Why would a guy say "I can't be around you because I'm scared to fall in love" or when he says he loves you then "I take it back" or flip flops on wanting to date and just all over the place. 

Me and my boyfriend are in a long-distance relationship but have been dating for nearly 9 months. The distance obviously puts a strain on the sexual side of things; and although we sometimes have video sex, apart from that he seems uninterested. I have tried to offer to send him nudes and sexual videos and sexting. He always agrees and seems up for it at first but later says he doesn't want to. He masturbates daily so his sex drive has nothing to do with it.  I don't understand why he keeps doing this and it's starting to really upset me and effect my self confidence. I don't really know what is going on or what to do about it so any help or ideas would be great. 

¿Se debe a que no te gusta tanto tu pareja o que no lo estás disfrutando?

My mom and sister and my grandparents all associate with these manly masculine women who have very anti man attitudes. These women look like guys and are very mean to me due to me being a guy. They are hostile towards me also. They don't have any femine traits and look manly. Any suggestions?

A lot of what I have seen on here, as far as questions posted, and I'm sorry, but to me seem to be posted by many people who're wallowing in self-pity. Self pity is defeating, and accomplishes nothing. Sure it's natural to be sad over life's disappointments, no argument there, but you also have to remember, "**** happens."  You cannot always control what happens to you, or that perhaps things did not work out the way you wanted, be it with a job, a girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband/son/daughter, father/mother, but you can control how react in those situations, that includes what you decide to do next. And remember it's better to move forward from a bad situation, if the situation cannot be changed, than to wallow in sadness and ask questions like "Why is this happening to me?" In fact when I hear people say: "Why me?", when something bad happens to them, all I can think is most of the time: "Why not you? What makes you so damn special that it shouldn't happen to you?" And then: "Okay so it happened. Now what're you gonna do about it?"So I'm just gonna ask this question flat-out: "What the hell are you really doing better your life, or yourself as a person? And if you are not doing anything, why not?"