Never had a true friend feel lonely sometimes.

My best friend and I have been best best friends for over 4 years. We tell each other everything and are closer than anyone else I know. My other best friend is my brother that is one year older. We are also really close and have an amazing relationship. A lot of my friends have to told me that they think my brother is cute or that they have a crush on him, but I've always made it very very clear that I do not want my friends to date my brother (because if it ended badly I could loose a friendship). I was even talking to my best friend about how hooking up with my brother is one of the only reasons I would stop being friends with someone. She just confessed that they made out a few months ago and were going to hook up, but everytime they tried to something wouldn't work out. She said that the night they were really planning on doing it, they couldn't because I begged my brother to hang out with me because he was leaving for college soon after. She lied straight to my face multiple times about why she couldn't hang out with me (instead she was trying to f*ck my brother). I feel so so hurt and betrayed. She knows that she could've lost my friendship over this, but she still did it. I haven't talked to my brother yet. I feel like I just lost both of my best friends. Should I stop being her friend? It's so hard because I still love her so much and I'm so blindsided by this. What should I do?  EDIT: she is 17, he is 18. This is not love. There was no idea of a relationship. They were just going to screw around despite how it would affect me.  EDIT 2: she knows what she did was so wrong. I don't think people understand that part of this. she was sobbing when she told me because she understands how much this hurts me. 

It makes me sad. I met this girl (Alexa) in college (we are both freshman) and we had a lot in common so we became really close. She also lives right next to me. We have this big group of us who are friends, but I would definitely say out of everyone, I am the closest to her. Everyday during the week Alexa would always text me asking where I was and I really liked that because she's one of those friends who make me really happy to be around. Recently though, she's stopped doing this and she stopped making an effort to invite me over to her room. I'm friends with her roommate who is another one of her best friends, and they've seemed to be doing their own thing together recently. That's fine and I completely understand, but I feel like she doesn't want me around as much anymore. She keeps asking me what's wrong and that I've been giving her vibes and I don't know how to explain this to her without coming off the wrong way. I've been feeling left out lately and it makes me upset 

my friend and i used to smoke weed all the time and i thought she liked it as much as i did, but she told me a few days ago she was quitting. this really made me upset bc i loved smoking w her and now i'm going to have to alone. she may even judge me for doing it, which sucks. i'm really torn, but ofc id pick her over weed any day. i feel horrible i don't feel the same bc were usually on the same level about things like that. 

I've been chatting with this guy online for 4 months now and he hasn't asked me for my name yet. The conversations I have with him are great but I find it strange how he didn't once bring up the question or wonder who the person he is chatting with goes by. He instead uses terms of endearment to address me but it's still weird how, after all these months, he knows nothing of my name. I don't even care too much for a picture at the moment. Why is he doing this and should I stop chatting with him? I don't know his name either

I'm not that popular at my school and I don't have many friends, but the ones I do have are complete assholes to me and constantly make fun of me. No matter what I do they are always making fun of me or laughing at the way I play sports or the way I look, even though I'm the healthiest one out of all of them. The worst part is them pressuring me into doing things that get me into trouble and if I refuse they tell me that I'm not a man or that I'm a pussy and that really hurts, so I feel like I have to do what they say. I feel like they're only friends with me because of the amusement that they get out of me. I'm just afraid if I lose them then I won't have any friends but it might be for the better. I just don't understand why they are like this to me and only me.

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I met her 15 years ago in high school and I had always wanted to be her friend. We have been friends on facbook for 10 years, I almost never contacted her. Then in March, I finally said "Hello." We messaged back and forth a lot for the next 8 months. I messed up a lot during those months but every time she was so understanding and forgiving. But a couple weeks ago, I did something, I messed up, now she unfriended me and wont talk to me. I just want to be her friend again, I want to work this out. I tried contacting her again but she doesn't want anything to do with me. What do I do? How do I get her to be my friend again?  I told her I love her too many times after she already told me it can't happen, I kept asking if we could hang out, I kept making her uncomfortable.

And be with "she said...." just because they didn't comprehend or understand the context of something and to "feast" about what was said. Almost as the person has to be serious all the time, walk on eggshells jus to speak or rehearse ANY thing they say befrpe they speak. I guess the feaster does that so assume someone else shall too. They make a big deal of what isn't even a big deal. Many people talk and say words. This person say anything it's a "she said...." and they ready to feast and boast.

