I'm in a 4year marriage and since about 6months into it my husband was very controlling to the point he would accuse me of cheating if I would go to like Target ,I was very young and naive and when i would try to leave him he would use my emotions for him against me and would beg me to stay that he had childhood abandonment issues and that he would get better that he really loved me. We had our good times but when i became pregnant last year he was happy but became even more mean like he didnt want me anymore because my body was changing. Ive tried from heart to forgive him  but like even when i went to visit my mom with my son he was calling me names and kicking me out.  His attitude ruined all the holidays this year, on christmas he made us leave his mothers house early because he had gotten in an argument with his brother, he was yelling at me to get on the car or he was going to make me telling me "you want me to slap the sh** out of you infront of my mom get on the car!" He apoligized when we got home as thats enough.  And now that i feel ready to leave again im terrified itll make the same mistake, i know i need therapy  to help me figure out why i allowed this. Not that it matters but I have a college degree, I had my own car (which he broke), i had enough money to take care of myself, i had a healthy social life and now i am depressed, broke with a pile of debts. My only option now is to go with my parents, they said they will support me while i get back on my feet.

I've shown her men can be nice but she has so many darn issues from her abusive ex and health problems. It drags me down. Shes so negative. Hadn't had a job in almost a year. She keeps promising to lose weight and clean up. She snaps at me a lot and I am sensitive sometimes to it. She got me all this beer today and pizza, but said some put downs to me and vented about how auful hervday was in my face when I was relaxed. It felt like I was a punching bag. She doesnt give a damn a d has regrets from life before we met. She became a pothead recently.  I'm stick here w her and no where to gom Sorry bad spelling. Im.very upset. I was all happy and shes a miserable person and it's not me. I know it. I pay the Bill's, I help out around the house, I cook, I clean, I declutter, I try to help her be happy. She buys me stuff but it's not doing it for me anymore   I cant just quit after 3 years together. Plus all our pets.****.... If I had money to move I might and meet some one idk... Take some space right? I got zero friends since moving out here. Zero. People are shady out here anyway. She got me to turn on my back ups  She acts like my mom sometimes who I cant stand

My husband have been still chatting with a female he used to sleep with many yrs ago. The only thing is he he have no intentions on sleeping with her he just text her for fun. He didn't even attempt to see her when he came to his home town. She got mad and stop texting him and he told her in text that he missed her. When he asked if she missed him she said she didn't know and he was puzzled. I found these on his phone. I just don't get why keep chatting with her.

A good friend of mine has been married for over 10 years (she is 43 and her husband is 49). They have two young boys (6 and 9). She is very unhappy with her marriage emotionally, sexually and other ways. Most of her interactions with her husband causes her to put on a facade that is causing her great emotional stress. She likes to do things like drink and use profanity from time to time and show different emotions on certain aspects of life, but her husband (very old fashion and extremely controlling) does not allow. Additionally throughout the marriage she has been sleeping with different men. She feels that she has a sex addiction that she cannot control. Especially because she is not sexually satisfied in her home. She has been to therapy, prayed about it, and even told several different pastors about this situation seeking advice. She feels that if she comes clean and tells her husband the truth, he may divorce her causing the boys grief from not living in the two parent home anymore. if she stops cheating, she still will have to deal with her home issues with her "head strong" husband presents. Says that if it wasn't for her boys, she would leave in a heartbeat. She is convinced that things will no get better and is stuck in this loophole. I gave her my input and told her that I would ask Yahoo to get some unbiased opinions. What do you think she should do?

My mom has been claiming for a while that she is married to Park Jimin from BTS and even has his last name "Hyung". How can I find out if this is true or not? This is her account saying that she is his life long partner.

And I chose not to go down that path. But men have no respect for me as a woman. I am not your mother who must have babied you into adulthood. Women don't exist to please your every whim and desire. If you want sex rhat badlt get a wife and be faithful. Stop lying to and tricking a bunch of women. Its not your right to be a selfish assshole. And it will come back around. You will REAP WHAT YOU SOW.

...for men. i see them as individuals, as potential leaders. And i am way too patient and nice and kind for these jokers!  Men act like little babies! Guess what, joker? Your mother may have been changing your diaper up until you were aged 30 but every other female is NoT interested in doing the same. Maybe these douchebags got spoiled and worshipped by their moms and so they think women exist to mother them and take care of their every need. GOO GOO GA GA! As if I dont have a life of my own I'd like to lead and enjoy. No, this sucker has to come in like a lying snake and trick me into thinking he has some feelings for me and appreciates me. All to drop me two seconds later because he FEELS like it. And they call US emotion-driven. Nah, i take care of business. I've studied long and hard how to be a good wife, how to treat a man.

My fiancé and I work together. He works a different department than me. Anyway, we were coming back from break and this female who works in his department was folding clothes and he walks by her and jokingly swipes his hand across her back. I was a few steps behind him and seen him do it. He's a touchy feely person and also goofy to a lot of people, even me and even before we got together. Should I be worried about him doing that or let it go? I trust him and I know he wouldn't hurt me. He's been cheated on before so I don't think he would cheat on me. Any advice?

But I feel the female should have done a better job of being obedient and loving to her husband and this would not have let up to this. Any thoughts?

I have read books and found that men in marriage needs sex as first priority to build a strong relation...but it confuses me to think that men wants to chase and hunts , wouldnt i make myself more of a sacrficial lamb, if i accept his advances everytime without saying anything, wouldnt it make me of less worth, wouldnt he get bored of me.???

-Everytime I stalk him on social media, I want to destroy him and his wife and his children. I hate children now and I hate women who are married. I think marriage is for losers and women who are married are oppressed and probably get raped all the time and I bet he abuses her and I bet he abuses his child! He's such a sick rapist i hate men Is it normal to feel like this towards my ex boyfriend who broke up with me 10 years ago? I've been stalking him for years