What are some of the best places you've visited in the world that would be great for a honeymoon? Doesn't have to be tropical or what you might consider a typical honeymoon destination. We are just looking for some ideas to throw around besides just what you find when you Google "honeymoon destination." Thanks in advance :)

I am getting married this year and am afraid I will feel down in the dumps on the big day. This always happens on days when I want to feel happy such as my birthday as a kid and now as a young adult on Christmas. I am not having a huge wedding because of this (50 guests on my side and 50 on husbands). I am very afraid of this. How do I make this not happen or minimize it if it does?

I get overwhelmed when too many people want my attention at once and I don't want to spend my wedding day with high anxiety, how do I keep it small without hurting anyone's feeling by inviting just a few members of the family. Because I want certain cousins and aunts there. My mom was 1 of 9 and they each had about 3 kids and then they've gone and had about 2 kids each. That's just my mom side and not including my dad's or the groom's! And no, I do not want to run off and elope. I want a small service with loved ones.

My siblings and I were excluded when all my other cousins were welcome there and even two or three 2nd cousins. It hurts so much to be 2nd class. I feel like a 2nd rate family member. The wedding was recently and I still am in pain. The bride and her new husband will likely see me in September at the wedding for another cousin and that will open the pain. I assume I should still be cordial. They are not mean or anything, but my Dad does now get along with their Mom so we don't see them as often as the other cousins. How do I get over the pain of being a 2nd class citizen in the extended family?