What is it called when you get to the point to where you don't really talk to anyone anymore much? And you're by yourself more 

my best friend has a rough week ahead for her and her family. it is her dad's anniversary of him dying 5 years ago. i want to go over to her house and be there for her but i don't want to intrude. i just want to help her and give her a hug. and I do not want her boyfriend to be there and do that or just him do that and me not get to. i understand a boyfriend is supposed to help a girlfriend first and formost but i am her best friend, shouldn't i be the one to support her? but i need to think about what is best for her

Ok so there's this guy who has been bad mouthing me behind my back and who hates my parents and he always gets into it with my mom. He's my sister's roommate and something happened a couple months ago that made him hate us (it was his fault but i'm not going to go into detail because it's actually a pretty long story that is hard to follow). Anyway, I gotta go to their house tomorrow with my mom to help get her stuff out of the basement that she was storing there, and if this guy starts causing problems I'm going to fight him. I've never had to fight anyone before, but if he really starts to pi$$ me off I'm going to throw hands. He's a little bit bigger than me but not by a lot. Maybe a little more toned and a couple inches taller. Any advice if I need to fight him?

I'm a 21 year old guy. In the fall of 2018, I became friends at work with a girl my age. A co worker. I had a crush on her, but it was the work place so I never made a direct move or anything. We were just friends and I would hang out with her, take her to the mall, beach, out for ice cream, etc. anyhow, January of this year she changed. After being friends for about 3 months she started to tell me she was "busy" and she pretty much pushed me off. Then in May, she moved to another location to advance her career. We haven't had much contact since. We are on social media, and that's about it. She pretty much kicked me to the curb, to keep it short. I never heard from her anymore ever and if I texted her to say hi she would ignore me and never even say anything back. She actually called me last night interestingly enough and she asked me if I wanted to hang out with her and her friend. I told her I was working late and couldn't. And she said "Okay, well, text me!" Seems she misses me but I have mixed feelings on her. She clearly seems to want to hang out with me like we used to but I'm concerned. Do I take her back or no?? I feel like she doesn't deserve me. But then again, no ones ever really gone. Maybe she changed. I saw her boyfriend broke up with her, from social media. That's a piece to the puzzle of why she's reaching out to me with 7 months or so of silence. But I never thought she was romantically attracted to me. She always told me I was "innocent"

They just brush it off when I try and my friends don't care... or they tell me I'm having hormonal swings which is annoying!!!

women are getting uglier and it is a shame.

I know lots of people but don't have many friends. The one friend that is the closest is always in and out of my life. Everytime she gets in a serious relationship she disappears sometimes for years at a time. Thats always hard because when she comes back around I always feel like she wants me to drop everything for her.Then when she is single again she always wants me to do everything with her. Keep in mind I am married and have 3 kids and have had them the entire time we have been friends.  I know how it is and I'm the one who chooses to still be her friend despite how she is. She recently invited me to go with her to her work Christmas party which is out of town . I got really excited and said yes not realizing that it's the same day of my sons 14th birthday party. Then she tells me she rented a room and wants to stay the night because she will probably be drunk. I don't drink nor do I drive on the highway. I talked to her a couple days later and told her about his party and I couldn't cancel it and she said , oh no problem we can leave 2 hours after his party starts and your husband can take care of the rest. She made me fill guilty because she is getting an award for work and has no one else to go with her. I want to stay at my sons party and go with my family to the light parade after but I don't want to disappoint or even lose my friend. I'm lost I just don't know what to do.

As a younger girl what are some ways to deal with older women beating you up? For instance striking hard on your lower back in public in front of men and not speaking while serving other customers? Thanks

I'm a 21 year old guy. In the fall of 2018, I became friends at work with a girl my age. A co worker. I had a crush on her, but it was the work place so I never made a direct move or anything. We were just friends and I would hang out with her, take her to the mall, beach, out for ice cream, etc. anyhow, January of this year she changed. After being friends for about 3 months she started to tell me she was "busy" and she pretty much pushed me off. Then in May, she moved to another location to advance her career. We haven't had much contact since. We are on social media, and that's about it. She pretty much kicked me to the curb, to keep it short. I never heard from her anymore ever and if I texted her to say hi she would ignore me and never even say anything back. She actually called me last night interestingly enough and she asked me if I wanted to hang out with her and her friend. I told her I was working late and couldn't. And she said "Okay, well, text me!" Seems she misses me but I have mixed feelings on her. She clearly seems to want to hang out with me like we used to but I'm concerned. Do I take her back or no?? I feel like she doesn't deserve me. But then again, no ones ever really gone. Maybe she changed. I saw her boyfriend broke up with her, from social media. That's a piece to the puzzle of why she's reaching out to me with 7 months or so of silence. But I never thought she was romantically attracted to me. She always told me I was "innocent"