I will have the money in Feb.

I'm one out of six for starters. I'm the oldest girl also but anyways, ever since I turned 16 (I'm 18 now) my mom been starting A LOT of problems. I mean back then it wasn't that bad but I just started to get tired of her cursing me out for nothing. I help raise my brothers and sisters since I was 12 years old.. she never picks at them the way she picks at me. As I grew, I started defending.. I mean what else would you do if your parent calls you out of your name? Threatens to beat you up like " a female in the streets " or lies to family and friends about not helping ? Just recently she got in my face talking about how she'll whoop my a** all because I told my sister to get out of my jacket... she didn't ask to wear it. Also every time I go into my room to cool off, she starts saying remarks and stuff about me.. what do I do? I don't wanna fight her but it's getting too far. I'm trying to move out but she hasn't even took me to get my license or id.

I hired a call girl but she said she'll take her friend too.

I'm 18 years old just got a job at my moms job, and I ride with her to work so now she saying I have to pay a bill. When I've clearly been struggling for months trying to save up to buy a car, and pay for college. I just feel like it's so wrong for her to make me pay a bill to live here when she clearly sees I'm already struggling trying to get and stay on my feet. I'm already broke so it just hurts that she'll make me spend my last on paying consumers when she knows there's things I want to do. But I don't know what to say to her to get her to understand where I'm coming from I always get a "if you live in this house you gone pay a bill" what can I say to her to get her to understand how I'm feeling without just seeming like a freeloader, I know that's a weird word to use in this situation because she's my mom but idk what to do without just sounding like I rather spend my money on shoes or something, you know.

My fiance drives me crazy being home every day. She will say shes going out, then wont to stay home. I feel suffocated. I like to read the news in the morning, and before bed. I'm a writer. Shes a chatter box, and doesnt use all that extra energy to have her own life. I showed this Donald Trump deep fake where Brock Lesners body was on it holding a shark. She got super excited and started feeling me up getting overly excited making all these comments ts like a fat person with a cake and box of chocolates. It felt degrading like I'm a chip n Dale's dancer. I had literally just woke up. It made angry, drained, and killed my mood for the day completely. We just had a romantic evening yesterday and the woman doesnt know when to stop and chill out. She acts like a grade schooler who's never been with a non boring smart and funny guy before who works out.  Not to sound full of myself. I'm comparing myself to her divorced husband who was really as dull as an old guy out in the backwoods who was a slob.

I dont feel comfortable with my shirt off sometimes, she wont stop drooling and getting all excited with comments. It gets anoying when I just woke up and want to be left alone to gather my thoughts for the day. I just feel suffocated and smothered to the point it gets very draining. I wish she was more mature. Shes never been with a muscular man before, and her body is exactly flattering so it's almost offensive. But even if she looked hot it would still be anoying. I dont know anybody who likes being worshipped 24/7. She always likes looking deep into my eyes too and treats my body like it's a sweet tooth craving.  It hurts her feelings when I need personal space. We had a great day yesterday, but I feel so chocked up by her smothering. We were watching wrestling and she started saying I could do that.."ooo look at that hot body of yours dang, could just eat you up, omg". She does that way too much. I just feel like people in my league are more confdent and less insecure.  Bjt I do love her. To the rude answer. I did explain I've told her. We fight, she gets angry, or feelings hurt, or hates herself. Sorry you cant read. She tries to get inside my head too.

When I was married to John, my mom thought of him as the son she never had. Mom's favorite thing EVER is to go out to a restaurant for dinner. So once a month we would take her to Sizzler or Golden Corral for a meal which she really enjoyed. I though these "dates" would end with our friendly divorce. I was wrong. For the past year John has been taking mom out to dinner once a month as we used to do. Mom did not tell me about this until recently. She said she knew I was trying to get on with my life without John so she did not want to remind me of him. She said there is one difference now than when we went out to dinner. He takes her to Ruth's Chris or Mortons for a steak, her favorite meal. She told me they are the best meals she ever had in her entire life. I checked the prices of these restaurants and they should be great for the prices they charge. Mom gets her hair and nails done before each of these meals and is VERY HAPPY for a long time after each of these meals. I am not sure how I should feel about this. I want mom to be happy and John doing this for her makes her very happy. However he is my ex and if I get married again which I plan to do soon, will it be awkward for him to continue to do this if there is a new husband in the picture for me. Can I ask my mom to not tell anyone that John is doing this for her? Please give me some advice on how to handle this?

I have 2 children in college and my daughter is in high school. As you can see, money is tight at my house because of college expenses. My daughter Lisa wants to be like all her high school friends and have nice clothes and other nice things. I just do not have the money to buy her all the things she wants. When I tell her I can not afford the things she wants, she will call my mom and ask her to go shopping with. When she finds something she wants, she will tell my mom and my mom will buy it for her. With what mom is buying her, she is living WAY above our means. She thinks she has the greatest grandma in the world. Please give me some advice on how I should feel about this. Mom can easily afford to buy her these things but should she? Is Lisa taking advantage of my mom? Mom did not buy me these nice things when I was Lisa's age. Parents and others, please give me your thoughts on this.

