I'm looking for other people who are or have been in this situation. I am with my husband who barely leaves his computer outside of work. All day and much of the night he is playing online games. Any spare chance. He does the basics outside of that like taking my son to sport or hanging up the washing if I ask. He does virtually nothing else and isn't really present in our lives other than that because he is quick to anger or get upset if we interrupt him. He will help the kids with homework amongst the gaming as well and he works full time. Talking to him is difficult as he is mostly on his computer or wanting to be on his computer. Even my father today said that he doesn't have commitment outside of that. Due to my and his work it would be very difficult for me to leave (or ask him to) while the kids are at school for another 6 yrs. after they graduate it would be easier. We don't have fights or anything I am just completely let down by him. I am embarrassed to say to others what he does all day but don't want to hide it either. I want to get out but I am biding my time until it makes practical sense to leave. I don't respect him for what he has done here too. In other ways I do (he is good at his job) but just with this I am not at all satisfied and would rather be on my own. I have waited this long I just will hold on a little longer. I am looking for other people in this situation rather than anyone to tell me what to do. Please let me know if you are or have been here Thanks all I'm looking for people who have waited to leave than dealt with screen addiction.

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This guy kept smacking his lips and clearing his throat, and i don't know why. By the way, he wasn't eating.

She smells of lavender, patchouli, marijuana, and BODY ODOR! When I first met her I didn't realize how bad she smells, then it started getting very noticeable! When I brought it up she informed me she doesn't believe in deodorant and likes the natural human smell and that wouldn't be that bad if she showered more then once a week at most! She also doesn't really wash her clothes, apparently before she started going to school here she used to live in the country and would bathe and wash her clothes in a river or something. This 19 year old grown woman doesn't shave or EVEN WEAR A BRA! She also walks around our dorm room naked also the time... 

I'm looking for other people who are or have been in this situation. I am with my husband who barely leaves his computer outside of work. All day and much of the night he is playing online games. Any spare chance. He does the basics outside of that like taking my son to sport or hanging up the washing if I ask. He does virtually nothing else and isn't really present in our lives other than that because he is quick to anger or get upset if we interrupt him. He will help the kids with homework amongst the gaming as well and he works full time. Talking to him is difficult as he is mostly on his computer or wanting to be on his computer. Even my father today said that he doesn't have commitment outside of that. Due to my and his work it would be very difficult for me to leave (or ask him to) while the kids are at school for another 6 yrs. after they graduate it would be easier. We don't have fights or anything I am just completely let down by him. I am embarrassed to say to others what he does all day but don't want to hide it either. I want to get out but I am biding my time until it makes practical sense to leave. I don't respect him for what he has done here too. In other ways I do (he is good at his job) but just with this I am not at all satisfied and would rather be on my own. I have waited this long I just will hold on a little longer. I am looking for other people in this situation rather than anyone to tell me what to do. Please let me know if you are or have been here

Hey everyone.  Was having this discussion with my wife last night.  How many times a year do married couples in their early 40's have sex?  We have 4 kids 12, 11, 6, and 3.  We both work full time (she just returned to the work force after being a stay at home mom)  Our kids are pretty busy with sports.  I work 5-6 12 hours days she has an 8 till 5.  I take care of 95%of the cooking and cleaning around the house she gets the kids up and ready for school since I leave for work at 3 a.m. and cleans up around the house on occasion.  I've read most couples in their 40's fool around once a week on average she said no way she seen 8 times a year.  Now I love my wife deeply and would love to make love with her nightly, but every other month is a bit rough to handle sometimes.  What say you?

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My boyfriend has a huge social anxiety and back in his sophomore year, he used to get bullied physically so he got boxing classes and months later got into a huge fight so they left him alone and he still trains boxing till now. Before he used to have panic attacks in crowded areas but he got used to it but he still walks so nervously making a fist the whole time. He always used to say he wants to escape from modern world and now he's close to his dentistry degree, he said he can't handle being around people anymore, he's going to move out to a big countryside. He says he knows he won't make as much money in the city but his parents who one is them is a dentist and other is a doctor have saved him 500k and he said investing it should also give him $2000 a month and he says the countryside is big and has no dentist so he maybe will make same amount of money as a dentist in a city.  The thing is I really love him but I love living in a city, I'm a social person and love talking to friends and hanging out but all he does is studying, video games and boxing. He tells me being around the modern world is really making him suicidal and he finally wants to escape.

I ran from my parents home since we badly argued and they have just behaved terribly with me. I won't say what they said but my mom almost hit me just because she is stressed and always amswers back aggressively. He is the only one I thought he was a friend, I have no one else. He lives alone and was surprised when I knocked at his door. His apartment only has one room and the living room but I was so desperate I went to him without even calling. He was a bit shocked when I told him I was not going home and insisted that sooner or later I should make up with my parents. I don't know if I will, since what they told me. He had to work so we just  talked for the hour before he left. He insisted then that I slept in his bedroom and he would sleep in the living room. I said no but he insisted and took his work clothes the night before so that he wouldn't get in the bedroom in the morning. I'm thinking he just helps me out of pity not because he loves me. He admitted to be afraid that my parents would blame him for me running away from  home. I said of course not I came here you did nothing but he said 'you don't understand, you're underage, I will get in trouble...'.