago I enlisted in the military, I'm stationed on the exact opposite side of the country (relevant side data). My sister (17) texts me today and told me our mom asked her if she wants to leave with her after she graduates. No divorce no nothing just up and leave.  Fast forward a bit my sister finds a love card written to my mom going into some graphic detail about their relationship talking about how after she "told him she loves him that he has no reservations" that sort of stuff.  My sister is goes on to tell me that it's been like this since I left, so almost two years and that she doesn't think dad has a clue. I call dad, just start asking general wellbeing stuff and confirm he doesn't have a clue.  She is extremely delicate and nonconfrontational so there is no way for me to bring this up to my mom or dad without dragging her into the firing line.  I have no idea where to go from here. I need to be a strong big brother, I gotta handle stressful work out here, I can't bear the thought of holding information from my dad, but I have to let my mom know she's hurting my sister. I have no idea what to do.  My wife is at basic training, if I tell my friends here on base it'll spread around work and I dont need leadership coming to check on my wellbeing, my friends at home are either too immature, and I dont feel right telling family. This is the first time I've ever been this stumped please help me . When I mention those people at the end I'm referring that I can't go to them for advice for those various reasons. So this is the last place I can go 

My mother spent my whole childhood doing character assassination against my father. She robbed me of much of my childhood by this. Her animosity was that he, my father, was an alcoholic. She insulted his whole family to me daily because she claimed they enabled him. Now 25 years later my father has died after my Mom robbed me of a childhood with him and my mother is now supporting her brother's alcoholism. When we were with him last summer and he drank the whole weekend my mother told me not to tell anyone. When I saw her picture on Facebook with him just now she is having a drink with him. When his wife left him partly cause of the drinking, my mother blamed the wife. So how do I tell her she is a hypocrite for robbing me of my Dad and yet enabling her brother who has the same thing? My Mom's brother is VERY SIMILAR to my father.

So my mum decided to put my sibling and I in the middle of this. My dad works abroad and so we are currently visiting him. I am 20 and my brother is 19. My mum says that my dad won't allow her to touch his phone or access his phone in any way. This makes her think that there's something he's hiding. When my mum told him this in front of us, my dad denied this, and told her that she didn't think she thought of it that way. She also believes that he does not clean up the house but has a maid who cleans it up, and who he may have an affair with. He has denied this too. She also asked him to unfriend a former classmate of his on Facebook because she thought that they were having an affair. My dad failed to do this and my mum now thinks its because her suspicions were true.Knowing my mum, she wanted us to defend her, but I didnt want to take sides because my dad and I are not always in the best of terms, so I just gave my opinion on the matter and I said I hope my mother was just being paranoid since they live far from each other. I know my dad used to cheat when I was little let's say around 13 years ago, but I believe he's changed and that he wouldn't do that, to hurt his children(I have another brother who's 11)...Yes, my mum did bring that old issue up, which my dad denied.(I do believe that he used to, just because my mum told me so and that there are witnesses) I don't know what to do anymore. I don't know who to believe. I just want peace. My mother is very religious(Christian) and has had dreams interpreted about my dad cheating on her by a certain prophet. She also says that her searches online prove that her dream might be a sign from God to take action about it.(if you dont have anything positive to say about this please do not answer. It's a very serious issue to me and my family)

I've come to the point where Christmas is something that I absolutely dread. And I'm not going to put myself through that, given the last six months that I've had. I'm doing this for my own personal/mental  health, not out of spite for any of them. I just simply don't enjoy any holidays anymore, but that's a different story. My mom is like the nicest, most sweet, positive person you'll ever meet. Meaning, she doesn't understand me, and she won't understand why I won't come home for Christmas. (Which btw is not just one Christmas on that morning, it's three. One with my dad's side of the family, one with my mom's side, and one with my immediate family. I'm absolutely dreading all three). So, how do I break this to my mom, without totally crushing her heart? And also on a side note, why do I all the sudden hate all holidays? Even my birthday. 

She keeps canceling my doctors appointment for my foot and I might need surgery on it. I keep having super bad pain, and I can barely walk. I was supposed to have an appointment tomorrow. Then she canceled it to go meet some YouTuber.. I called her selfish for it, and she got mad at me and now I'm punished...