I have parents who like to nag me constantly about everything. Since I don't have a job, and don't have anywhere else to go, I've put up with their daily nagging for the last year since I graduated High school. I have no plans of going to school further, and right now have been actively seeking employment for the last month. In that span of time I've applied to over 7 jobs in my local area, and a few temp agencies.  So far, none of them have gotten back to me. For some reason, my parents think I'm making it look like I'm looking for a job, but not actually trying hard enough. I've gone to the local stores in my area, and they all say the same thing, which is to apply online. What would be a good way to land a job and get my parents to finally stop nagging me, like a job is going to magically fall out of the sky? To the person named P in the answers section, I think you misunderstand me. There aren't many jobs in my area, let alone jobs I can do, as I have 0 job experience. And for reference, these 7 jobs ranged from retail, maintenance, fast-food, etc., etc. So I don't have a problem with signing up to multiple different jobs. Lastly, if you couldn't tell the plan was already to get a job and move out. So please, no more redundant advice. I understand my shortcomings for not finding a job sooner, but to be honest that wasn't the biggest priority in my life for the last year. I have already been lectured enough by my parents, all I'm looking for are other options to land a job quickly. I have already noted to start using Indeed. YES, I understand that I graduated a year ago, no need to remind me. It's not like I've been a couch potato for the last year, I've been working on ways to make money other than working a 9-5 job. I don't want to go into detail about what I was doing for a year, but just know it definitely wasn't sitting on my *** playing games daily. With that being said, I'd like to end my last update by saying that I received the advice, and will start applying to more jobs immediately. Thanks

Might sound like a silly question, but hear me out. I'm 25 years old and I currently live in my parents' home. Originally, I had plans to move out earlier this year. I got a new job in January and my plan was to first save at least a couple of months worth of expenses just in case of an emergency, and to pay down 1 of my 8 student loans. I reached my goals and was even touring apartments. Then, in late June, I got laid off :( So I've been looking for a job for the past 6 months. And during these 6 months, my parents have been annoying me. They still treat me as if I'm a child and I don't have any privacy. I feel like a teenager. I can't even ask them about moving out - my mom would say something like "moving out?!? Where are you going? You're still my baby." She's joking around, but she still doesn't answer my questions. My dad, who got laid off earlier this year, has turned in to a demanding madman. Then they're other issues with the house, such as mice and other infestations (I proposed to pay for an exterminator, but parents refuse), lack of heat, messiness, etc etc... As a result of all of this, I want to move out ASAP. I already have some savings left, and I've been purchasing apartment goods throughout the year.  Should I move out ASAP or wait a few months? I know brokers do ask for proof of income, so I'm taking that into consideration. Sorry might sound confusing - I got a new job in January 2019 of this year. Also I'm on the last stages of a couple of interviews, so I believe I'll get a job by January 🤗

Their mother hates my Mom and so they hate me as the offspring of their Mom's enemy. I also may have reached out a little too much when I realized their Mom, uncle's wife, hates my Mom now. Their mother is one to spontaneously hate people for some reason. I fell victim to this once before with people in another part of the family after my parents divorce who have always viewed me as 2nd rate cause I am part of my Mom's family. All this hurts, especially at Christmas time. 

For example my Dad, who I consider the master of lies, got mad last Christmas cause I answered my grandmother truthfully when she asked what we were doing for Christmas Eve and I said "we're around" NOT KNOWING that my parents had come up with a scheme to get out of seeing her that evening by saying we were hosting part of the other side of the family that evening. I had no idea or would have tried to go along with the lie. My Dad got mad anyway. Also the other side of the family was not in town. All this cause while they were happy to see my grandmother they did not want to deal with the aunt everyone fights with. So I was in trouble for not knowing I was supposed to lie and for not lying. There are many other examples of this. I am trying, I lied to them a few times this year when trying to stay out of a family scandal. However, generally speaking I am not a good liar. When I try to I am not good at it and so it is obvious I am lying. So are my parents wrong to press me to lie or in adulthood must one lie to be successful?

Which one is less satisfying and rewarding?

So my mother is a narcissist she is controlling and overbearing as you know narcissistic people see their children as extensions of themselves. They don't teach their children life skills and the try to keep their adult children dependent on them. Their is a video called Landon's Story The Fifth Estate he moved out and go his own apartment with his girlfriend. One night his Mother came in with the police took him away because she lied about his well being. After that she tried to get guardianship over him and he ran away then finally got his independence going to court. I have a disability (depression and anxiety) usually the scapegoat is labeled as mentally ill. My mother sabotages everything I do. She's financially abusive as well. She got mad about me saving $300 once. People think I have bad money management skills because of her but, I don't!!! She purposely doesn't want groceries in the house. She wants us to spend money on fast food. She borrows up every dime I have. I asked her could I give a certain amount every month and she got mad. She doesn't want me to keep track and come up with a budget plan so I can move out. With that information about her being said do you think if I leave without telling her and go no contact she will have me on the news or something? Do you think she'll call the police on me and if so what should I do? 

