This is a serious question and I seriously need advice. My history teacher is a large man who looks to be in his 30s with glasses and short hair with no beard and he's just nasty. He'll fart really loud while he teaches and laugh and sometimes he'll even go up to us and burp in our face which is extremely gross and makes me gag. everyone else laughs and cheers like it's funny but i don't like it and it's gross and i can't learn like that. He'll even sit on students including me and fart on our lap then get up. He'll also drink soda and burp loud over and over while he teaches and I don't know what to do because no one else thinks it's gross but me. I'm in high school btw

I love him so much but every time I see him he just never talks to me and avoids me and when I try to start something by going near him to try to hint i want to talk he goes away quickly and he's not shy because he's nice to everyone else and kind and only avoids me (i did harass him a year ago online but i apologized) so i don't know why he's doing this

I am so sad he does not visit on Christmas. He said he'd see me in March at a wedding. He lives only 45 minutes away but has a new wife. I know there is no Santa but a visit from Dad would be my request if there was one. I am 16 and how do I get him to visit me? It seems his new wife doesn't like it when he visits me cause it takes time away from her. He sees her two kids at Christmas. He sees them everyday. When I don't see him my mother bashes him to me and I feel disloyal listening to that but she doesn't stop. I am just really hurt. 

My husband has asked for my daughter (his step daughter) not to bring any of her toys, phone, tablet etc. basically anything nice that she gets...around his niece because it will hurt her feelings that she doesn't get nice things. She asks for things and usually my daughter will end up getting it and she doesn't. I work hard for the things I provide for my child and she would never rub it in someone's face that she has something they dont. The niece has a mom who doesn't do anything. He's also asked that anything he buys for my daughter, for us not to tell his niece or anyone that he bought anything for her. He said she gets sad when he buys things for my daughter and not her... Is he wrong?? Am I wrong for letting her take what she wants around the other child?  So basically this is more geared towards a phone. Both the girls asked for a phone and my daughter got one but niece's mom lied and didn't get hers. This happens with everything. Barbie dream house, tablet, shoes... everything. Husband says for my daughter not to bring the phone or tell anyone he helped to get it. 

She's always mean to me and singles me out and makes fun of me in front of the class and she gives me really low grades even though i try really hard on assignments and always do my homework. she always puts me down and the final straw happened when i put a lot of work into a test and studied hard and she gave me a 3/30 when everyone else passed, i was shocked because there's no way that was a fair grade when i put so much effort and knew everything

I've noticed a lot of women bosses that try to be men and do men's jobs, are unorganized, frustrated, and yell or act mean to nice guys. Why does this remind me of my mom and I find that I cannot tolerate the job or atmosphere because I left my mom ages ago. 

About a year ago, my older sister (26 turning 27 this month) moved in her boyfriend to my moms house because he didn't have a place to stay & would've had to move to chicago. For about six months it was just the four of us- my sis and her bf, me(20), & my mom. Anxiety runs in the family, so my sister & I hardly go anywhere, she stays in her room with her bf & I stay in mine. When I need to go downstairs, I'll ask her if "it's clear" to check if her boyfriend is in the room so he'll never see me undressed. I usually avoid seeing him at all costs because I'm hardly ever dressed. Anyways, about six months ago my older brother moved in to wait while his new house is finished being built. He & my sisters boyfriend have become best friends. Spending time sharing smoke breaks & laughs together, my sister included. My brother is bipolar and can be annoying at times, so my sis said moving in with him was never happening. However, my sister and I got into a dumb little argument over the weekend & my mom witnessed my sister being snappy. The following day after, I heard my brother and sister talking badly behind my back. My bro is desperate to convince her to move in w him & I assume is turning me into an excuse to. So, I simply vented to my narcissistic mom. My mom began calling her a ***** & saying she couldn't wait until they leave. She then told my sister behind my back that they need to move out with my brother when his house is finished. I feel terrible, as if it's my fault. 

