Because I'm considered to be even more unattractive then most other women. If every other woman can get then I should be able to. Please tell me the truth and no lies.

She plays loud music all the time and ignores anything I say and won't help me and snitches on me all the time. It's annoying 

I have 3 older brothers. They were watching TV upstairs and one of them ask me "Would you come up and measure to see which one of us has the biggest one". I told them NEVER IN A MILLION YEARS would I do that. They said "Sis, all we want you to do is measure our head to see what size cap we should get". Oh My God, that was not what I thought they wanted me to measure. Should I tell them what I thought they wanted me to measure. I am sure you can figure out what I thought. Will they think it is funny what I thought?

I'm 16 and I'm doing indoor track. My parents really want me to do it. I really don't enjoy it at all, it ruins my day knowing that I have practice. The only positive from it is getting out of the house. Some of my friends have left because they don't like it either. My question is: Since I'm not going to be making nationals or any big event, when will indoor track end for me?

My parents have died, his are living. They are going to his celebration. I have no one. My brother and I don't speak cause of sexual abuse he committed against me and my daughter 20 years ago. My two sisters live out of town with their families. They do in-law stuff as well. My kids want to be with their cousins and grandparents. I pleaded with them not to but they are over 18 and I kind of understand their point of view and the grandfather has cancer. It is too far away for them to see me and their father's family. I am all alone. I am sure I will see them the week after but it is still just me Christmas Eve and Day. I live on a farm so not a neighborhood. I am so depressed thinking ahead to it. It was 42 people just two years ago. Then my Mom died and my sisters do in-laws out of town. Last year at least we had my in-laws. Now I am an outcast to them. I could not take the yelling and emotional abuse from my husband who is a moderate to severe alcoholic. They all, the in-laws, blame me. I was starting to drink too much myself just to live through it. What do I do?

She apparently bullies everyone in her family at the hospital. Glad I am on her estranged list.

I have a daddy kink and the thing is that I have a pretty good relationship with my dad. We do argue here and there but that's normal. I don't think about having sex with my dad ever. I just like calling my boyfriend daddy and he's okay with it. I also like to call him papi (same ****) I like when he chokes me and pulls my hair.....I also have a think for incest....ik it sounds weird but I really like watching porn with family. I imagine if it was me. (Not with my real siblings ever) like if I was a different person. I like sibling porn and mother son or father daughter. Its really hot and turns me on. Is this normal? My boyfriend is (thank god) into this stuff too. I like the idea of family incest porn and acting on it. Ik it's wrong because it can make sick babies and is morally wrong but I can't resist. What's wrong with me???? my boyfriend was the first one who brought it up. he admitted to me that he liked it first. also I would never really act on it with any family EVER. maybe just with a boyfriend or girlfriend. but ever real family. I just like pretending with my boyfriend and roleplaying it btw what I meant by *acting on it" is like roleplaying it with a partner

Cant Remember a time when my life was good, my mom decided to raise me without a job because **** me right? Why should i grow up happy right? Ive known since i was 7 years old that she sold herself for money, because apparently that wasnt as tough as having a ******* job, so just to start my life im already traumatized by this ****, around this time my great grandmother who we lived with died, leaving her house in my name and my moms fathers name, apparently my great grandma knew not to put **** in my moms name because shes a **** up, my grandfather was on SHERM and my great grandmother still left the house in his name and mine instead of my mom, my grandfather would get high and go on rampages so my mom sold the house(i was a minor) so at 7 years old i was told that a large sum of money had been put up for me for when i turned 18, over the next 11 years i moved maybe 9 times, as a result of my mom pissing off landlords with her late rent, grew up poor, but for 11 years i waited to be 18 to get my money and move the **** out, well as youve guessed by now i turned 18 and NOTHING, i turn 23 this year, and to top off my shitty life ive been depressed for 9 months because im pretty sure some ***** gave me herpes ON MY 22ND BIRTHDAY, so now ontop of being broke my whole life, waiting 15 years for a life changing amount of money that i never received, now im gonna be rejected my whole life and die alone, why should i not just ******* myself and end this shitty ******* life...

I have kept it a secret but it is one that might get out over the years. Some people would feel they should have been told and I am wrong not to share it. Obviously if asked not to say anything I don't even if it is to the person's parents (as in this case). It involves someone's old girlfriend having a child they fathered. No one knows but me and this relative's father, his mother does not and will want to have known. Putting anonymous obviously cause it is a secret. 

I am hoping I don't have to see her as she is like a witch but if I do how do I get her not to bully me?

