My boyfriend wants to practice Palo Mayombe.We have been together for 12 yrs. It is a cult practice that has roots in santeria. In the past he knew that I was not comfortable with this. I told him that it made me uncomfortable and if he were to get involved in that I would leave him. He tells me now, that he feels that this will help him and hes going to do it anyway. Is he being an asshole? I cried about this to him begging him not to do it, and hes like I dont know how to console you, and then tells me he doesnt know what to do.

My bf is 21 with autism so i don't know if it effects him socially. So whenever my bf is alone with his dad, he likes to call him 'baby' and casually talks about how sexy he is, doesn't mind if he's in his brief while they're alone but enforces it when i'm around, bf doesn't mind groping/ getting erect when he's around his dad and says he doesn't think about it when he's doing it, his dad doesn't mind if his son rubs his legs or rests he head on his lap. Am i suppose to be bothered or overthinking it?

My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year now. At 9 months (October) we went to my friend's apartment to carve pumpkins. He'd never met their dog before so when we walked in I want straight to talking to one of my friends and he greeted the dogs. I had my back to him when I heard this weird sound from the dog. I turned around to see my boyfriend profusely bleeding from his mouth. The dog had bitten across his lips drawing a diagonal from the corner of his nostril to the edge on his bottom lip. The bottom lip was horribly split and the top had a hole in it. I rushed him to the ER where he endured endless shots of numbing in his bite and 22 stitches. When everything first happened he was in pretty good spirits. But as time progressed it began to hit him, he couldn't smile for months, had to eat the same few things, had to waterfall every drink, couldn't brush his teeth, couldn't kiss me, lost his self-confidence, grew to fear dogs(even his own), and just became overall depressed. He told me recently that he wants to sue my friend's apt building and it scared me because I didn't want the building to retaliate (they don't have a lease agreement). Also it seems like his only motivation for doing all of this is to get enough money to move out which I feel is for the wrong reasons if it means messing up someone else's life. At first I tried to convince him not to do this but him not agreeing with me started to come between us so I dropped it to protect us. Is that wrong? 

I'm in sixth grade and my crush is in seventh.