I was reading up on wedding etiquette and I found that you are supposed to invite someone especially special to you and present them a gift as part of the wedding ceremony.  Is this still done?  I was in a lot of weddings in the seventies and eighties where they gave gifts but I haven't been to a wedding in years.

My mom and my new stepfather are planning to go to Hawaii for their honeymoon. Are these clothes good clothing for my mom to wear in Hawaii? She is still not sure about what to wear. She asked me for suggestions. They are taking me along with them also. Guys please do not post spam comments. The trip is between December 25th and January 1st.

I'm 35, getting married in eight months. I have two older sisters and no brothers. When my sisters married, neither of their husbands asked me to be their best man or groomsman. My older sister and her husband only had one each; with my sister having my other sister and her husband his brother. My other sister and her husband had three, with my sister  reciprocating by having my other sister, and two friends; and her husband his two brothers and one friend. I actually felt left out of that one, but at the same time understood, he had two brothers and a lifelong friend so completely understood why he chose them over me. Now, here's the thing. My fiancé and I have decided to have two each. She is having her sister and a friend, and I am having two friends. My older sister is fine, but my second one is being a major hypocrite by saying that I should have her husband as my best man, or at the very least a groomsman. I pointed out to her that he didn't have me, so I am not at all obliged to have him. She said that is because he had two brothers but I pointed out to her that he had a friend over me, she didn't have a comeback for that one so just became angry and said that he will be crushed that I am not having him (this happened literally today so he doesn't know yet). How should I resolve this? I don't want to have him because a)we have settled on two, b) he didn't have me, c) I am closer to them anyway. Any help would be greatly appreciated. 

I was having a conversation with a guy friend and accidently went "haha I don't know how to date why am I Lyk this I have temporary crushes and they go away the next day" did I come off like a complete asexual??? I realized soon as I sent it but it was too late and he only replied at the part where I diverted the subject? How can I reverse the situation/redeem myself...was it very odd..I like the guy but we're friends at the moment seeing different people and I don't want him to think I'm asexual/psycho P.S i said "something's wrong with me lol I can't date"