Throughout the holidays I get this feeling like I am being disloyal. Our parents are not real close and we only see each other at large family gatherings. I call with sports tickets in the summer but they are not interested. I saw them last in September of last year at a funeral. One was away at school and I have not seen him in 3 years since he was in high school. I am 23 myself. So how do I stop feeling so bad over this? I feel guilty like I am being disloyal. Also I fear they might not think of me as part of the extended family. My Mom has two sisters and they are close to each other but not at all to my Mom. As a result they are not real interested in me though nice if they have to see me. I do see her brother's two kids a lot as she is close to her brother.

Lady treats me very badly. She acts ghetto, is very unorganized. She tries to do everything and act tough. Then has is panicking last minute telling us to stay late.  Cussed at me, and I feel I do a very good job. Others said I am doing well and she shouldn't be in charge. I also hurt my back, so I called out. My boss at my employment agency said I can either go back, or he will find me a new job. I work for a place that find you jobs. The pay is only minimum wage to put up with so much crap. A lot of workers are on drugs, and its chaotic.

It's a long story. Sorcery was involved. She has no memory of it so I'm not sure if I should tell her.

Me and my sister are 19 and 20 and hit each other when we are mad. Is this normal?

I wanna speak my mind to my older cousin but good chance he'll get really mad and start grabbing trying to take me down. He's 2× bigger, stronger, he's been in fights and I haven't. So I have no experience. Everytime when someone spits truth at him he gets really mad and wants to fight. All I wanna tell him is stop being jealous of other people. He lectures me, my brother and I. Yet he's done hardcore drugs and drinked and drive multiple times. My brother and I have never done any of those things.

Long story short my husbands 30 year old brother is an alcohol and still lives at home with their mom. We use to live with her for a while before we finally moved out for our own safety and sanity. Anyway my husbands brother asked their mom if his buddy could live with them "temporarily" until he finds his own place. She said he seems like a nice guy. Doesn't smoke or drink (which seems like a lie considering all his brother's friends are drug dealers and not nice people), has a dog (14 year old that will be living outside since she does not want dogs in the house) and it's xmas so she feels like she can't say no cus it's the season to be nice. She's on the fence about it still because she can't understand why. 35 year old can't get a roommate but she also said she could use the money. Anyway she wanted our opinion about the temporary situation. We don't think it's a good idea but it's her house her rules. We both think it's a little weird (esp since their dad is in tje hospital and isn't supposed to know about it cuz he'll be gone when he gets home supposedly) and aren't sure what to tell her. I'm thinking we should stay out of it and hope it doesn't blow up and we have to be the ones who fix the mess (cuz God forbid my husbands brother is ever responsible for his actions). But we just want his mom to be safe and this situation sounds like a mess.

I used to like Christmas but I don't anymore cause my Mom doesn't let me see my Dad cause he left us by divorcing her. She says he left both of us and my sister but I feel she was the only one he left. He tried to reach out to us but my Mom doesn't let us. It is still 4 years till I am 18 and can see him and I haven't liked Christmas anymore because of it. This is the 3rd bad Christmas. They divorced in 2016. 

I remember when I was a kid, whenever my cousin (female, about the same age) would stay over at our house, my mom would purposely have us bathe together.  This happened from when we were about 6 until about 7 years old.  I definitely have memories of it. As an adult looking back it makes me wonder why my mom did that. At first I thought maybe to save time, just give one bath instead of two.  But, in an odd way it occurred to me that it might have been my mom's passive way of teaching us about the opposite sex body.  (my mom was kind of like that, for example she had me play with one of my cousins who had chicken pox so that I would get it because she thought it was better to get it as a child) My cousin and I definitely checked each other out and sometimes even commented about each other's bodies. 7 years old seems kind of old to bathe opposite sex together, especially when they are aware that they have different bodies. Do you think my mom wanted us to see each other naked? Or just her way of saving time?   Obviously, I'm not going to ask my mom.