I am participating in an estrangement from my toxic sister right now but even her I say hi when I see. My parents are not on speaking terms with my Mom's sister and so they give me grief when I see her and am nice to her. They are mad at me even sometimes for it, my Dad especially. Meanwhile for years they were estranged from my maternal grandfather and his wife. I was the one to reconnect and really got to like them. For 5 years I got grief from my Mom about it until finally she broke through. I have an alcoholic uncle my parents don't speak to at times prior to his divorce as his wife disliked my parents. I got grief for being nice to him and even his wife and daughter didn't like me being nice to them. (they wanted me to be mean to them, weird??) A step-sister of my Mom's left her husband for another man. It was wrong I agree but didn't feel it was my business. My parents resented I didn't hold a grudge with them though years later they are civil to her (just civil). One last example is a generational animosity my mother has to anyone in her late father's family like his sibs. They were not nice she says to my grandmother, her mother. So not only does my mother not like the two brothers of his but the sister who is lovely (two brothers did make mistakes). My mother dislikes association with any of her cousins from that branch of the family and boycotted visiting one in town recently who arranged a party. He is SO nice and yet she holds this grudge over his parents This one cousin she dislikes purely because his mother was the sister of her two enemy uncles.  So with all these estrangements how do I get people not to give me grief for being better then them and forgiving? 

My brother joined the Marine Corps as an intelligence Marine and I joined the Army as an infantryman. Whenever I talk to my parents about my life (especially my Dad), and my passion for the military, it always turns into a conversation about my brother and how well HE is doing. Then it turns into this passive aggressive implication that my brother is a better man than I am and that he's a true leader and that he has EVERYTHING figured out in life and I don't. I try to explain to him that we are just different and we took different paths, but they just treat it as if I'm making excuses as to why I'm not "better" than him. I love my brother and we've always had each others back and I've always been the one to protect him, being the older brother, but growing up its always been about who's the Alpha-male and I hate it. I just don't know if I'm over-analyzing it or how I should go about handling it because I don't want to live my life with resentment towards my parents or jealousy towards my brother. 

About six months ago my dad booked a trip to Spain for the entire family. About two months back I've hit a pretty hard rough in my relationship with both my mom and dad. With the vacation already booked I didn't want to fully cancel. Mind you my father asked if I didn't want to go. I knew that if I didn't go that it would only make things worse between us. Coming up on the vacation month I've had even more stressors. Finishing up college, stressing about tuition, and starting a new job that would begin two days after we get back from the trip. I also wanted to make it back in time to spend New Years with my boyfriend. So I asked my dad if there was a way for me to come back a week early. I would be there for Xmas and my sister bday and then leave that weekend to make it back in time for New Years and then have time to decompress, have some alone time and get ready for the new job. I am an adult so he isn't forcing me to go but he responded negatively. Saying I'm only doing this for a guy. That I'm being a puppy dog who follows a man around and that I'm trying to spur the trip for everyone else. I responded saying that's not what I'm trying to do I have a lot going on and a two week trip in the midst of everything just adds to the stress. Now that I'm obviously fortunate to have the opportunity to go to Spain. Does anyone think I'm being reasonable or do you think this is bratty of me?  *sour the trip not spur 

My mother was angry but acknowledged it was his alcohol and not him (his two children that were with him said the same). The sister of mine he verbally abused though has a terrible relationship with me as she abuses me. So I am wondering if I should be mad at this alcoholic uncle or if this is Karma on my sister and she deserves it? I feel for the two cousins who see their Dad like this a lot. Linda: It was my sister, not cousin. My cousin is cool, my sister is the problem. 

My sister has bullied me and I finally got mad back at her, long story. Now my parents are trying to keep my sister from getting mad. They don't like it when she blows up so they give her all she demands (classic narcissist enabling). So this weekend my cousin is in town and my sister is staying with my parents as she has Crohn's Disease and had a flare up. I want to go see the cousin who will be with my aunt across the street from my parents (my grandfather died and my parents moved across the street from my grandmother). My folks will tell me not to go cause my sister is there and I will get punished to please the narcissistic sister and tame her rage. How should I respond as I am going to be really mad by this?

Sometimes I dont know what or how to take this situation. Because I'm slowly impaired with learning disability he thinks he can talk to me like child. A lot of ways he helps me and my roommate with things we dont know how to do on our own. But when he gets mad he yells at us and tells us we're stupid and dumb fuks. He likes to call us Retards all the time and says that we are grown ups with baby minds. I try my best to be his kind of smart but when I dont tell him its hard for us, he says we're making excuses and that were being wimps. Most of the time I tolerate it only because he does nice things by actions. But sometimes I get tired of the verbal speech and yell at him back. When I yell back he then throws the guilt game saying he wont do **** for us anymore if i disrespect him. But in a lot of ways isn't he the one disrespecting by the way he talks? How should I handle this 

So my boyfriend and I were together for 6 years until I met this other guy and he wanted to get with me and he was really attractive so I said yes even though I was still with my boyfriend and I was dating both of them and i changed my status on facebook and other social media to taken by "the other guys name" and today my real boyfriend saw and found out and blocked me on everything and i cant stop crying because i love him so much and i need him for housing and stuff so im broken

I'm having this major concern involving my mother. I have autism, and a few other disabilities, and I get money every month to help me from the government, however... My mother knows my pin code, and she takes out over 650$ leaving me with 50$ (I only get 700$ a month) so she uses it for herself, I'm 18, and I don't think thats right for her to do that, since I need that money for clothes, food, therapy etc... How do I go about changing my pin number?! Do you think this is a reasonable concern!?