Just when I thought it was getting a little easier to accept, and that I was moving forward in my grieving process. This happens. I literally woke up and in my head I was like "where the hell is my Dad at". Then it all hit me again. Like I had flashbacks of him laying on the floor deceased. The hospital. The funeral. The casket closing the last time. The burial. The tombstone. The late night talks I go sit and have with him. And like, I'm deeply hurt that my brain played such a horrible trick on me. Tears are falling as I write this. I don't appreciate my mind doing that to me. I miss my Dad man..... 

So I am severely depressed now cause my fiancee decided to break off the engagement. This is the seventh woman who I've been setted up with who decided to dump me for someone else. My most recent fiancee who's name is mai and she ditched me after hearing what one of my aunts said about me. My aunt in the US told one of my family members in vietnam that I framed my uncle back in 2006 and got him arrested. I filed a false police report and said he beated me. He caught me stealing a dvd and I got mad at him and did that. Years have passed by and I'm 29 now and I just want to get married and have a family and I'm having issues trying to find someone. Now that aunt decided to ruin it for me and told one of my aunts in vietnam and somehow it got to my fiancee's family. They told her about what I did and told her to break off the engagement with me. I don't get why she can't think for herself. That was years ago and I've changed for the better but no one sees that I did. Why did she break it off just cause of some bad rumors about me ? Why can't she think for herself ??

They all curse me out and call me names. I'm not doing anything wrong but they are all against me. When I try to ask them why they all get mad. I can't say anything or do anything without them getting mad. I don't know how to get them to stop. I can't live under the same roof with them anymore without being attacked. I don't feel safe. No one believes me. No one has my back. I can't move out right now.

He is a bad man.

Anytime I am happy, which is only sometimes, she yells, complains or brings up something from the past and put me in a bad mood. If raise the thermostat one degree, she flips out. She complains all the time about stupid stuff like forgetting to pick up a sock off the floor or not washing laundry her way, which is the wrong way. Now she says it will be a long time before I come back to her house. But with the holidays coming up, I have to go, to her house for them. So I guess that means no holidays either. For stupid reasons. I wash jeans and bras on delicate, and I read tags. She ruined a sweater of hers and a blouse of mine, washing them wrong, but I'm the wrong one. I don't know what to do. I am mad and upset right now.

I used to be able to tell my kids if they kept being bad, they will gt coal. What can I do now? I no longer have that leverage to get them to be good

I'm 20, I have good grades and I work with my dad. He told me to do what I want because I do make efforts all year apart from working with him

My brother who is 15 years older than me is temporarily the guardian for my sisters and I (ages 13, 16, and 21). We live at his house but I don't think he should treat me like my sisters because I'm many years older than them and an adult. He told us that curfew is 10pm and for our 13 year old sister it's 9pm. I told him one day before I left that I would be home around 10:30 because my cousin was having a get together at her house, just to give him a heads up. Then he started saying your curfew is 10 we can play this game all you want blah blah blah. So anyways I came back at 10:30 and he told me I had to go to my room because I didn't come back at 10 and that because I didn't come back at 10 I wouldn't be able to go out after 4pm for the rest of the weekend. I started arguing and discussing my side of the story and how I felt about this with him saying how I'm an adult and he shouldn't be able to send me to my room like a child. But he won't budge with his opinion and I feel like I'm too old to be sent to my room and told that I can't go out after 4 for the rest of the weekend. I feel angry at him now cause I fee like he's trying to control me and he keeps telling me don't bother asking him if I can leave the house after 4 for the rest of the weekend cause it'll be a waste of my breath.  My question is am I too old for him to be treating me this way or is that normal and I should just listen to him and accept his punishment?

My younger sister and I are a few years apart. Enough to where we normally wouldn't be in the same school at the same time. However, in the past 3 years, my family has moved and now we both attend a joint middle-high school, meaning she is in the same building as me for most of the day. It has put a HUGE damper on my social life. She has suddenly turned into a big snitch. She tells our parents EVERYTHING - who I hang out with, anything she overhears in the halls, what my friends say when I'm not around. I've recently started dating this guy, and we've only been out once of twice so I haven't told my parents yet. But my sister saw me holding hands with him in the hallway, and as soon as I got home my mom confronted me about meeting my new "boyfriend". My sister texted my mom and told her that very day, before I even got home! She'll also talk about the things my friends do, like when she told my mom that one of my friends curses a lot, and now I can't hang out with that friend. How do I get her to let me have a life of my own and leave our parents out of everything?