iF not when they first meet me, then when they get to know me it'll come up.. but some people are like that also upon first meeting me. Not even getting to know me first . 

Look first off I'm not advocating fat shaming ANYONE man or woman; that being said obesity and yes size 12 and above is obese for women, and even if not women with those sizes just typically aren't aesthetically attractive to most men,  is NOT HEALTHY.  It's such a cop out for women to say- "She has an impossible body type- or all the skinny women in magazines are air brushed" rather than go to the gym.   Look I'm a fat and ugly disgusting excuse of a gross ugly man. Do I go around trying to force women to date me, to "love my personality" and ignore the fact I'm obese and not healthy? Nope. I'm actively trying to change; it's not easy and I haven't been totally successful but I keep trying. Eating better and going to the gym. I noticed that men like me don't usually hate and blame women for not wanting to date me. We don't shame or whine about "body type". Are there SOME miserable women hating fat men out there? sure.  I'm changing my body because I don't want to date a fat woman; I don't find them attractive, I don't see how personality can ever make up for no sexual attraction and I just don't wind them attractive.  According to women that makes me evil and shallow. Yet the same fat women won't go out with a fat guy. I know beggars can't be choosers; so I don't feel entitled to a hot woman, and I don't blame or hate them or try to shame them into finding me and all fat men to be a "superior body type" so why do women do this? No one is entitled to some ones attraction

When I was 14, I was friends with a 17, almost 18 year old. It was a vulnerable time for me, my friends kinda weren't around anymore and I was depressed and some other stuff. This person was very willing to be my friend though and it was nice. They encouraged me to do sexual things with them. And some other irresponsible stuff, but that's not what I'm asking about. I didn't really question it, idk. So we messed around.  I'm 21 now, and I feel really weird about all this, looking back. I feel...manipulated. Maybe if I wasn't so depressed at the time and desperate for a friend I wouldn't have been so willing. Is it okay to feel weird about this? Was it weird that we messed around despite our age difference? I mean 4 years would be no big deal now but at 14 it is, right? This is weird right?

he's the same too. So what the heck is he thinking? Is he a lonely loser who can't find himself a girlfriend?

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