I am going to go to the family celebrations and this toxic sister will be at either both or for sure the one on Dec. 28th. She is cruel and a child-like bully as an adult. So I get nervous very easily, how do I avoid this when I have to see this sister who I last saw in August?

Me and my brother in law have our own band I'm the bass player he's the drummer we're having our first concert on Friday. Even though I'm the bass player I still sing some songs I have my own song I wrote and sing. We sing everything from 90's country to 80's rock we have our own songs too. Next Saturday is the anniversary of Sandy Hook shooting we were all teens when it happened I remember it well I was with my wife who I barely knew at the time she was one of my good friends she's my brother in law's sister of course we were in the hospital with her that night she had the flu I remember when it came on the news we were in the hospital room watching it. We decided to pay a little tribute to the kids and teachers who was killed that day with my luck I may be singing these songs I know they'll make me cry especially since now I have a daughter who's 10 months old I'll be thinking about her probably when I sing the songs. Back then I was 15 years old boy going crazy stupid online being like everyone else freaking out I was one of those people at the time who said they never wanted kids because of this shooting. That's what all our friends were saying. I'm 22 now in a way now that I have a daughter it still makes me nervous thinking about her future and her going to school it worries me also thinking of all these kids who died just a week before Christmas 7 years ago. Is it OK to cry ?

Ridiculous

It happens every single time. Im schizophrenic and sometimes its hard to function im lazy i have no income and i dont go back to school til spring i live upstairs in a duplex my dad pays rent for. My mom and brother live downstairs. My life sucks. Their is always dishes in the sink and my bedroom living room is filled with junk. Plus my mother is always nagging or conplaining or talking about me. Im insignaificant have no money. I want to be smart rich a good rolemodel and i want to get married have a house a business and kids but my mom is not supportive of that. Im 21 and disabled. My disability is schizophrenia. I go see a therapist and doctor and take medication but havent found a medicafion that works. Sometimes when im around my mother i get a feeling that someone is touching me in my privates i get really uncomfortavle and usually leave. Tge same happens around my brother and sister but never my dad. My mom gets mad at me when i tell her the things i want. A typical day in my life is eating and being on my phone all day. I dont know what im supposed to be doing. But my brother and mom ryin every effort i try to put in things they usually make me angry and then i end up going off and vack to the hospital but i know now that im an adult i can go to prison. I have been threatened to be kicked out on several occasions and i have no where else to go. Ignoring doesnt work for me. My sister is argumentative and comes over and calls me out about my life. What do i do?

So I dropped my 5 year old daughter off at her usual daycare center and went to work and when I came to pick her up I walked into the center and walked past a room with a girl screaming and crying inside while a woman beat her while she cried and then i went into my daughters room and she was on the floor and had a bruise and said she was beat for leaving a tissue on the floor and i immediately took her home and filed a police report against the daycare, next steps?

It really makes me angry and I sometimes say to my self when I get money I'll cut her off but she's my mother. But it gets to me cause My grades aren't bad in quarter 2 I have a, A,B,C,B,C how can I get my grades up and stop procrastinated to shove my grades in their faces.

Im confused. My parents have some property I have a small house on. I fell into hard times for 6 years. As of yesterday I now have a great job. I worked constantly but for low pay. Now I don't have to struggle!   My dad however is angry at me because I drink alcohol and so does my new boyfriend. He has picked fights with him over it. Small ones.  For some reason now he found this other guy "Chad" who has been wanting to hunt their property constantly asking my dad for years to hunt. My dad said he traded fence help for Chad hunting the whole property exclusively. My dad never asks me for help anymore which is weird... My Dad says I can't hunt anymore there. He said I have to let him know when I'm at my house (not my boyfriend's) because this guy "Chad" and his friends will be hunting.... I'm a big hunter and he knows it will make me furious. I guess my dad hates me? It sucks because I just got this great job and want to help my parents. It's weird. I just told my Dad he'll get what he wants and I'm distancing myself... too scared to look at my phone. He messes with my mind?!